Friends Ruining Relationship, HELP |
 May 3 2006, 02:54 AM
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aholic_sb  Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525  |
I have a friend making rumours about me and the girl that i liked. and now the girl i liked is pissed at me... anyone know what should i do?
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| *This Confession* |
May 3 2006, 02:58 AM
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talk to her
and tell her the truth You need to talk to your "friend" as well. Its really immature to start rumors. |
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May 3 2006, 02:58 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Tell her the truth about it, and think about it, why are you even friends with this guy/girl anyways if they make up rumors about you.
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May 3 2006, 03:01 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
take a pen and a peice of paper, grab ur rumor telling friend, STAB HIM/HER IN THE EYE WITH THE PENCIL AND PUT THE PAPER OVER IT TO STOP THE BLEEDING. Or just tell them to grow up because the things they are saying hurt you. And actually, if they were ur friend they wouldnt do that. DO re-evaluate this friendship. And tell the girl that its all lies and if you ever had anything to say about her you would say it to her face. Even if you wouldnt. Or stab her in the eye too. <3 </violence>
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May 3 2006, 03:16 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
^I'm sure he'll wanna' go with that second choice there.
 1. I'd talk to the girl you used to like and try to convince her that the rumors are false. 2. If that doesn't work, then talk to your so-called "friend" and find out why they're ever spreading such rumors in the first place. Then either make amends or end the friendship. 3. Now, consult #1 after completing #2. |
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May 3 2006, 07:00 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
my friend is actually a girl, she dont want me to go out with the girl that i like, thatswhy she made the rumours and now the girl i like is starting to believe the rumours...
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May 3 2006, 07:07 AM
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 Love is a flame that can't be tamed Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,304 |
If she's doing that, then she's just doing the best for you. You should talk to her and understand why she's doing it and what she actually thinks about the girl you like. If she doesn't even know the girl you like then you should tell her to give you space until she has facts.
You just need to get to know the girl you like first if you want to show that your rumour-spreading friend is wrong. Don't blow up on her, she's just doing it because she cares about you. |
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May 3 2006, 08:48 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
the girl that likes me hates the girl that i like so...
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May 3 2006, 09:02 AM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE(Your pain is not love @ May 3 2006, 5:07 AM)  If she's doing that, then she's just doing the best for you. You should talk to her and understand why she's doing it and what she actually thinks about the girl you like. If she doesn't even know the girl you like then you should tell her to give you space until she has facts. You just need to get to know the girl you like first if you want to show that your rumour-spreading friend is wrong. Don't blow up on her, she's just doing it because she cares about you. I agree also. |
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May 3 2006, 09:06 AM
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Love is a flame that can't be tamed Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,304 |
QUOTE(aholic_sb @ May 3 2006, 9:48 PM) the girl that likes me hates the girl that i like so... If they have good reasons to dislike each other so much, as in - if they know each other enough and proof for such dislike, then I think you should steady their relationship first and ask them to reconsider on their views. |
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| *Uronacid* |
May 3 2006, 09:12 AM
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Tell her the truth, if she doesn't believe you... also, confront the person spreading these rumors about you... confront them on a one on one basis...
here's a really helpful article about conflict and how to confront people in a respectful way to get possitive results ;) link ;) |
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May 3 2006, 09:34 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
the situation is getting more and more worst... now the girl that i like blocked me in msn... i think shes really pissed right now
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May 3 2006, 12:51 PM
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 Ehh... Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 175,878 |
your friend (if it's a girl) may like you as more than friend. Or maybe she's just jealous.
it may sound crazy, but it sometimes happens like that. |
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May 4 2006, 10:31 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
the more i convinced the girl i liked the rumours are spreading to more and more ppl, and now the girl that i like totally believes the rumour and she now thinks that is me who made it up and she seems to be very angry now...
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May 4 2006, 10:49 AM
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Love is a flame that can't be tamed Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,304 |
Talk to your rumour-spreading friend first. Ask her to stop, she shouldn't have done it in the first place. You liking a bad girl or not, she still doesn't have the right to hurt/humiliate you that way. And then clarify it with your crush.
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May 4 2006, 06:26 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Talk to your crush..Tell her whats really going on.
Your friend or whatever might be jealous and telling lies because she actually likes you and wants you all to herself.. |
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| *Uronacid* |
May 4 2006, 08:03 PM
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he just did... i think your ruined man... im sorry, you can give up if you want... and i wouldn't blame you, you may like her but your lucky your not in love... its ok, let the rumors die out... and a new fish will swim along... believe me, you'll like her just as much :D
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