SHES FREAKIN ME OUT, please gimme sum advice |
 Jun 13 2006, 11:14 PM
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okay this gurl is my best friend but like shes all girly*pink*fluffy if u kno wat i mean & im like all tomboy*black*plaid .. but now shes tryin 2 act & talk like shes not girlie but shes only doin it 2 impress me so ill think shes cool..i no that bcuz i over heard her talkin 2 sum1 about it..i dont kno wat 2 do..help please..
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| *mipadi* |
Jun 13 2006, 11:19 PM
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Tell her you like her, pink frilly shit and all.
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Jun 13 2006, 11:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,520 |
but like shes tryin 2 get me 2 be like her && when i refuse she duz sumthin else that i want her 2..like shell keep askin me DO U LIKE IT SHOULD I CHANGE IT about stuff && shell do w/e i say...its weird..its like im her boss or sumthin...
i dont kno what 2 do..she needs 2 be herself && stop tryin 2 impress me |
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Jun 13 2006, 11:26 PM
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I think you should just confront her. Tell her you like her just the way she is and that she shouldn't try and change for you or anybody else. It's like letting somebody else decide who you are.. And what kind of sane person does that? Not the insane kind, that's what.. (Ignore the last part.. I'm sort of insane myself >.<;;)
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Jun 13 2006, 11:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,520 |
thanx ... but u dint kno how 2 tell her..what should i say?
like how should i start the convo? |
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Jun 14 2006, 04:35 AM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
Just tell her you need to talk to her and that you like her for who she really is. She doesn't have to put up an act or do whatever you say to get you to like her. You may also want to throw in something about how her always doing what you say makes you feel weird.
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Jun 14 2006, 08:29 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Wow.. some people have such hard problems.
Taylor`` |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Jun 14 2006, 09:12 AM
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^ LMFAO!
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| *Programmer* |
Jun 14 2006, 09:31 AM
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dude....get a clue.....she likes you....and she's willing to do w/e....to get that...it seems like...
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Jun 14 2006, 10:14 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
^ Yeah, take advantage of it.
 Just kidding. Just straight up tell her and uhm..find a friend not so easily influenced. 
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 14 2006, 06:08 PM
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tell her that she should be herself and not have to impress others.
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| *Zatanna* |
Jun 14 2006, 06:12 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 13 2006, 9:19 PM)  Tell her you like her, pink frilly shit and all. This is good advice, seriously. You could always, I don't know, communicate with her what you've communicated here about this situation. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 14 2006, 08:04 PM
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tell her how it is ;)
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Jun 14 2006, 08:45 PM
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 Oshare♥Love Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,975 |
Imitation is the best form of flattery.
But I guess...as everyone ELSE said, tell her. |
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Jun 16 2006, 12:34 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Talk to her about it and tell her stuff like she doesn`t have to change just for u?
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Jun 30 2006, 02:41 AM
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 GOLDEN. Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,497 |
tell your best friend that you like her as she was, as herself.
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Jun 30 2006, 03:16 AM
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 banana ham! Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 14 2006, 8:29 AM) Wow.. some people have such hard problems. Taylor``  Just act girly and stuffs. 
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Jul 4 2006, 04:08 PM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
Just say to her, "just be yourself!! and let me be MYself! end of story!!!"
then if she doesn't accept that... then just give her some time to think about it. |
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Jul 4 2006, 08:04 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
i'd probably be a complete bitch about it and I'D start acting different, not girly or tomboy, but like a complete MORON so maybe she'd copy it. then i'd laugh at her.
maybe she'd get it then. no i don't know. lol don't listen to me nevermind. just tell her you're friends with her because of who she is now, not who she's trying to be. |
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Jul 4 2006, 09:11 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
Tell her that you like her the way she really is.
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Jul 6 2006, 11:47 AM
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 dismantled desire Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 339,497 |
Yeah like everyone else said, just tell her
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