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I went to a party a couple nights ago, and my best friend thinks its sluty for people to grind. And my boyfriend and I started grinding, but I really didn't consider it that, and we're going out & everyone was doing it so I didn't think she would be like EW! But she was like "um you were GRINDING..."
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I don't really see anything wrong with it unless you guys are like 12 years old.
She is probably an undercover slut anyhow. |
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WHOA grinding is not sluty lol it just depends on how old you are lol and how you do it ....
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well if you're like...a teeny middle schooler then its like "uhh....children?" but i guess its not that bad as long as you're doing it with your bf/gf or someone you know, and not just some random stranger.
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![]() banana ham! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 ![]() |
yeah.. i don`t think grinding is sluty. she`s probally jus mad cause she cant do it.
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I agree with sunshine, above me. &It can seem sluty when you aren't used to going to partys and seeing ppl do it. But come on, if you're grinding with your bf whats the big deal?
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Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty.
To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. |
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i dont see a problem if its your bf.
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Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. Agreed. If you're very young like 11 or 12 years old and you are "grinding", I can understand why one might call you slutty. Grinding is just an intimate (and not very classy) way of dancing. |
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Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. Yeah. I don't think it's slutty, but I don't like it. If you were 11 or somewhere around that age, however, yes, I would consider that slutty. |
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I love getting dry humped, I mean grinding.
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^Lol.
QUOTE Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. Agreed. And will people stop spelling it sluty? Please. |
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What ever people are comfortable doing and their not taking it to far. Then I could care less. So sometimes yes it can be quite slutty.
i don't find it very respectful or "classy" though. |
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Grinding in public is slutty.
Wait, grinding as in dry humping or as in dancing? Dry humping in public is slutty. |
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were any guys dancing with your friend during all this.
most girls i know that say that type of stuff look like yeti's |
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Thats what I'm talking about!! Oops, I mean, I respect your opinion.
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I don't see anything wrong with grinding, as long as it's at a dance or a club. But if it's done at the wrong place, then that's slutty. But he's your boyfriend, that's cute. No problem with that.
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i think its fun, theres nothing nasty about that. she could just be paraniod because she doesnt have the skills to grind. thats what i thought until i was comfortable enough to let myself go. then again, i let go with my boyfriend and not some random stranger. it all depends on where you are, dance/club/school peprally are ok. but church/school hallway/mall are not
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LIke freaking? Dancing? I dont see how thats slutty..
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Everyone else does it, why can't you? Maybe she's just a prude =o
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It depends just how far grinding goes...at a point, it can become slutty, but otherwise no. Also depends on the circumstances of course, like where & when.
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^i agree, it's ok to a certain point.
And what's wrong with perfect strangers? you don't go to a club with your boyfriend. |
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^ Lol, agreed.
At the end of the year dance, I saw 7th graders grind and they were all wild and crap. No. Just stop it. ![]() |
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I don't think it's bad if it's with your boyfriend. But then again it depends what kind of grind.
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It depends when, where and with who. If it was, for example, at midday, at the park with a complete stranger you just picked up, it's slutty. But, if it was at night, in a party with your boyfriend, then its normal.
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It depends when, where and with who. If it was, for example, at midday, at the park with a complete stranger you just picked up, it's slutty. But, if it was at night, in a party with your boyfriend, then its normal. ![]() lmao. *walking through park* hey! lets GRIND! XD |
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ugh, i went to this party in a hotel ballroom once and these 7th grade sluts were grinding on EACHOTHER and some highschool boys. ewh.
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well its not the classist thing ever, but there nothing wrong with being a little slutty in public I think lol As long as ur of an ok age and its at a club/party...most girls who say its slutty either can't do it and are jealous secretly, or they're a little on the prude side. Nothing wrong with either, just do ur thing. he's ur boyfriend...with strangers its a little sketchy...
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My momma always say grindin is a way to get preggers without having to take off any clothing or lying down in bed
just keed How old are you? We had a dance for 8th grade and some 6th graders crashed and danced. They looked so stupid, non-curvy with flat-ass kids grinding to 4'7 boys. I think grinding is alright but if you do it so young, then it's just funny and weird to look at |
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Quite true, Yen speaks.
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yay
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Hmmm...How would you know?
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i dont think its slutty
but i think dancing should be ...dancing! not a guy jacking off using a girls butt. |
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i dont know about you all but i love grinding--
![]() QUOTE i dont think its slutty but i think dancing should be ...dancing! not a guy jacking off using a girls butt. lol the guy doesn't jack off...something just stands up and pays attention--haha! |
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well..i think its an excuse for people to get super close to each other but i don't mind it hahah
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I'd rather not do it, but hey, whatever floats your boat.
I'm not here to judge haha. |
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Depends on how you do it.
Casual fun dancing? Sure, whatever. Dancing in a suggestive and obviously slutty manner? Please spare us the images. |
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what if you have a boyfriend, but you grind with other guys behind his back?
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heh that's the fun part. as long as it's not too dirty
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dude, like seriously. its not that big of a deal.
unless your like, 11 or some sh*t. i was at prom. but not in the nasty "lets make babies on the dance floor" way. just...a little grind here or there. |
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^ Lol, agreed. At the end of the year dance, I saw 7th graders grind and they were all wild and crap. No. Just stop it. ![]() lol ya im 13 and people who're like 12 and under should not get involved with grinding ![]() |
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nah it's not slutty. and it's fine if it's ur boyfriend
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It's fun, so fun, GREAT FUN, but it's very un-lady like, i can say that.
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i do it i do it haha [:
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I dunno...when it's at dances and stuff, it looks kind of wrong.
Feel free to do it in the privacy of your own home, but, I really don't find anything great about it. That's just me though... |
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It's only slutty if:
A)you're like 11 years old B)It's with some random person C)It's with someone elses boyfriend |
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It depends when, where and with who. If it was, for example, at midday, at the park with a complete stranger you just picked up, it's slutty. But, if it was at night, in a party with your boyfriend, then its normal. Why would you be grinding with some stranger in the middle of a park?![]() My momma always say grindin is a way to get preggers without having to take off any clothing or lying down in bed ![]() ![]() Heh, whatever it's just dancing people or dry sex ![]() |
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the dances in 2006 are getting really wild... its getting very sexual [etc etc] but what can you do.. some people prefer to dance this way and that... your friend shouldnt be the one to judge, if she doesnt it like it, thats HER problem...
btw --i DONT find grinding horrible... |
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i think grinding is somewhat sluty... but not really it depends..
i mean a slut is who wants sex every sec and then and now.. not someuone who dancing dritty. i dance dirty. and im a punk ish band geek. |
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i don't really like it. & i think it could be slutty. maaan i wish people would dance like how they danced before (the 70s or 80s or something)....
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^ LOL, Ew.
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hahaha i agree with ppl b4 me. depends on the age and how u do it. It can be a little extreem but usually not. It can be fun
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Having some random stranger grinding his privates against my ass is not something I'm comfortable with. If it was my boyfriend...I wouldn't mind.
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personally, I think it's icky with any age, but especially when you're like 12
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OGM R U A VERGINN???????????!26!!
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You're acting like a nun. Oh, my God....grinding is soooooooooooooo BAD. YOU'RE ALL GOING TO HELL.
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uhh I was just stating my opinion
I don't like grinding, so what? that doesn't make me a nun |
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i think it depends on your age. |
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i think it depends
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it all depends how the chick does it.
usually we 'grind' facing each other. but as far as the latest dances in the club..shizz....it's all about the 'lean wit it, rock wit it', 'snap ya fingers', 'shoulder lean'...i go crazyyyyyyy. hahaha. =X |
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They should have played Pretty Ricky - Grind With Me
perfect grinding song. Im telling you people are sleeping on Pretty Ricky, it must stop. |
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[font=Arial][color=#339999][b]i think that grinding is fine to do if your at like a party or dance and its not slutty at all, but like if you just do it like in a park like someone said before its totally wrong.
even if its just random people its fine cause like it doesnt really mean anything its just having a good time with people. ![]() But then on the other hand if it was like someones boyfriend then like its probably not the best thing to do,and like if your like under the age of like 12 its wrong, or if your totally wasted and you like start making out and grinding like seriously.. no one needs to see that. ![]() |
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i don't think it really matters, as long as you're not getting all over eachother like
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hahahah your friend is soo immature! if she thinks its nasty then she should cover her eyes =] well grinding isnt nasty its jus a way to dance? its kinda like having sex but with clothes on ahahh!
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UGH! You're friend is probably jealous and doesn't know how to grind herself. Naw, it just shows that your growing to the level where you do those kind of stuff. It's perfectly normal. Just tell your friend that and maybe she'll start to grow up.
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It's not exactly slutty, it's just more of a girls butt on top of a guys manhood shaking it around. I can see why someone might call it slutty if its like 11-12 year olds doing it.
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i dont think it is...
but yea if you havnt done it then it may seem sluty... |
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depends on who's doing it.
i don't think i'd be comfortable doing it... |
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^more like depends on how many people you do it on...
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