girls having guys as best friends..., anyone? && if so... do you have problems with them often? |
 Apr 20 2006, 01:48 AM
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 stick that in your juicebox and suck it.  Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,881  |
Does any girl here have a guy as a best friend?
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Apr 20 2006, 06:51 AM
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 damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
I do! I have four best friends, three of them are guys. I've never really encountered any problems with them.. not counting when two of them had a crush on me.
 All of us are still close though, nothing's changed.
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Apr 20 2006, 01:14 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I used to but in the end, it always turned out that they wanted to be my friend because they liked me. It pisses me off that no guy wants to be just friends with me
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Apr 20 2006, 02:51 PM
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yeah i did, but he ended up liking me and i liked someone else so he stopped talking to me
and i now have a really close friend who's a guy, and we get along great |
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| *januaryrain* |
Apr 20 2006, 02:58 PM
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i used to be really close to a guy, who happened to be one of my ex boyfriend's best friends.. & supposedly 'he was in love with me', haah. But nothing happened, we're still friends, but I kind of get annoyed of him sometimes.
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Apr 20 2006, 04:52 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I don't have any best friends, except for my boyfriend. But yeah, I have tons of guy friends..
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Apr 20 2006, 06:33 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I have them..they`re really intresting..
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Apr 20 2006, 06:41 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
Yes, I only really have one good girl friend, and she likes to hang with the guys too. I hang out with them because there are NO problems..just so undramatic.
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Apr 20 2006, 07:19 PM
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 ...? Group: Member Posts: 1,023 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,467 |
my two best friends are both guys. and yeah i have problems with them just as you would have if they were girls.
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Apr 20 2006, 07:39 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
My best friend is a guy. =) And along with that, I have a lot of guy friends, I find it easier to talk to guys rather than girls. They tend to start more drama =/
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Apr 20 2006, 08:34 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
mostly all of my friends are boys.. its a major probalem case i have a BF and usualy HIS friend likes ME. so complicated.. but they are much fun casue they usually help you too.
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Apr 20 2006, 08:36 PM
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A large majority of my friends are guys, including my best friend. He really likes me a lot, but I don't like him. It's fine how it is and there's really not any problems. He knows I don't and he's fine. We're very close friends.
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Apr 20 2006, 09:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,626 |
i'd say half and half.
in the end, it really depends on the person... you can still have guys who think and act with a drama queen's mentality and girls who think with a guy's mentality.... but yea, usually guys are easier to talk to... or theres more to talk about other than boyfriends, hot guys and manicures, etc. |
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Apr 20 2006, 10:07 PM
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 i wanna know what's inside... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,784 |
i'd guess by problems you mean that the guy friend is more interested in a relationship, or using you?
i've never had problems with my guy friends, but then, most of them are gay... and i've never had a problem with a straight guy friend either. i think it depends on how you act as a person sometimes, wether the guy is going to just treat you as another friend or as a special interest. >rilind |
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Apr 20 2006, 10:16 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(x__Elle. @ Apr 20 2006, 5:52 PM)  I don't have any best friends, except for my boyfriend. But yeah, I have tons of guy friends.. Yeah, same here. I don't really have any best friends, except for my boyfriend. I have a few close friends that are guys, but my other friends tell me that once, they used to like me. |
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Apr 20 2006, 11:28 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
my ex-bf and me are good friends.
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Apr 21 2006, 10:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Yeah, I know about one guy and I've known him for about 4 years. We used to have a lot of arguments and stuff but it's okay now. there's really nothing to get mad at each other about and i don't have to go through with that drama.
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Apr 21 2006, 11:51 AM
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 its_a_bird Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,637 |
yea i have a lot of guy friends... and usually, i feel more comfortable with them. cuz i can goof around more
 but then, once they start to talk about stuff girls shouldnt be listening to, it turns awkward. haha but. yea, no problems |
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Apr 21 2006, 02:25 PM
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 aaron stanford <3 Group: Member Posts: 112 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,304 |
i dont have best friends i have friends
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Apr 21 2006, 03:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,927 |
Yeah, I've got a lot of guy friends and [I've got two] one of my best friends is a guy... I get along with both though, its not because they dont cause drama or anything - kinda think its just on their personality. The problem I have is that I think my boyfriend gets jealous
 meh... they're just friends
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Apr 21 2006, 04:42 PM
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yupp most of my friends are girls though
its great cause we are exactly alike have the same prefrenceses and everything.. from who we find atractive ( im bi and he is to) to family problems and school drama and all that junk soo we are able to comfert each other better then anyine else  its actually amazing how close we are since weve never gone out and we met in late october |
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Apr 21 2006, 11:49 PM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
yeap i have a guy best friend. problems? naaaa
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Apr 22 2006, 12:22 AM
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stick that in your juicebox and suck it. Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,881 |
QUOTE(ref_inn_ej @ Apr 21 2006, 9:51 AM) yea i have a lot of guy friends... and usually, i feel more comfortable with them. cuz i can goof around more but then, once they start to talk about stuff girls shouldnt be listening to, it turns awkward. haha but. yea, no problems same here! I love having a best friend who's a guy because I can goof around and be immature and he won't bitch slap me. lol!! But it's the opposite in the girly/guy stuff situation. I get extremely annoyed when he constantley, almost all the time talks about stuff like that and I think I take it a little to seriously when he talks about this girl he's totally obsessed with (not a girlfriend) because I still like him A LOT! He's also... um... my ex so that's why I said "still" but yeah. |
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Apr 22 2006, 01:23 AM
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 maybe it's just a dream Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,421 |
girl, you know my best guy friends.
 I have best friends that are girls and then I have best friends that are guys. I feel lucky like that… having more than one best friend. but guys as best friends… gotta be careful. if you like him a little more than a friend, be aware that he's going to talk to you about girls he likes because he considers you his friend and not significant other. he's bound to talk about things like that, and even more so if he knows you well. that happens to me a lot… more than personal comfort would normally allow. 
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Apr 22 2006, 10:40 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,369 |
I had bestfriends who were guys. My ex was my bestfriend but yeah i went out with his"bestfriend" and then when we broke up. He asked me out ..It's kinda of a three way situration. It's so deeply annoying. Now we all don't talk.
Anyways I think guys bestfriends are still great because you can do the stupidest stuff together. I have to best guy friends, one is Bi but he is the most absolutely coolest i've sen around. I hate it how when you have a guy friend and you spend more time with that person people think you are going out. Its dumb .. haha sorry off topic. |
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Apr 22 2006, 01:24 PM
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i don't like to use the term "best friend" but most of my close friends are guys. they're just better to talk to.
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| *tahco_monster* |
Apr 22 2006, 01:30 PM
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i have tons of guy best friends. and i love them all :D
although they can be assholes at times, i still love them, yah know? being together though the thick and thin is what a friendship is all about. |
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Apr 22 2006, 02:58 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,430 |
QUOTE(AzNxBaBi @ Apr 22 2006, 8:40 AM) I hate it how when you have a guy friend and you spend more time with that person people think you are going out. Its dumb .. haha sorry off topic. that im completly agreed on its kinda awkward when in one day your asked if you to are related also if you to are going out (not the same people though) |
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Apr 23 2006, 06:38 AM
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damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
^ Haha! I agree too. My best friend and I were rumored to be a couple, and it kinda gets in your nerves when people constantly tell/ask you: "Hey! I heard you and *name* are a couple! Since when have you hooked up? Huh? HUH?"
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| *SuzieRawkSoxx* |
Apr 24 2006, 10:56 AM
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I used to have a guy best friend but then he started getting in between my relationship with my boyfriend so i eliminated the problem. Its cool to have a guy best friend when your single.
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Apr 24 2006, 06:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
I have three best guy friends. Well two of them are actual friends cus one of them is my boyfriend. Anywayyy.
Yeah one of them is the one who i talk with the most. I used to have problems/fights with him EVERY single time I would talk on the phone with him. Like EVERY single time. ABOUT anythinggg. We haven't fought for like three months which is the most. i love him to death. my other best guy friend, i know since i was five. i dont talk to him as often since we dont go to the same school. i feel really comfortable around him when we hang out cus well, he's like my brother. yeah. the only thing i kind of dislike about having really close guy friends is that they get really over protective sometimes. |
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May 4 2006, 07:06 PM
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stick that in your juicebox and suck it. Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,881 |
QUOTE(squeeeks =) @ Apr 22 2006, 12:58 PM) that im completly agreed on its kinda awkward when in one day your asked if you to are related also if you to are going out (not the same people though) seriously! I hate that too! QUOTE(ms. independent @ Apr 21 2006, 11:23 PM) girl, you know my best guy friends. I have best friends that are girls and then I have best friends that are guys. I feel lucky like that… having more than one best friend. but guys as best friends… gotta be careful. if you like him a little more than a friend, be aware that he's going to talk to you about girls he likes because he considers you his friend and not significant other. he's bound to talk about things like that, and even more so if he knows you well. that happens to me a lot… more than personal comfort would normally allow. Yes stranger, I know that. But I get annoyed and upset by it because thinks have been done to me that I don't wanna be reminded of (one including Justin) and him talking about that brings them back up and I just wanna cry. |
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May 4 2006, 09:06 PM
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yepppppp
every girl does or most. 
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May 4 2006, 09:39 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
well, he's not my best friend but he's pretty close. i used to like him in the summer but in my trying to get closer to him, we became good friends and i dropped the crush. i dont really have alot of problems.
but my cousin, his best friend is a girl and x_x lord the problems are up every other week. because he likes her...yea. |
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May 4 2006, 10:50 PM
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 revolution + desire Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 284,328 |
looking back, most of my bestfriends have been boys. and, if they weren't boys...they were chicks who acted/thought like boys. i've always felt more at ease around guys. girls and i don't agree much and it more often than not ends up in catty feuds. i'm not the most girly chick on the block, so i tend to clash with the more "ultimate girls!" around here. although!!! i have had a couple of those...girly chicks as close friends. they were the exceptions. we got along great and had the most amazing teasing banter with each other. so, opposites attract only sometimes, i suppose.
it's been a huge problem for me though. having boys as bestfriends. since most of my guys had girlfriends. and..well, of course they HATED me. i was always around, knew all their secrets, had inside jokes, was comfortable cuddling and touching them, etc. just like any bestfriends do. but, that doesn't fly too high with significant others. i've lost a couple because of angry/jealous/bitchy girliefriends. |
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May 5 2006, 03:44 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Like with anything else, having a boy best friend has its advantages and disadvantages.
IMO, guys are better to hang out with and get along with compared to girls. Girls get whiny and bitchy about the lamest things sometimes. But then again, there are times when you need your girlfriends with you to have a good ol' girl talk about all of the girly things too. 
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May 5 2006, 04:52 AM
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 oink Group: Member Posts: 1,099 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,836 |
i think guy freinds are more loyal..? they dont backstab you
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