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post Jun 23 2006, 10:33 PM
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So, when it's over is it really really over? Do your feelings and 'i-love-you's ever really go away entirely? Do people ever rediscover each other years later, after they've both matured and grown? I got dumped because we didn't make eachother happy anymore and both wanted different things (in terms of intensity). We had something, I think. Is it possible, or plausible, to get back together with an ex later on in life?

and I swear I won't make another post about my realationship problems because I'm even annoying myself, sorry CB.
 
 
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SimplicityGirl
post Jun 23 2006, 10:54 PM
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I suppose its possible...but that depends on how mature the two people are later in life. I would personally never get back with an ex...because you two broke up for a reason...but if you give it a try, and talk it over, I don't see why it shouldn't work out the seond time around. Just be careful though...don't expect them to be the same person, and don't ever bring up the past. If they could break your heart once, they certainly are able to break it again.
 
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post Jun 23 2006, 11:03 PM
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it is possible, but don't hang yourself up on it... don't wait for someone who you don't have a relationship with... just experience life the way you normally would. If it happens it happens, and if you find someone better (which is highly possible, whether you realize it or not) you make-up for the break-up.

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as for the question: me and one of my ex's got back together and it only made things worse
 
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post Jun 23 2006, 11:10 PM
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It is possible, but you shouldn't wait for him. Like that one quote says, if it was meant to be, then you two will get back together again.
 
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post Jun 24 2006, 12:35 AM
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Seems possible.I`ve seen it happen a lot of times.
 
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post Jun 24 2006, 04:02 PM
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all the above.. most has happened but now that ive finally moved on.. i can finally go out with whoever i please [w/o having a guilt of my ex]... im still waiting on this one dude who likes me and i like him.. just waiting til he asks me out!!
 
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post Jun 24 2006, 08:16 PM
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ive been guilty of it twice. the first time was a horrible relationship, i wasnt happy and i was basically using him now that i look back on it. i just needed someone to "love me" and that wasnt right to treat him the way i did. but the second time i did it was because i needed him to see that i was dealing with the crap by myself. when he just said let it slide, it wasnt working when i got the the backlash. eventually we worked everything out and we are back and happier... rolleyes.gif

but you gotta be careful. if you broke up because you just didnt feel it anymore, then its time to move on. but if you still have feelings for him then its ok to relook the relationship. just remember why yall split. and go from there
 
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post Jun 24 2006, 08:29 PM
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I change that.. I would like to say yes.. when we went on "brake" in april.. so.. yeah if thats what you mean yes..
 
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post Jun 24 2006, 09:52 PM
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I broke up with my girl a lot of times but I always came back with her a few months later. But she broke up with me for another guy and after she found out that he was cheating on her. A few months later me and her got back together. But it's not the same anymore, she told her best friend that she is just using me as a rebound. I know everything but I still want to be with her because I love her. I still can't get over her.....but I am slowly. I am just waiting for the right girl to come up. But I hate waiting! ermm.gif
 
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post Jun 25 2006, 11:17 AM
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yup got back with this one girl 8 times we couldnt make up our minds lol
 
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post Jun 25 2006, 11:19 AM
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i was close to it. (after i dumped him). & we were together for 6 months so i was really confused about my feelings. but then i just sucked it all up & got over it. he hasn't talked to me in more than a year & we see each other almost every day, mellow.gif
 
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post Jun 25 2006, 02:48 PM
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A couple of times before I have hookup with an ex, never worked out afterwards so eventually I dropped it.
 
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post Jun 25 2006, 03:15 PM
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getting back with a past lover you really need to think hard about it, easpecially over the reason you broke up in the first place. You both need to talk over why you would want to get back together the reason you both broke up in the first place. Its going to be a lot harder then what it was in the first place.

But yes I do believe that people could get back together and it work out, its hard though. Most people don't actually last when they get back together.
 
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post Jun 25 2006, 10:47 PM
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i break up with girls because they become fag bags

i dont go out with fag bags -.-
 
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post Jun 25 2006, 10:50 PM
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nope, almost though.
 
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post Jun 30 2006, 09:12 AM
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HELL NO.
All the guys I dated are like..

omg -_-;;;
I don't want to explain.


this is funny...
whats next now -_-;;
 
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post Jun 30 2006, 11:30 AM
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This post made me think alot about what i wanted to do & what im not going to do:)
 
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post Jun 30 2006, 09:43 PM
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Yes, it's possible. Me and my boyfriend were apart for some time, but then we got back together.

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