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Did it hurt the first couple times?
Did it hurt the first couple times?
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post Apr 19 2006, 04:18 PM
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My boyfriend just started f.ingering me but it sorta hurts.... i was just wondering if ne one else felt the first couple times
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 04:30 PM
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is this pg 13?

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post Apr 19 2006, 04:31 PM
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this seems a little disturbing...
don't you think? mellow.gif
 
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Oh it hurts a LOT. At first it gets all ticklish then it just BAM hurts like a ...
 
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I'm going to re-open this topic. We have had topics on giving oral sex and anal sex, I don't see why this is any different. Besides, she sounds like she needs some advice.

- - -

Anyway, of course it hurts! You're not used to anything being down there. I mean, I've been using tampons regularly for the last year or so and it still hurts a bit when I put one in. I've only been fingered twice, but the second time did hurt less than the first.
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 05:32 PM
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umm i have no experience in this so i can't say much but yeah, like everyone else said, it should hurt the first few times because you're not use to it but after awhile you'll learn to become use to it.
 
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Yes. I've done it a lot more than a couple of times. It doesn't really hurt, it feels more like..awkward.

He doesn't go very far in because I'm too scared still.. =/
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 05:53 PM
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im so good, i use my toes
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 07:25 PM
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it never hurt..but uh. once it did. only cuz uh.. later i found out it was more than 1...
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 08:04 PM
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um... that's pretty gross!!!

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I guess it probably would hurt the first time pinch.gif maybe it's cause you're not used to uhh...being fingered.
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 08:11 PM
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is fingering a form of masturbation??
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 08:20 PM
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I've never been fingered. Ever. So I probably wouldn't know how it feels and I don't know what it means, because I'm so.. unknowledeable. :luagh: Can someone explain what fingering is?
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 08:41 PM
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fingering is when you or a guy...,or a girl, sticks 1+ fingers up in your vagina instead of a penis to tickle that g-spot and give you sexual pleasure :D
 
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QUOTE(priyas @ Apr 19 2006, 9:11 PM) *
is fingering a form of masturbation??

If it's done by yourself, yeah.

I think it hurts when it's your first time being fingered and if the person doing it is really bad at it. I've had the displeasure of experiencing both. The latter was obsessed with trying to please me that way because he was jealous that someone did it to me before him. I went through so much pain trying to make him happy _dry.gif I was such a fool then.

But now, it feels very nice with my current lover.
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 08:59 PM
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The first time that I was fingered, it hurt, like crazy! I didnt know how to react and so I screamed really loud. But then I think it was because I was still a virgin and so having that done really killed me. But once you've had it done at least once or twice, it shouldn;t hurt anymore. Maybe his fingers are just too rough? _unsure.gif
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 10:01 PM
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Uhm...I would guess so..

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post Apr 19 2006, 10:30 PM
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QUOTE(I'm Alex... rawr! @ Apr 19 2006, 8:04 PM) *
um... that's pretty gross!!!

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Well sex is pretty gross too then. Imaging having a PENIS in your vagina that can like..leak..stuff in you.

{Sorry if that wasn't PG 13.}
 
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no, it didn't hurt because i use tampons and i've done it myself before so im used to it. im guessing that if you haven't had anything stuck up there then it would hurt the first couple of times. i prefer oral over getting fingered though...
 
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im so good, i use my toes

Haha, stfu Evan lol.
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 10:54 PM
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dont be jealous kevin^

QUOTE(x__Elle. @ Apr 19 2006, 10:30 PM) *
Well sex is pretty gross too then. Imaging having a PENIS in your vagina that can like..leak..stuff in you.

{Sorry if that wasn't PG 13.}



leak stuff? what the fu- OH! you mean cum,jizz, semen, white monkees,sperm all that good stuff. why didnt you just say that?
 
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i doubt it would leak out just like that...
 
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dont be jealous kevin^
leak stuff? what the fu- OH! you mean cum,jizz, semen, white monkees,sperm all that good stuff. why didnt you just say that?

Leaking seems a bit extreme unless there is like a gallon of "kevin."

Anywho, oh yeah Evan, I'm so good, all I need to do is look and its done.
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 11:19 PM
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psh, im so good, all i have to do is lift my pinky and she squirts
 
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post Apr 19 2006, 11:26 PM
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i dont ever want to be fingered. sex seems like a better option.
like anyways. i would never ask my bf to finger me. blink.gif
 
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post Apr 20 2006, 12:53 AM
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^ You'd be surprised at how much they'd volunteer to do it.
 
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im so good, i use my toes

Ew I don't want toe germs down there!

It's kinda gross though if you don't wash your hand before or after. Your finger is gonna smell bad. Unless you drink cranberry juice daily.
 
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post Apr 20 2006, 12:28 PM
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I like the comments that say, "Ew a penis inside me?!?!". Sounds like Pre-K cooties.

I don't think I've hurt any girls doing it. whistling.gif
 
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QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Apr 19 2006, 10:54 PM) *
leak stuff? what the fu- OH! you mean cum,jizz, semen, white monkees,sperm all that good stuff. why didnt you just say that?
Kid, you crack me up. Ilu.
 
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QUOTE(Madame C @ Apr 19 2006, 10:53 PM) *
^ You'd be surprised at how much they'd volunteer to do it.


^^well. we havent reached that stage. all we do is hold hands and kiss.
 
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QUOTE(x__Elle. @ Apr 20 2006, 4:44 PM) *
Kid, you crack me up. Ilu.


you see that Kevin!? she loves Me!
 
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post Apr 20 2006, 11:51 PM
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this conversation is getting quite amusing.
 
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post Apr 21 2006, 01:58 AM
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Wow, I feel damn old seeing the comments on here. I guess I need to realize that I'm 30 now and there's 10 year old kids on here that have no idea about anything.
 
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^ OmGoRrRRzzzz!!!!! FiNGERiNG ewwwwwwww!!!!!!!

ahaha... i love little kids....
 
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QUOTE(Jeng @ Apr 19 2006, 2:30 PM) *
is this pg 13?


wow u go through all that just to snitch on someone for breaking the rules. ur really bored arent u? leave the police work for the mods and get a life.
 
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QUOTE(priyas @ Apr 20 2006, 7:24 PM) *
^^well. we havent reached that stage. all we do is hold hands and kiss.


Hold old are you again? ermm.gif
 
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post Apr 22 2006, 07:11 AM
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i've never been fingered... but i guess it would hurt the first couple times since your not used to having something in there...
 
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post Apr 22 2006, 12:48 PM
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nope..didnt hurt for me..but it did with one boyfriend..like..10 boyfriends down the line or something..he was just rough tho..
 
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QUOTE(wind&fire @ Apr 21 2006, 2:02 AM) *
^ OmGoRrRRzzzz!!!!! FiNGERiNG ewwwwwwww!!!!!!!

ahaha... i love little kids....
How old are you? Just curious.
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wow u go through all that just to snitch on someone for breaking the rules. ur really bored arent u? leave the police work for the mods and get a life.
Wow, harsh..
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Hold old are you again? ermm.gif
She could be as old as you, maybe she just started dating the guy and doesn't want to go straight to fingering. wink.gif
 
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QUOTE(corizzle20 @ Apr 21 2006, 3:20 AM) *
wow u go through all that just to snitch on someone for breaking the rules. ur really bored arent u? leave the police work for the mods and get a life.


hahaha
 
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post Apr 22 2006, 05:12 PM
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QUOTE(Jorge @ Apr 21 2006, 7:23 AM) *
Hold old are you again? ermm.gif

I'm 14. I'm just not into fingering. Its kind of disturbing.
 
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QUOTE(priyas @ Apr 20 2006, 5:24 PM) *
^^well. we havent reached that stage. all we do is hold hands and kiss.

in this day & age...is holding hands and kissing even a stage?!!

ha :D
 
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QUOTE(Frankie @ Apr 22 2006, 5:21 PM) *
in this day & age...is holding hands and kissing even a stage?!!

ha :D
Lol true.
 
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QUOTE(Frankie @ Apr 22 2006, 3:21 PM) *
in this day & age...is holding hands and kissing even a stage?!!

ha :D

according to me, yes.
 
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post Apr 22 2006, 06:32 PM
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[quote name='priyas' post='2008640' date='Apr 22 2006, 5:27 PM']in this day & age...is holding hands and kissing even a stage?!!

ha :D

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according to me, yes.
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i agree... maybe we are just 14....and dont know much.

but for anyone it should be a stage

Edit- ^grr....not letting me quote to ppl in one....
 
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I dont think it should hurt .. At least it never hurt me.
 
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wow all the lil people. I'm thinking how did I figure this stuff out? I didnt have a web forum to ask random web people questions lol. I wonder how they did it before internet hehe. It didnt hurt me. If its hurting you u are either a very tiny person, or hes using too many fingers. And make sure his nails are clipped and filed smooth, and no hang nails...cuz he can cut up ur inside skins. And yeah, that would hurt.
 
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does it hurt more than sex?
 
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Are you still a virgin if you get fingered..

I got asked this the other day and I didnt know what to say :-/
 
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maybe it hurts because you're a virgin


or his fingernail is poking you
 
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hmm.. So you are a virgin after this has happend..

This seems complicated.
 
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Apr 23 2006, 5:24 PM) *
huh.gif What's bigger....a finger, or a penis?

Let's hope it's the penis that's bigger.



hahah. laugh.gif
 
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maybe it hurts because you're a virgin
or his fingernail is poking you
^ pinch.gif I don't even wanna think about that. -scrap scrap-
 
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wow..i feel bad for the girls who say it does hurt when its a finger. when they have sex, its gonna be hell since a penis is probably 2.5 times bigger than a finger.
 
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shifty.gif Da chick b4 me is a dime, yo. anyway...

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wow u go through all that just to snitch on someone for breaking the rules. ur really bored arent u? leave the police work for the mods and get a life.

Burned, baby. Scorched, sizzled, deep fried wit a side of mashed potatoes. hehehe
 
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fingering can sometimes break the hymen...so maybe thats what hurt
 
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I'm not a virgin, but I realized that I never touched a girl's vagina with my hands.
 
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feels good actually... whistling.gif

isnt it suppose to feel good? huh.gif
 
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Well PG-13 or not theyre leaving it open. mellow.gif Anyways the first couple of times i guess it hurts but then it feels OK. _dry.gif
 
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MY GOD. You must be shunned or something.

p.s. Keep this topic going - it's rather amusing.
 
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Yeah, this is funny.

Anyway, Kathleen and I are past that already.
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Waaaaaaay past that. whistling.gif
 
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QUOTE(No Fear @ Apr 24 2006, 10:09 AM) *
I'm not a virgin, but I realized that I never touched a girl's vagina with my hands.


That's good, Eddie. laugh.gif
 
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it did the first few times.. but it's okay now.
 
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Okay, I'll be a bit outspoken here and say that I, for one, didn't think it hurt the first time. I know one other person said so, but where are all the other nine of you that voted "No"? tongue.gif
 
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im so good, i use my toes


wow.. i guess thats some skills. showoff.gif
 
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do people finger themselves?? pinch.gif
 
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do people finger themselves??


shifty.gif I know sum that do. hehehe

Seriously, though, it shuldn't hurt that much. happy.gif at least i ain't got no complaints
 
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That would be called masturbation. thumbsup.gif
 
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and how old are you?

anyway. this topic is turning me on ._. whistling.gif
 
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Lol. This is an amusin topic. biggrin.gif
 
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It only hurt the first time because er.. he was rough but other times it wasnt painful
 
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..excuse me?
 
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and also
for some people i guess it would
 
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i voted yes =)

(hint look at my sex)
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....no it didnt hurt the first time, at least not for me.

&& also...i heard that if you do get fingered or anything along those lines...its considered that you've lost your virginity...
make sense? huh.gif
...nope.
 
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^not technically

it only hurt once, but that's because he wouldn't cut his nails _dry.gif

the conversations here are quite amusing. Grow up people, there are worse topics out there.
 
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HAHA. Oh man.
 
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It didn't hurt for me.

But then again I think it's better if you do it yourself a few times first, before having someone else do it for you. That way you know what to sorta' expect and you can tell 'im..he's like doing it wrong or something if it doesn't feel good.
 
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How old are you? Just curious.

Cariss is older than you think.

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Yes.

You'd know

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maybe it hurts because you're a virgin
or his fingernail is poking you

Damn cut them. That would be so funny though if the guy hadn't cut them in 5 months.
 
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You'd know

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QUOTE(minkxx @ Apr 24 2006, 3:41 AM) *
weell.

i do it, sometimes..
it's normal rigght????


of course its normal.


It didnt hurt for me. just kinda felt wierd the first time
 
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 2 2006, 10:24 PM) *
i had the doctor put his finger in my a-hole once... becuase my mom thought i had cancer and... if thats the kind of fingering your talking about.... it hurts SOOOOO MUCH @_@



ignore him.
he can be a little odd at times. mellow.gif

i would know.
 
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QUOTE(This Confession @ May 2 2006, 10:25 PM) *
ignore him.
he can be a little odd at times. mellow.gif

i would know.


well, its true... :/
 
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it should hurt because you new to it. if you not than that mean he doing somthing wrong or his nail to long.
 
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yeah, my first time totally hurt a lot. I'm pretty sure that's when my hymen broke.

also! I got my first pap smear a while ago, and my doctor had to put her fingers inside me to check my ovaries. that was totally weird.
 
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my guess is that your body isnt used to it.

this is gonna be a kinda weird example..but here it goes. have you ever used contacts? when you first put them in your eyes sorta feel funny..but then after a while you get kind of used to it. so if you start fingering more often i guess your body will get used to it

when i first did it, yes it did hurt...i dont do it much because it still hurts but just not as much.
 
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Apr 23 2006, 4:24 PM) *
huh.gif What's bigger....a finger, or a penis?

Let's hope it's the penis that's bigger.


LMAO!

...Anyway, it hurt for me...it hurt for like a couple of days. But then again...he was pretty dang horny. Anyway, after a while you'll get used to it.
 
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QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ May 2 2006, 1:42 PM) *
Damn cut them. That would be so funny though if the guy hadn't cut them in 5 months.


I wouldn't find that funny, I'd find that very painful. Yikes. pinch.gif

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yeah, my first time totally hurt a lot. I'm pretty sure that's when my hymen broke.


That's how my hymen broke too. It was really weird, and it kinda' hurt. But suprisingly enough, not the piercing pain I thought I'd experience once my hymen broke. huh.gif
 
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it hurts for me everytime a boy does it... like not only the vagina its self, but my whole pelvis sort of aches. same thing for doing sex.... for the first coupletimes anyway.

i think i'm just allergic to boys.
 
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Cariss is older than you think.

going by her profile older than her... she doesnt have the ability to detect satire...
 
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it hurts for me everytime a boy does it... like not only the vagina its self, but my whole pelvis sort of aches. same thing for doing sex.... for the first coupletimes anyway.

i think i'm just allergic to boys.

laugh.gif True. I've never had sex but mutual masterbation is best. It hurts though. I've only had it done twice to me...still hurts.
 
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I bled the first time..not a lot though. Probably because my hymen broke. But he usually hits this spot that makes it feel good. Sometimes he hurts me..but not a lot.
 
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ok this is what i have found on this topic..

I was bored and I wanted to know this as well.

The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates whether or not a female is a virgin. * You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.*

I found this info at
http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
^ Good info..

I also found this..

Question : My partner inserted his finger into my vagina for the first time. Will this cause my hymen to tear? At the same day, when i took my bath, I noticed that my vagina is swollen. Does this mean that my hymen is torn off? How do I know if my hymen is torn? What are the symptoms of hymen tear? Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore?

Answer : The hymen can be broken in many different ways. Many women may have torn their hymen early in life by falling on something, riding a horse, or by participating in strenuous sports. On the other hand, some women have been able to give birth and have their hymen remain intact. It is very difficult to tell if your hymen is broken or not. In some occasions, the hymen will bleed when it is broken, but this is not always the case. Therefore, it is possible that by inserting a finger into your vagina your hymen has been broken, but this is not easy to know. Unfortunately, we are unable to give you a definitive answer to your final question. Every person has a different definition of virginity. Some people believe that once the hymen has been broken, the woman is no longer a virgin. Most believe that penile-vaginal sex is the only way virginity is lost. Yet this does not take into account the wide range of sexual activities people do, nor does it allow for homosexuals to ever technically lose their virginity. In the end, you must come up with your own definition of what it means to be a virgin.

^-- also good info..
found on http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=faq&refid=349

My idea of losing my virginity is when I have had a penis up the vaginal hole.

It also shouldent hurt unless your a small person.. and he has big fingers..

yeah...

edit/ not trying to funny...
 
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well its gonna be sore if he used to much pressure...but as you get more "used" to it the pain goes away. almost like sex, it may hurt at first but eventually the pain subsides. its just not used to being stretched that far, tampons can do the same thing.
 

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