My ex is confusing. |
 Jun 3 2006, 11:38 AM
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About a two months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me and gave me the reason as "I think you're too preoccupied with other things" and "I don't think you're ready for a relationship". So we still were talking after that, and we were "friends". A couple of weeks ago, a bunch of our friends went to jack in the box to hang out and stuff, and then me, him, my brother, and my other friend all went to my friend's house, but my brother and friend were out of the room, so my ex asked me if i still had feelings for him? (I said no, cause I don't). And we didn't talk for a while, but then on thursday he told me that I "look beautiful today, you look different" (I just got a haircut, bangs and everything). And he had this look in his eyes like he just wanted to rip my clothes off...
It's really weird because he's the one who broke up me. What do you guys think? |
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Jun 3 2006, 02:08 PM
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maybe he just wanted some time off?
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Jun 3 2006, 02:19 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Was there anything else going on between you two when he broke up with you? Any problems other than maybe you did have a lot on your plate to have a relationship?
He could just have wanted some time off or something, true, but then again I don't think he'd lie about it. Would he? From your story it doesn't seem like he had a reason to, but then again we don't know all the facts. I'm just guessing. I say just talk to him and straighten it out. |
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Jun 3 2006, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Jun 3 2006, 2:19 PM)  Was there anything else going on between you two when he broke up with you? Any problems other than maybe you did have a lot on your plate to have a relationship? He could just have wanted some time off or something, true, but then again I don't think he'd lie about it. Would he? From your story it doesn't seem like he had a reason to, but then again we don't know all the facts. I'm just guessing. I say just talk to him and straighten it out. No, I didn't have any other problems. And he may have wanted time off. I just don't really know, except that I don't need a relationship right now with him or with anyone else right now, because I'm moving to Houston.. blech. I think I will just talk to him.. sort it out. |
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Jun 3 2006, 02:56 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
At first, he probably did not feel ready to date you. Then he realized that he made a mistake, and still has feelings for you.
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Jun 3 2006, 03:01 PM
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well first off you need to fix your signature..
resize the pictures or something or a mod is going to edit your signature and tell you to fix it. anyway. Even if he broke up with you doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you. I mean he told you that he didn't think you were ready for a relationship..aparently it seems like you didn't really care that he broke up with you by the impression i got from what you said. Are you ready for a relationship and if you wanted to be with him then maybe you should have proved to him that you are ready for a relationship. Maybe your to occupied with life and other things then be in a relationship which is probably what he meant as well.. so to be ready for a relationship you need to take the time out of your life for him as well.. I mean if you don't have any more feelings for your ex then don't worry about it so much. |
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Jun 3 2006, 03:11 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
He probably does like you..like he said..he thinks your not ready for a relationship with him because he thinks your preouccpied with other things.He probably does like you and wants to be with you but wants to wait until he thinks your ready.
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Jun 3 2006, 05:15 PM
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QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jun 3 2006, 3:11 PM) He probably does like you..like he said..he thinks your not ready for a relationship with him because he thinks your preouccpied with other things.He probably does like you and wants to be with you but wants to wait until he thinks your ready. Could be right, and as the person above you, I guess I shouldn't be so worried... |
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Jun 4 2006, 12:02 PM
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He was probably just confused when he broke up with you. Breaking up with someone doesn't mean you don't like them anymore; it means you feel the need to be apart. And it sounds to me like he's the one who's not ready to be in a relationship.
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