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 Apr 26 2006, 04:50 PM
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 L1EK 0MGZZZZ!  Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,803  |
Hello..
well i'm sure everyone has SOMEWHAT of attitude in them at one point...except mine isnt just when I have my period or something. Lately i've been really mean towards people and giving alot of attitude, and i dont "stop and think" i try but it all just comes out. ehh..cant believe i'm going to say this, i'm pretty sure theres alot of NICEE people, here so.. any advice for being nice  i'm kind of mean cause when one person annoys me then basically i'm mean for the rest of the day.. it bugs me.. help? i wanna changee for good. 
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Apr 26 2006, 09:22 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
That happens a lot. I think people get mad at first because their day was ruined. Well, you could try to think of some happy thoughts or just ignore them.
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Apr 26 2006, 09:27 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I don't really know what to tell you, since I can be pretty mean as well..all I can say is that you just need to take things in stride. Try your hardest to stop blurting out these mean things. I'm more of a quiet person now because I realize that I just blurt out mean or stupid things and embarrass myself.
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Apr 26 2006, 10:47 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I learned that not thinking before doing anything causes bad sitautions.I always just try to act nice to that person again and calm myself down.I like to just think about good things and just space out.Maybe spacing out and thinkin` of good moments can help.
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| *This Confession* |
Apr 27 2006, 01:28 AM
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im not mean
i'm just really sarcastic.. but all you can do is think and ignore them if possible. |
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Apr 27 2006, 07:09 AM
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 Chantal-Denise Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 249,845 |
i get mad easily too.
i stomp on the ground or breathe deeply when im at that point.  it really helps.
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Apr 27 2006, 02:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,893 |
I'm the same way, it's really hard for me to think before I speak. Just start apologizing when you notice you're getting worked up, even if it is a few days after the fact, and try to find some outlets for any anger, frustration, whatever... let people know its not their fault : )
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Apr 27 2006, 03:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 96 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,907 |
i've been there before. i think its a phase.
just try and think happy. (=
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 27 2006, 05:16 PM
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Sure you aren't going to...bust out a tirade if I give you advice?
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Apr 27 2006, 06:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
QUOTE(adurf @ Apr 27 2006, 4:20 PM)  i've been there before. i think its a phase. just try and think happy. (=Best advice there is. Be a happy person!  I'm moving this to relationships. If this needs to be moved back, please do so. 
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Apr 27 2006, 08:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
If you think of things in the worst possible way -- try just to stay positive, and eventually it will get to you. =)
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May 2 2006, 02:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 151,810 |
well for me, people always think im such a happy smiley person. but truth is, i used to be SO mean in elementary/middle school, i used to kick, bite, punch, pull this girls hair because my mom always complimented her thoughful ness and nicce-nes... when i reallie felt like i was being used by her. so that got me reallie mad. so i bulllied her, so obviously everyone else started taking her side too. but no one ever tried to understand my side of the story. just because i keep the most extreme feelings to myself. then, now, in my freshman yr at hs, i am a changed person. i just gradually switched personalities (becuz i knew that i will never make any friends like the way i was then... i hated myself) from MEAN UGLY girl to NICE SMILEY girl. first i acknowledged my need to change, and i took a step at a time, first laying off the kicking, then the temper, then the biting, then the hitting, and finally, the jealously hidden behind the mean-ness. now, i only snap at people that reallie are poking at my ribs to make me snap.
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May 2 2006, 03:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
i can be pretty mean during period,but not always.
try to control urself that what is right ro wrong. just think of some relli awesomee things,it might help. |
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May 2 2006, 04:57 AM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
Lol whenever I'm under pressure I get really mean and rude. Mostly, I find there's nothing you can do about it. I just put up a big fake smile on my face and hope people don't talk to me.
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