Is it just me.. |
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 May 13 2006, 01:01 PM
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Is it just me, or are guys more cocky than girls are?
I noticed that many girls, including myself, have a bad self image of themselves. Why do you think that is? ANNDDDDDDDD.. Girls sometimes say that "looks don't matter, personality does." Then when this ugly kid asks them out, they say "HELL TO THE NO" or something like that. So, including me, I'm not attracted to "ugly" guys. :| But then again, my husband is shmexyyyyyy. :) I'm not saying I'm shallow, Some "ugly" guys turn out to be okay. But some of them seem really mean. ;x |
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May 13 2006, 01:30 PM
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 L!ckitySplit  Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
we'll i dont say, hell to da no.
i say f**k no, not hell to da no. hell to da no seems just....mean |
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May 13 2006, 01:37 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I think guys are more secure with themselves because there's no need to be skinny or fit or whatever for them. They don't need boob jobs or liposuction or lip enhancements or nose jobs, they can be an average joe and still get a hot wife or any kind of wife period. There are so many products aimed at women to enhance their looks like make up, push up bras, padded bras, etc. What is there for the men?
Looks do matter to a certain extent and you can't say okay to every offer you get. The person doesn't have to be one of the hottest guys on earth or just hot or cute or whatever but you can't go out with someone you're not attracted to. When I say that personality matters more than looks, I mean it. If the "ugly" guy said something funny or did something cute I'm sure I would have accepted the date if I was single. If all he said was like "you want to go out sometime?" I'd most likley say no, even if he was a really hot guy. |
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May 13 2006, 01:55 PM
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^ I second that!
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May 13 2006, 02:02 PM
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really matters who the person is.
I don't care about looks to a certain extent. Thats for everyone. Although aparently mines lower than most..  People are shallow its never going to change because people are insecure and their going to be even more when their with someoent hat they don't feel secure with. I don't think people should see hell no or anything like that. thats pretty heartless. I mean sorry, no. is fine but when you scream f*ck no or hell no its rude. I remember once i laughed at this guy that asked me out but i thought he was kidding.. until he walked off extremely sad.. I felt horrible and eventually said sorry and told them the reason i laughed.. and then said no to them.. so really it matters who the person is theres plenty of kind-hearted people and theres plenty of mean people in the world that could come off as the cocky people.. |
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May 13 2006, 03:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
"Cock"-y. Of course they are.
It really depends who it is. I think both guys and girls can be bigheaded at times, but both tend to show it off in different ways. Guys are just more noticed. |
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May 13 2006, 11:17 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
^^ Yeah thats true..
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May 14 2006, 04:17 PM
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i did a report for school about women & how they are pressured to look good..
basically women are a lot more influenced by the media & look @ models & stuff & actually take it to heart that that's the way they're "supposed" to look.. guys just dont really care much but if guys are pressured in any way they normally feel pressured to be muscular. Yup. 
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May 14 2006, 06:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
Men are sex-addicted pigs, and women are heart-devouring shedevils.
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May 14 2006, 06:52 PM
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Mmmm Mmmm *nods*
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May 14 2006, 08:20 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
Well, yeah, most hot guys are cocky but perhaps girls are cocky as well, they just don't like to show it like many men do. To me ugly guys are just as adorable on the inside [that is to say if they have good personalities and all of that good sh*t that ugly guys need to have].
QUOTE Men are sex-addicted pigs, and women are heart-devouring shedevils. Hear, hear.  |
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May 15 2006, 12:02 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I love it when my friend says, "Oh HELLS to the NO!"
It's hilarious. But to answer your question: No, it's not just you. 
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May 15 2006, 08:14 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ May 15 2006, 7:41 AM)  Men are sex-addicted pigs, and women are heart-devouring shedevils. But Ariel, you're sex-addicted AND a heart-devouring shedevil. HAHAH, I keed. ILU I don't think it's necessarily cockiness/arrogance, it's just the fact that in general, women are much more insecure then men are. But I think that this trend is changing with the onslaught of metrosexuals and beauty products for men. Sometimes it's the same with guys, how THEY themselves will tell people that "personality is important," but turn down a plain girl with a good personality for the hotter girl who's a bitch. |
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May 15 2006, 08:28 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
It's all psychological. For whatever reason, I believe chicks endure more stress than guys. And over stupid sh*t too.
But..I dunno about other girls, but looks DO matter to me. I mean, if my boyfriend was like 250 pounds, it would matter. Sure, he may have an awesome personality, but I have to be at least a little attracted to the guy.. |
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May 15 2006, 02:04 PM
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goes both ways
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May 15 2006, 04:11 PM
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 sweetest sin... Group: Member Posts: 502 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,920 |
hmm kind of true.
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May 15 2006, 10:04 PM
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you can't judge be looks.
the kid you think is a total loser can turn out to be someone good. |
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May 15 2006, 10:07 PM
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Oink Oink.
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