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 Jun 24 2006, 02:08 PM
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so yea.. i realized.. i've "lost"/ become veryyyy distant with almost all my friends because i dont spend anymore time with them.. i understand why it's happening and all.. it's cause of my boyfriends.. since we go to the same school, we spend nearly all our time together.. during lunch.. in between classes.. yea.. you get the idea.. apparently we're known as the couple that's stuck to each other like glue.. (probably some other things.. but i never heard).. im still super close with my bf.. but im finally realizing how much i miss my friends.. and they.. well.. you can tell they dont really try/want to talk to me anymore...
 just wondering if this has ever happened to you..? loosing friends because you're spending too much time with your bf?  if you have any ideas how i can become closer with them would be great too...(other than just talking with them.. cause i think it'd be akward.. i mean.. "hi.. yea.. i ditched you for my bf for almost half a year now.. but yea.. let's talk cause i have time for you again..."  thanks |
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Jun 24 2006, 02:16 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
You just have to manage your time. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to spend all your time with him. If you are that close with him he should be able to understand that. I imagine he has lost friends because of you aswell so I am sure he feels the same way.
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Jun 24 2006, 04:05 PM
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yeah its happening right now.. ihave to say my 'bestfriend' is acting dumb b/c she rather spend time w/ her lame boyfriend [who i think is retarted b/c the dude cheated on her] and she takes him back.. too much to say but this dude is an a-hole and she rather choses her boyfriend over her bestfriends [not only me]
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Jun 24 2006, 05:28 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(Skyline Drive @ Jun 24 2006, 2:16 PM)  You just have to manage your time. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to spend all your time with him. If you are that close with him he should be able to understand that. I imagine he has lost friends because of you aswell so I am sure he feels the same way. i agree.. you will have to find some way to get your friends back because they should not be the ones talkin to you because you chose your boyfriend over hanging out with them so YOU should be the one talkin to them and trying everyway to get them back..and he should do the same with his own friends..hope everything turns out okay. =) |
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Jun 24 2006, 05:51 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
It happens a lot..Some of my friends be distant from me for the boyfriend too..like they`ll rather choose them over me or something..but yeah I suggest to keep in touch with your friends.
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Jun 24 2006, 08:18 PM
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This has happend to me..
-_- I try my best to make time for every one but since my bf has been working.. I have been hanging out with the girls and when he has off I hang out with him.. :-( I miss him.. -_- |
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