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 Apr 18 2006, 09:30 PM
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um.. im not sure if this is PG-13... but i really need to know...
my boyfriend and i became quite intimate a couple months back.. and a couple weeks back.. we had briefly had oral sex (him doing it to me..).. and now.. im not sure if its related.. but after that incident.. i have little bumps under my pubic hair area (ive never had something like this before until after.. that..). They look like little pimples.. and they are pretty itchy.. but if i ever do itch them.. they start hurting a lot... did i get some kind of HIV / STI or anything like that...  what's wrong with me? im getting nervous/scared... or is this something that has nothing to do with HIV/STI and something else? please help...
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Apr 18 2006, 09:32 PM
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I'm not an expert but consulting a doctor would be a wise decision.
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Apr 18 2006, 09:34 PM
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im only 17... i couldnt possibly tell my parents.. they are against me having a bf to begin with.. they would hit the roof if they knew i even frenched him... so i have no way to get to a doctor.. not to mention the embarassment factor...
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Apr 18 2006, 09:36 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
That sounds pretty bad...
It can't simply be dry skin if there are painful bumps... You may have contracted herpes...hopefully not but you definitely should go see a gynecologist. You could go to a Planned Parenthood, I believe they have a policy of confidentiality. |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Apr 18 2006, 09:37 PM
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QUOTE(oOKittyKatOo @ Apr 18 2006, 10:34 PM)  im only 17... i couldnt possibly tell my parents.. they are against me having a bf to begin with.. they would hit the roof if they knew i even frenched him... so i have no way to get to a doctor.. not to mention the embarassment factor... Don't you have those doctors who allow anonymous teen patients in your area? |
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Apr 18 2006, 09:57 PM
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i havnt checked.. i'll do some research and see if i have any near here.. thanks
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Apr 18 2006, 11:20 PM
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go to a clinic & not to mention; ask your boyfriend if he has anything serious and to be there for you; through this whole thing
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Apr 19 2006, 12:34 AM
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It sounds like crabs, although I don't know how you would have gotten it from oral sex.
QUOTE What are the symptoms of crabs? Symptoms commence approximately 2-3 weeks after contamination. The symptoms of crabs are primarily dermatological: localized itchiness (pruritus) of the affected regions, whether in the genital or other hirsute (hairy) skin zones. At times a patient may observe tiny blood stains in their underwear – this may signal the presence of the parasite before the itchiness begins. Itchiness is caused by the penetration of the local skin by the bug – in order that its eggs may be laid (small red spots). Minute pale brown insects or their pale whitish eggs may be visible if you look close enough. I'm sure it's obvious that you should contact your gyno as soon as possible... If you don't get early treatment, it'll end up a lot worse than it started out. |
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Apr 19 2006, 12:48 AM
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damn girl hahahaha u got burnt! sorry hun but yur dude gave u sumthin nasty, but maybe not... i guess it depends, have u ever experienced anythin like this b4? if not im guessin its not a coincidence!
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Apr 19 2006, 07:54 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
they could just be ingrown hairs irritated from the...*experience*...unless you dont shave then yea.....but it would be wise to get it checked out though. better safe than sorry
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Apr 19 2006, 10:48 AM
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QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Apr 19 2006, 1:48 AM) damn girl hahahaha u got burnt! sorry hun but yur dude gave u sumthin nasty, but maybe not... i guess it depends, have u ever experienced anythin like this b4? if not im guessin its not a coincidence! you're so f**king rude. 
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Apr 19 2006, 12:35 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(lyin_in_wait @ Apr 19 2006, 5:54 AM) they could just be ingrown hairs irritated from the...*experience*...unless you dont shave then yea.....but it would be wise to get it checked out though. better safe than sorry Agreed. It sounds more like shaving related than oral-sex. Have you shaved your cho-cha recently? If so, then you have ingrown hairs. |
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Apr 19 2006, 12:51 PM
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 You know what that is? It's called love. Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 255,095 |
^ agreed also. It depends though. You should still get it checked out. It could be a variety of things.
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Apr 19 2006, 01:08 PM
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QUOTE(sillakilla220 @ Apr 19 2006, 1:48 AM) damn girl hahahaha u got burnt! sorry hun but yur dude gave u sumthin nasty, but maybe not... i guess it depends, have u ever experienced anythin like this b4? if not im guessin its not a coincidence! that's really rude. she came here for advice. that's very inconsiderate and un-needed right now.
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| *Zatanna* |
Apr 19 2006, 02:43 PM
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Seriously - go to your ObGyn and SOON. If there is a potential problem, you might have an infection that could grow steadily worse. This is not an area of your body to neglect.
I understand that you don't feel comfortable speaking to your parents about this. Perhaps go to Planned Parenthood? |
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Apr 19 2006, 07:56 PM
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 Sing me something pretty. Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,944 |
sometimes that happens when you shave your pubes. it could be from that but it depends - have you shaved down there recently?
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Apr 19 2006, 10:10 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
First off. Was your bf tested?
I understand that your parents dont like you having a bf. But some STI's such as syphilis can be fatal if they are not treated. Others such as aids are life long. Its better to tell your parents or your conditons will get worst? |
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Apr 19 2006, 10:16 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
I suggest going to a doctor; what's the worst your parents can do? Ground you? I really, really, hope they wouldn't kick you out of the house
 I'll pray for ya, and make sure your boyfriend is with you through this 
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Apr 20 2006, 06:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,942 |
aw thanks everybody for your concern.. it really touched me
i did find a walk in clinic around here.. and i went with a really good friend to get it checked out.. and the doctor said it wasnt herpes or anything.. and that it was just an irritation.. he didnt say from what though.. coz i dont shave down.. there.. LOL but everything is okay =) thanks again 
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Apr 20 2006, 06:39 PM
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Yayyyyyyy
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