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 Apr 29 2006, 12:17 AM
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There's this guy i'm good friends with and have know his family for a while. I respected him a lot because he was so polite to adults, is a hard worker, and stays away from drugs. I dont have feelings for him or anything but i cried when I found out he's going out with an immature 8th grader. I know she's immature because i know her personally and the kind of people she hangs out with. Shes the kind who's gone out with 10 kids a month and the relation ships lasted less than two weeks. I dont know why but i just totally lost respect for him.
yeah im a crybaby What are your opinions on this? |
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Apr 29 2006, 12:49 AM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
mm well i think it shows that you care deeply for him because you probably want him to end up with someone that's good enough for him and she obviously isn't. maybe you should talk to him about it?
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Apr 29 2006, 01:43 AM
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@ngel_Lynn Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,612 |
I agree with the person up top
I think you should either have a one and one conversation wit this person for thats prob all you can do to get to him wit dis gurl. but you gotto kind of realize that if he is wit dat person than usually that means that he likes her alot and maybeeh why she date on and off is cause she give people chances and if she dont like the way its going then dump em hah or sometin and yah u just got to see it from both ways 
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Apr 29 2006, 11:06 AM
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 for you,i will<3 Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,267 |
Talk to him, don't hide things back.. tell him how you feel perhaps?
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Apr 29 2006, 11:51 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
I'm close to tears....
What x___F0RG0TTEN said, you obviously care very, deeply about him. He's like a brother to you, no? Talk to him, tell him that this is not the girl he deserves, but remind him that there's always one right around the corner (hint hint..haha) |
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Apr 30 2006, 12:17 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Ahh your not a crybaby.He`s like your hero/role model.I would cry too if I lost respect for someone I have respected.Because being respected by someone is a really hard thing to get.Well..I think you should confront him.Tell him how you feel.But don`t be soo harsh because he can take it the wrong way.
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Apr 30 2006, 01:24 AM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE(x___F0RG0TTEN @ Apr 28 2006, 10:49 PM)  mm well i think it shows that you care deeply for him because you probably want him to end up with someone that's good enough for him and she obviously isn't. maybe you should talk to him about it? yeah. i agree. |
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Apr 30 2006, 01:50 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
You are definitely not a cry baby. I AM! I cried the other day when I was watching that Disney movie Anastasia. I barely know why!
I believe that you cried because you don't want him to get hurt. He's your good friend, tell him how you feel about his girlfriend and her reputation. But, don't push him to break up with her. He needs to learn from his own mistakes. Topic Moved to Relationships. |
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Apr 30 2006, 06:13 PM
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^i agree
you just care about him alot and don't want to see him get hurt. tell him that, tell him how you feel about him being with her. but it's up to him to make his own decisions. |
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Apr 30 2006, 06:19 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
I don't think you're a crybaby. You care deeply for him, and maybe you've developed this sister-like intuition that says this girl isn't right for him. Just have a casual chat with the guy. However, don't turn it into a one sided conversation. He seems to be a smart guy, so hear him out. Maybe you're just being protective or something?
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May 1 2006, 04:08 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Talk to him since you obviously care. But if he doesn't listen, just let him go. Everyone needs to learn to pick themselves up when they stumble.
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