now that im single, ....typical im sure |
 May 1 2006, 06:50 AM
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 I Am Elle Hear Me ROAR!!!!!  Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,085  |
well im sure this is typical. but its seriously been driving me insane.!!!!
i honestly dont know how to chose between like 4 guys... ugh help..if u need more info just tell me!! |
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May 1 2006, 08:00 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Well maybe if you could give us more information on your dilemma, it would be easier for us to give you advice.
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May 1 2006, 08:35 AM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Are you just now single?
You can't decide between four guys? Seems like you have no idea what you want. Maybe, instead of running out and trying to find another guy to make you comfortable, become more comfortable with yourself. Take a break. When the "right" guy comes along you won't have any problem "choosing." 
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May 1 2006, 08:42 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
^ I've never seen Nate giving advice on relationships. This is new. =P
You make it sound like you've gotta have a guy, right now, to make yourself happy. The best way to measure your happiness is if you're happy when you're by yourself. So just take your time and don't rush things. |
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May 1 2006, 09:02 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(×__Elle. @ May 1 2006, 8:42 AM)  ^ I've never seen Nate giving advice on relationships. This is new. =P I pop in everyonce and a while to give advice. It isn't that new. 
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May 1 2006, 11:01 AM
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If you can't choose, why force yourself to make a choice? Just hang out with them; the right one will eventually surface to the top. Relationships don't work well when you force yourself to pick someone, because you feel pressured to do so.
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May 1 2006, 04:25 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed.
just take a rest from guys for abit. when the right guy comes along i'm sure you'll know. don't think that only being in a relationship is going to make you happy and then you rush into one and feel miserable. being single has it's pros too. |
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May 1 2006, 04:52 PM
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wow 4 guys?
get to know them all at a certain level and once you find one that you like more than the others with their personality don't go by looks! then choose that one don't get all stressed out about it.. and don't go crazy either it takes time and patience |
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May 1 2006, 05:52 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Are you are you're looking for a boyfriend and not a guy to make you feel loved? Don't do the rebound thing. Seriously don't. It'll hurt more than you think it can. As for the four guys, if you can't choose, then maybe you shouldn't be choosing at all.
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May 1 2006, 08:35 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ May 1 2006, 11:01 AM) If you can't choose, why force yourself to make a choice? Just hang out with them; the right one will eventually surface to the top. Relationships don't work well when you force yourself to pick someone, because you feel pressured to do so. Agreed. Don't make a decision if you don't have to. Just wait until it's clear to you what you should do. |
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May 1 2006, 10:29 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
See which one you like best.But see if you want to be taken first.The right guy will eventally pop up in your mind.Take some to think about it.
2000th Post Suckkahhss hehehe jk |
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May 2 2006, 04:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
Hm. Maybe you need to give yourself a bit of time, first?
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