ever feel like..., your friends are better than you? |
 Jun 24 2006, 12:27 PM
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 i think you're stupid.  Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203  |
do you every feel like your friends have more money or are prettier than you? i do sometimes. i almost always feel pretty and fortunate when i'm at my house or with family. i think it might be because they love me and i don't have to impress them. but when i'm with some of my friends i suddenly feel like i'm not so pretty. i go shopping with them, to movies, or over to their houses (which are of course huge) and i feel like they have so much more than i do. they shop at abercrombie and lacoste just because they can. sometimes i get sick of it. even though they're my really good friends, i sometimes feel like i'm not rich or pretty enough to hang out with them. everyone says that they'll mature in a year or two and everything will be fine. i really hope so.
has anybody felt like this? what happened? |
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Jun 24 2006, 12:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 345,671 |
QUOTE(colleen92 @ Jun 24 2006, 10:27 AM)  i almost always feel pretty  Anyway, Abercrombie sucks. I hate it. But I loveeeeee Lacoste, they're not that expensive. Eh, it doesn't really happen to me because I don't get jealous of my friends. I just wish I had a big house. :( SUZZETTE IS A HO?!?!?! |
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Jun 24 2006, 12:43 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(buckfuddy @ Jun 24 2006, 1:34 PM) But I loveeeeee Lacoste, they're not that expensive. it's like $80 for a polo 
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Jun 24 2006, 01:43 PM
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 GOLDEN. Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,497 |
i guess i have felt that way at some point, but learnt to accept my "good qualities" and also the bad. understand that your friends love you for who you are [: or they should, and if they don't, then they really aren't your friends at all.
and there are also others way to be fashionable! abercrombie and lacoste aren't the only stores out there. |
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Jun 24 2006, 02:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 424,880 |
I guess my friends were considered the "elite" group in high school. Among us were the valedictorian, salutatorian, student govt president, varsity soccer team members, and so much more. I'm a bit mediocore at best. I know they loved me and they never made me feel smaller than them and all.. but you wish you were as good as them at times. Now we're off to college and most of us are ending up at a local university. But a few are off to Ivy leauges and special programs on full rides. Hopefully I'll find even footing there.
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Jun 24 2006, 02:35 PM
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I have nothing to be jealous of when it came to my friends. Beauty isn't everything.
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Jun 24 2006, 02:55 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
^ agreed.
Nope. I've never been one to be jealous of friends or think I'm less than them. It's just not in me. I'm just really laid back and I don't care. I guess. |
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Jun 24 2006, 04:01 PM
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its competiton... its totally normal.
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Jun 24 2006, 04:50 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(Listelle @ Jun 24 2006, 3:16 PM) I know they loved me and they never made me feel smaller than them and all.. but you wish you were as good as them at times. exactly. they don't make me feel bad, they're really good people. but sometimes i just wish i had it as good as them |
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Jun 24 2006, 05:17 PM
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i dont ever feel jealousy with my friends because they are really cool with me its the other bitches in my skool that i have to worry about but i carry myself with confidence because instead of feeling jealous i feel flattered that they go to the farthest extent to make me jealous im like dang am i ALWAYS on your mind? and i jus walk off laughin and damn do they hate it LOL!
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Jun 24 2006, 05:53 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Sometimes I feel that way..sometimes I wish I had what they had(like clothes etc.) But I bet they feel that way about you too.
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Jun 24 2006, 08:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
Once in a while this happends to me not alot. :-]
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Jun 25 2006, 12:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
Yeah a lot of my friends are more outgoing than I am, I tend to be a bit more reserved and worrisome. I wish I could be like them sometimes.
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Jun 25 2006, 04:23 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
Well, my friends aren't exactly uber rich and pretty and stuff. I go to a Christian school that costs 3,000 a year, and the majority of them have siblings (some in Christian high schools, which cost like 7,000 a year) So the majority of their parents have already spent almost all their big bucks on school, so we're all pretty even in the money area...
But prettier? DEFINATELY. Skinnier? ALWAWYS. And not just looks, either. It feels like everybody else has such a nice, likeable personality... I don't know... maybe it's because I try too hard. But I mean shouldn't those who try their hardest be rewarded? |
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Jun 25 2006, 04:45 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
One friend in particular. She's absolutely gorgeous, amazingly hard-working, intelligent, friendly and very outspoken. I would hate her if she wasn't such an awesome person.
I don't know, I got to know her a lot better. Beneath all the surface stuff that people see, she's just like any of us. Just as insecure, just as goofy, has just as many problems. I can't hate her. In fact, I love her. I still wish I was like her, though. |
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