my friend =( Options

[baconstrips]

i used to be really good friends with a girl called amber, you know, going out to the movies, going to each others houses, shopping, the usual stuff. but now, i find that im spending less time with her, we never go out shopping, she never eats lunch with me, she always hangs out with other people, and when i try to talk to her, we have nothing to talk about. the only time we ever really talk now is in class, and even then its very limited. i really dont want this friendship to end because she truely is a really nice girl, but yet im getting this message that she does not want to be around me. shes always talking to other girls and elaving me out in conversations. she joined an organinzation with her other friend and thats all they talk about, it really pisses me off. if i try to talk to her, shes either to busy or she wont take things seriously. please gaive me some advice =(

[SarahxJoy]

I think you should talk to her and confront her about how you're feeling and see what she says.
For all you know, she probably isn't aware. But if you think she is, then maybe it is time to go on and find someone else to hang out with. Just talk to her first though. They say friendships last forever, but it's only if everyone involved is willing to make it work. It's just like any other relationship with another person(s).

[*This Confession*]

Pretty much i was going to say everything Tainted Angel said..

Need to talk to her and tell her how you think of everything
and how your friendship is fading.

[BryMonster]

What everyone else has said seems most helpful.
Just tell her to give you her undivided attention and
that what you are about to say is something serious.
And if she says I'm busy, then say "That's what I've
been trying to say" and then tell her that she hardly
spends time with you and such.

[_sarcastic_]

i agree with everybody
the best thing to do is talk to her, and tell her how you feel.

[PrincessAda]

Aghh sounds like some friendship I have except the ending part.I say..talk to her..thats the only way to solve things.

[Paradox of Life]

Don't just focus on her alone. Hang out with your other friends too. She (and you) may feel like she's devoting too much time to one person, and just wants some space.