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 May 6 2006, 09:49 PM
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 I Made Ebonics  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430  |
Hey i really need help. I have a boyfriend named Kevin. and I love him to death but hes been acting really weird and mean lately. He would hang up on me and just go hey i don't wanna talk right now and just hang up. On AIM he doesn't even say anything hes just like mmm. Yeah. Sure. Ok. and then yeah. And theres my really good friend named Kevin. To get you to not confuse them lets say.. My boyfriends Kevin C and My friends Kevin L. Well anyway like I've been spending time with Kevin L. We just went golfing last night and everything and he actually enjoys spending time with me and we have a lot of fun. I think i'm starting to like Kevin L. But then whenever Kevin Ls not there i realize how much i love Kevin C. I just really don't know what to do right now. I can't choose between them and well.. yeah. Kevin Cs going to College next year and Kevin Ls gonna be here with me. Some help?
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May 6 2006, 09:58 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
just ask yourself, "is there a future with kevin L or C?"
I think you should stay with your b/f. If he wants to continue your relationship while he in college, then you'll know he wants to commit. |
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May 6 2006, 10:20 PM
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 Miss Kayleigh Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 401,740 |
It all depends on you. I think you should talk to your boyfriend and ask why he's being so distant. Maybe he'll tell you the reason, and maybe the reason will make you want to go to Kevin number 2. But at the same time, maybe the reason is something that will bring you closer.
Right? |
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May 6 2006, 10:23 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Forget about Kevin L for the moment. Focus on the relationship with your boyfriend before thinking about anything else. Is he really what you're looking for? It may be time to split up. But don't immediately go for Kevin L. Just give it some time. What you should do will become clearer.
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May 6 2006, 11:18 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
stay with your bf, you can always tell him what you told us about his way of talking to you on the phone and online.
you probably think you like Kevin L because your bf isn't giving you much attention and he is, and you like that. but i don't know that's just my opinion. but do what you want to do, it's up to you |
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May 7 2006, 10:28 PM
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 ((starSAVER))* Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 402,128 |
just think this:
"who do i think will make me happiest?" just think that, and you have your answer. ...i hope that helps. |
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| *salcha* |
May 8 2006, 12:36 AM
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You should go out with Kevin C
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May 8 2006, 12:50 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Focus on the relationship now..
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May 8 2006, 11:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 363 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 344,469 |
IMO, Talk it out with your BF before you decide anything, seriously, sit him down and make him speak! Haha, Ruff! ....If he's serious about you, then he'll talk it out with you, if he's not... Well, he might just keep at the "Yeah, Ok, Sure, Whatever" game....
&& If it doesn't work out with you two, just keep hanging out with the other Kev, you could use his friendship. Don't make any moves on him =P See if he makes them on you... but that's only if the thing with your boyfriend doesn't work. && If it does work, cut down on your hanging out time, and make the boy hang with you =P Just hang out with Kev #2 when your man ain't around, or just casual, you know, like you would with your girls =D That was all just my opinion though... |
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May 8 2006, 11:52 AM
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I think you should talk it through with.. the 1st kev, and work something out with him like see what he thinks of you now, if he loves you as much as you love him etc etc. you just needa talk things through thats all i can think of.
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May 8 2006, 04:52 PM
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woah. freaky. there's this girl in my school going out with this guy named Kevin C. and she's friends with this guy named Kevin L. weird...
so anyways... first try to work things out with Kevin C. ask him why he's being so distant with you. if it doesn't work out and you guys break up [not saying that you should], then you can move on to Kevin L. |
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May 8 2006, 08:26 PM
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hmm.. i think you need to talk to your boyfriend and ask why he is being so distant.. maybe there is a good reason.. stress. or what not...
perhaps you are starting to get attached to kevin L. because you arn't getting enough attention from your current boyfriend.. so you are looking some place else for that attention.. i dont think you should just run to kevin L without talking with your bf.. tell your bf that he isnt treating you like you SHOULD be treated.. and that you have needs that have to be met before you can continue the relationship... best of luck 
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| *My Cinderella.* |
May 8 2006, 08:41 PM
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You don't wanna do anything you're gonna regret, so I say you should first talk to Kevin C. Tell him how you noticed that he's been acting different lately and you don't like it. That must be taken care of before you do anything else.
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May 8 2006, 09:51 PM
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You don't love your boyfriend if you're doing this.
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May 9 2006, 01:53 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
the truth is you dont like niether guys because if you liked your boyfriend so much than you wouldnt like your friend and if you liked you friend you wouldnt love your bf. I really think you should try and work things out with your boyfriend but i dont think things will work out if you have feelings for both guys.
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| *Uronacid* |
May 9 2006, 02:34 PM
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thats wrong too, i think its natrual for someone that feels rejected by someone to feel attracted to someone who is treating them the way they want to be treated at the time... she hasn't made the decision yet... therefore she is debating what she wants... i think she needs to talk to her boyfriend
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| *This Confession* |
May 9 2006, 07:01 PM
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yea..
fine i agree with josh [uronacid] |
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May 12 2006, 08:17 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i think that your bf not might like you anymore as much as he used to if hes acting that way. you should go up to him in person and ask him why he is acting that way towards you. if i were you id keep going out with your bf and give him a chance. later on if things dont work out then go out with your other friend named kevin.
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May 14 2006, 08:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,463 |
I would Pick Kevin L.
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