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 Apr 27 2006, 09:43 PM
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 iHumpalot.  Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367  |
So there's this guy. And he likes me. And I like him too. It's been this way since August. We do stuff together. We kiss. He's here almost all the time. But everytime someone brings up me and him actually dating, he says he isn't ready for it. Do I wait around and see what happens orrrrrr, so I move on and cut him off?
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Apr 27 2006, 09:52 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
One word: talk
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Apr 27 2006, 09:55 PM
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yeah, talk. and if he still says he isnt ready, ask him when he will be or something... i wouldn't wanna kiss him and stuff and not be his girlfriend o.o
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Apr 27 2006, 09:56 PM
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iHumpalot. Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367 |
QUOTE(shannonx1 @ Apr 27 2006, 10:55 PM)  yeah, talk. and if he still says he isnt ready, ask him when he will be or something... i wouldn't wanna kiss him and stuff and not be his girlfriend o.o True. But the kissing just kinda happens  |
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Apr 27 2006, 11:03 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Well don't let it. Don't put yourself in a situation where you guys can kiss. Go somewhere public, like Starbucks. Talk about how your feeling and tell him to be straight with you. If he doesn't see you two developing into a relationship, cut him off and leave him for someone better.
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Apr 27 2006, 11:04 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
So, he can kiss you and not be w/ you? That does not make sense at all. I think you should tell him straight that you wanna be his gf or it can work. Cuz i think he's kinda pushing you around,
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Apr 27 2006, 11:59 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
If he's not ready for a relationship, don't push him...if you really like him, you should wait.
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Apr 28 2006, 12:04 AM
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iHumpalot. Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367 |
I know I should wait.
But this is the thing, I've waited since August. And passed up alot of opportunities. So I don't know anymore. |
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Apr 28 2006, 12:32 AM
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Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Is he worth it?
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Apr 28 2006, 12:58 AM
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im a SHEMALE :D Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,855 |
i think you just should give up. his intentions arent that great, i mean you guys have done this "thing" since august?? i dont think he's going to change
but i really dont want to ruin a meant-to-be relationship so like everyone else says, go talk to him |
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Apr 28 2006, 01:05 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
hm, tough one.
Well a 9-10 month wait is very admirable. However, if he's not ready after that, I don't know when he actually is going to be. It would probably be better for you to move onto someone else. It's not fair to have him keep you on a long leash. you know. I would normally say just chill, be friends and see what happens. However, it's been a long time, and I think you have done that already and you have seen the outcome. It might be time to move onto a better guy who is ready for a relationship and who is more mature. Of course you don't want to lose this guy as a friend or anything, but since you two aren't "dating", i'm sure it's not a problem for you to start seeing someone else. Talk to him about this first, and see what he thinks. It kinda sounds like you guys are already in a relationship if you have to "cut it off", you know. |
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Apr 28 2006, 04:09 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,752 |
if hes been holding you off that long>then maby hes using you.
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Apr 28 2006, 04:11 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ I don't agree with that. Just because someone isn't ready, doesn't mean they're exploiting you.
Well, he isn't ready for commitment. There's nothing you can do to change it but wait. You should probably stop doing things that would suggest that you're dating such as kissing. It'll only make you want him more. Don't pressure him. |
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