mad on your birthday? |
 May 24 2006, 07:06 PM
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Well my bf and i got into an arguement over the stupidiest misunderstanding...and we're kinda on that silent treatment kind of thing right now..
Tomorrow is his birthday should i just forget about the way he acted and proceed with his birthday surprise , or stand strong until he apologizes? or says sumthing? i'm still angry right now...but i still wanna work things out... i feel that i shouldn't just forget it JUST because it's his bday, but on the other hand.. would that make me a total b*tch for dragging the arguement... sigh. |
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May 24 2006, 07:09 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you don't have to forget that this argument happened. just go on with his birthday surprise and then talking to him about that argument afterwards.
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May 24 2006, 08:11 PM
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Weeelll, what was it Aboout ? Is this arguement really worth dragging during his birthday, or is it something you feel you could dismiss so you could both be happy on his special Daay ?
Either way, continue with what you planned & try to work things out . |
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May 24 2006, 08:26 PM
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yea uh, me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday over something really stupid (apparently i was wrong when i wasnt, ive chatted with a few close friends) and my birthday was today...and she returned the two hundred dollars worth of stuff she got me yesterday...without having her, i in fact had a horrible birthday.
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May 24 2006, 08:28 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(nikkkkki @ May 24 2006, 9:11 PM)  Weeelll, what was it Aboout ? Is this arguement really worth dragging during his birthday, or is it something you feel you could dismiss so you could both be happy on his special Daay ? Either way, continue with what you planned & try to work things out . QUOTE Well my bf and i got into an arguement over the stupidiest misunderstanding...and we're kinda on that silent treatment kind of thing right now.. If it was just a misunderstanding, why would you drag it out? Be the bigger person and apologize first - birthdays are a big deal. |
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May 24 2006, 09:18 PM
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nicorie Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,679 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ May 24 2006, 8:09 PM) you don't have to forget that this argument happened. just go on with his birthday surprise and then talking to him about that argument afterwards. i was about to say something like that. You shouldn't hold something against your boyfriend whether its your fault or his. What I'm really saying is that forgive him or say that your sorry. but hey its his b-day, and its only once a year, wouldn't you make this day happy for him? 
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May 24 2006, 09:28 PM
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thanks guys =) ... i've never really came out and sed SORRY I BLAH BLAH BLAH to sumwun quite like him.... so any suggestions on convo starters? .. or should i just straight out say im sorry for.... ( i actually don't even know what i did wrong )
i was hella tired as i just got bak from a school trip for 3 days... so i say good night.. he asks why ( are you leaving so early? ) and i guess i rejected to answer his question by saying "cuz." im guessing with his stressing project, he tells me "whatever" what a stupid thing to get all pissy about... |
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May 24 2006, 09:34 PM
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nicorie Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,679 |
QUOTE(dorkk-ie @ May 24 2006, 10:28 PM) thanks guys =) ... i've never really came out and sed SORRY I BLAH BLAH BLAH to sumwun \ i was hella tired as i just got bak from a school trip for 3 days... so i say good night.. he asks why ( are you leaving so early? ) and i guess i rejected to answer his question by saying "cuz." im guessing with his stressing project, he tells me "whatever" gosh i hate that! well i don't hate it...but it annoys me when i ask her a question and all i get is .... "cuz" or " i don't know" or " you don't need to know".... it always leaves me guessing... 
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May 24 2006, 10:00 PM
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lol.. yeah.. its not that big of a deal, just apologize. you'll be the bigger person for it and he'll most likely apologize too. just IM/call him or wahtever and say "hey.. im sorry" simple as that. =)
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May 25 2006, 05:15 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yeah you should DEFINITELY still go on with the suprise. and maybe afterwards you can ask if 'we could talk.'
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May 25 2006, 05:20 PM
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its a fight
come on be the bigger person and apologize thats if it was your fault you really didn't explian the fight. its his birthday though ask yourself what you would want him to do if it was his birthday would you want him to just ignore you on your birthday? or go along with a surprise? |
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May 25 2006, 05:30 PM
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nicorie Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,679 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ May 25 2006, 6:20 PM) its a fight come on be the bigger person and apologize thats if it was your fault you really didn't explian the fight. its his birthday though ask yourself what you would want him to do if it was his birthday would you want him to just ignore you on your birthday? or go along with a surprise? yea i think that she already established that... saying saying is the best way to go. no dobut about it. QUOTE(dorkk-ie @ May 24 2006, 10:28 PM) thanks guys =) ... i've never really came out and sed SORRY I BLAH BLAH BLAH to sumwun quite like him.... so any suggestions on convo starters? .. or should i just straight out say im sorry for.... ( i actually don't even know what i did wrong )
i was hella tired as i just got bak from a school trip for 3 days... so i say good night.. he asks why ( are you leaving so early? ) and i guess i rejected to answer his question by saying "cuz." im guessing with his stressing project, he tells me "whatever" what a stupid thing to get all pissy about... |
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May 25 2006, 05:44 PM
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sorry
i only read the first post |
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May 25 2006, 09:04 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
It depends on the argument subject.If its reallyyyyyyyy big..then maybe you shouldn`t forgive him but if its a small like situation..forget it and move on.
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