i found out one of my sister does pot, is this the right forum? Options

[colleen92]

and i don't know what to do. i can't ask her about it because we aren't that close and i can't tell my parents because they'd kill her first, then my sister would kill me. i don't want anything to happen to her. what do i do?

[marzipan]

i would tell your parents. if i had a sister and really cared for her, i would tell my parents if she was doing anything totally wrong. cause it would be the right thing. i wouldn't hide something from them. she would thank you later! is she an addict?

[PrincessAda]

^^ I agree.I would tell her.Or I would try to talk to her..ask her about it..ask her why?

[colleen92]

i don't think she's an addict...i think she just does it sometimes, but it still cares me. but you know i don't really know much about it, just that my friend said to me one of my sister's friends got her into it. and that she saw my sister doing it one time. it just makes me so mad that she'd do that to herself. she's so good in school.

[*xcaitlinx*]

i think that the first thing you should do is confront her about the situation. if she doesn't admit that she smokes, then tell her that you know that she does for sure. you could even say that you'll tell your parents, and then she'll be forced to own up to it. tell her that if she doesn't stop (and you're doing this because you love her) then you'll tell your parents because you don't want it to get worse.

[_sarcastic_]

talk to her first, doesn't matter if you guys are close or not..she's still your sister.
then tell your parents that you think your sister's doing pot.
i agree with marzipan, she'll thank you later

[BryMonster]

It all depends on how close you are with
you sister or parents. I'm not going to
lie. I'm an active buddha smoker. But
look at my posts. I don't sound dumb
or sound like I'm completely done
because all of my brain cells are fried.
It all depends on why she smokes it. If
she does to to be cool stop her. If she
does it for artistic reason, let it be her
muse.

I feel like everyone's gonna hate me for
this reply. :[

[AnnahhbeL]

I would definately tell my parents if that was my sister!

[*corizzle20*]

i would let her smoke her thing and let her suffer for being a dumbass for starting pot in the first place

[Rachel]

Umm, it is pot guys. Do you know how many kids smoke pot like an hour?? Holy sh*t. Don't go to your parents right away. Talk to her and tell that it isn't safe to do it all the time and it can really end up taking over your life. Going to your parents won't do anything but cause tension. She may only do it once in a while, I'm sure most kids have tried it at least once, not to mention your parents who probably grew up in the 60s-70s.

[sillakilla220]

you should light up with her and realize that smoking pot is a great way to pass time

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

It all depends on how close you are with
you sister or parents. I'm not going to
lie. I'm an active buddha smoker. But
look at my posts. I don't sound dumb
or sound like I'm completely done
because all of my brain cells are fried.
It all depends on why she smokes it. If
she does to to be cool stop her. If she
does it for artistic reason, let it be her
muse.

I feel like everyone's gonna hate me for
this reply. :[

^ I agree!

I used to smoke alot. I mean alot.. I dont remember November... Depends... How much she dose it.. Every day.. tell some one.. every once and a greate while.. let her go.. :-)

you should light up with her and realize that smoking pot is a great way to pass time

LMFAO! ^ So true..

[colleen92]

Umm, it is pot guys. Do you know how many kids smoke pot like an hour?? Holy sh*t. Don't go to your parents right away. Talk to her and tell that it isn't safe to do it all the time and it can really end up taking over your life. Going to your parents won't do anything but cause tension. She may only do it once in a while, I'm sure most kids have tried it at least once, not to mention your parents who probably grew up in the 60s-70s.

yeah i know almost our entire school does it. i know i'm not going to go to my parents. i think i'm going to try and find out more about it like how much she does it and if she's hooked. if it's serious...i'll try and help her.

[*mipadi*]

It's probably not a big deal. It can be. Smoking marijuana isn't a terribly bad thing, but it's not exactly good, either. I'd say talk to her. Tell her you are concerned, and that it's a bad idea—but I think, for now, it's safe to keep it to yourself. No need to tell your parents until it becomes a big problem.

[absinthe]

^ it kills braincells. its bad. talk to her about it first. if you tells you to buzzer off, then go to her friends, if THEY tell you to buzz off, then go to the parental units. they'll shake it out of her REAL good.

[BryMonster]

Just talk to her.

Think of it this way. At least she's
not doing crack. Most people say that
pot is a gateway drug. I beg to differ.
I'm 15 years old, I've been smoking
pot since I was 11. I've never done
anything else.


If she's addicted, tell her that she needs
to keep it herself. If she respected you,
she would refrain from getting high around
you. Eventually your parents will find out
and it'll be harder for her. Because you
could said, "I told you so" and such.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

SCREW THE FACT THAT YOU GUYS AIN'T CLOSE! Ask her to stop now! You shouldn't "enable" your sister because you're being afraid. Don't be. Who knows what other drug she might get into! I mean sure, pot isn't as dangerous was people say but it can negatively affect her life..significantly.

[*mipadi*]

^ it kills braincells. its bad. talk to her about it first. if you tells you to buzzer off, then go to her friends, if THEY tell you to buzz off, then go to the parental units. they'll shake it out of her REAL good.

It kills brain cells if you do it constantly for a long period of time. There's probably no need to run to parents if it can be handled between the two of them before it does become a problem.

[proudpk]

Uuh I wouldn't be worried in the first place

When you find out she does harder drugs you can start worrying. Smoking weed is just a normal thing for teenagers to do. And don't worry about her being hooked, you just can't get hooked to that. I smoked frequently over two years and six months ago I decided to stop. Guess what? It didn't take any determination at all. You could always talk to her about it but what good would it be? If my sister had told me to stop doing drugs 6 months ago I would've said screw you it's my life, not yours!

In fact I don't believe it's really possible to get hooked to most drugs. I've done mush, weed, X, and special K, all of them many times, and never got even remotely hooked to any of these. Had to stop cause it was deteriorating my health too much though... Cocaine would probably f**k you up for good... But I'm not touching that sh*t. Anyways I stopped drinking and doing any drugs so... No more. And I wouldn't recommend doing what I did. I'll probably live a few years shorter than you guys for these abuses, and overall it gave me nothing very remarkable.

peace.

[absinthe]

^ ARE f**king STUPID? JUST STOP TALKING. STOP TALKING NOW

[*mipadi*]

^ ARE f**king STUPID? JUST STOP TALKING. STOP TALKING NOW

If you disagree with a person's words, it's more prudent and more mature to refute what he said, rather than simply telling him to shut up.

[proudpk]

Hey, agiri, you don't have to sound like an a-hole because you think I'm wrong. In fact I KNOW from my own experience that drugs are wrong... I wouldn't encourage anyone to do them but at the same time someone smoking weed really is nothing to worry about. They'll grow out of it and hopefully with a better understanding of the importance of good health...

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

^ ARE f**king STUPID? JUST STOP TALKING. STOP TALKING NOW

How rude.. its like me telling you to STFU.. and tell you that YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT.. and to STOP TALKING..

But thats not the kind of person I am :-)

<3

[*My Cinderella.*]

Whether you two are close are not, I think you should definately confront her about it. But it might be best if you find out the reason why she smokes pot in the first place. I mean she's your sister, if you're worried for her then you should talk to her.

[absinthe]

When you find out she does harder drugs you can start worrying. Smoking weed is just a normal thing for teenagers to do. And don't worry about her being hooked, you just can't get hooked to that. I smoked frequently over two years and six months ago I decided to stop. Guess what? It didn't take any determination at all. You could always talk to her about it but what good would it be? If my sister had told me to stop doing drugs 6 months ago I would've said screw you it's my life, not yours!

That warranted that. You CAN get hooked, infact, i know someone that can barely make it through the day without a smoke and she's only been smoking for 3 months. DONT WORRY? WTF? WTF? It's like some of you never listened in health class. Its harmful and addictive.

Maybe I could have said it nicer, but holy sh*t, that's got to be one of the stupidest things I've ever seen anyone type. Just a phase? ... Maybe for you, but not for a lot of teens.

If it was just a phase, explain to me why there are hundreds of health centers aroundt the world to help people with this.

Even though you used to/do it you sound really ignorant. You of all people should know better. How you can make so light of it is beyond me.

oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo : i'm aware of the meaning of what i typed otherwise i wouldn't have typed it. thanks for the reiteration though. lol. but i'm a blunt person, so yah know. *shrugs*

.agiri