IMA GURL. needing some guy advice., when you're about to loose him... |
 Apr 12 2006, 11:56 PM
Post
#1
|
|
|
Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426  |
i need some advice.. please.
me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 11 months. we had a small break up 3 months ago. i feel like he doesn't care as much anymore. he doesn't call me unless it's to make plans.. and he wont SMS/IM me unless i SMS/IM him first.. does this mean he's loosing interest? also- i find myself getting angry at him because of this. any advice? help? thanks. |
|
|
|
 |
Replies
(1 - 12)
|
Apr 13 2006, 06:00 AM
Post
#2
|
|
 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
maybe he is loosing interest
why not talk to him about it, tell him how you feel |
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2006, 06:03 AM
Post
#3
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
i think he is loosing interest...
maybe you tell your feeling to him?maybe he really doesnt know you are angry because of those stuffs. |
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2006, 09:18 AM
Post
#4
|
|
 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE we had a small break up 3 months ago. What do you mean by that? It could've affected him more than it affects you. Talk to him about how you feel. Ask him if he's mad at you. But also consider that maybe it's time to move on. |
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2006, 11:02 AM
Post
#5
|
|
 cool by default. Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,925 |
i'm going through a similiar situation. i feel like my boyfriend is losing interest too cause we dont have the same talks on AIM the way we used to.
you should talk to him about it. ask him to tell you straight up how he feels about the relationship. if he's really losing interest, theres nothing you can really do. you may just have to move on. |
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2006, 02:21 PM
Post
#6
|
|
 pfft. Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,445 |
talk to him about it
if he really cares about u he'll listen 
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2006, 02:38 PM
Post
#7
|
|
 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, definitely talk to him. Tell him how you feel and try not to get angry because that will get nowhere.
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 14 2006, 05:12 AM
Post
#8
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
thanks guys :)
|
|
|
|
| *SuzieRawkSoxx* |
Apr 14 2006, 06:50 AM
Post
#9
|
|
Guest |
You know maybe just maybe you guys BOTH need some time aart to just chill with friends key word APART from each other usually after this trial week or w/e things go back to normal. I mean if you two love each other than its worth trying everything to make the situation BETTER i was kind of going through this a couple of months ago but its all better now. Hope every thing really works out form the better.
XOXOXO 
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 15 2006, 06:33 PM
Post
#10
|
|
 我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
my idea? he's being who he really is. a guy. im sorry but most guys arent super romantic and constantly shower you with affection every time he gets the chance. its been eleven months now. either he is becoming more like himself around you, or he is losing interest.
when you go out together, does he still act the same as at 2 months? base it on how he spends his time with you, not how often he sends you a message. |
|
|
|
| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 18 2006, 12:11 PM
Post
#11
|
|
Guest |
Since no one in here has said it yet...
 COMMUNICATION He probably doesn't know how you feel, and he never will unless you tell him about it. Tell him exactly what you told us, that you feel as if he's not very interested. QUOTE we had a small break up 3 months ago. ^ I was a tad bit confused on that note.
|
|
|
|
| *chaneun* |
Apr 18 2006, 01:43 PM
Post
#12
|
|
Guest |
Threaten him:
"IF WE DON'T GO OUT ANYMORE, I'LL F'ING KILL YOU!" or suddenly become Adriana Lima or Alessandra Ambrossio and he'll be interested. :) |
|
|
|
|
Apr 18 2006, 05:30 PM
Post
#13
|
|
 life is beautiful Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,856 |
i have a similar problem. i've been with my boyfriend for over a year, but it seems like i'm always the one making the first move to do something. i know that he's shy and all, but it's still a bit depressing. i guess it's just how he is.
maybe your boyfriend doesn't know how you feel. if i were you (and since i should do the same thing haha), i would talk to him about it. it'll make life more enjoyable
|
|
|
|
 |
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: