lot's of love..., nothing to say? Options

[oOKittyKatOo]

i have this problem with my bf right now..

we've been together for nearly 7 months now.. and i can still say that we are both still very much in love with each other.. but for the past couple of months.. for some reason.. we have nothing to say to each other on the phone... we have a blast when we're together (like physically there with each other).. even on MSN we can fool around and talk with each other fine... but when we're on the phone.. it's always the same.. so whats up..? or we talk about our furture together.. (always the same things though).. other then that.. it's silent. we have nothing to say to each other... so usually he starts doing something else.. and i start doing something else.. and we just make random comments once in a while pertaining to what we're doing.. but that's about it....

i was just wondering is this wierd for a relationship and does this happen to anyone else or is it just my relationship?

any comments/suggestions on what's happening or how i can change this would be appreciated


thanks.

[SpedMonkee]

that used to happen to me and my ex all the time.

how many times a day/week to you call each other? maybe you shouldnt call each other daily or constantly or whatever. maybe you all seem to get everything out to each other when you are in person.

just my two cents

[Chii]

how many times a day/week to you call each other? maybe you shouldnt call each other daily or constantly or whatever.

This has happened to me as well and I agree with SpedMonkee. If you call each other everyday or see each other everyday or something like that then it's a given that you're going to run out of things to talk about. If you don't have anything to discuss, then don't call each other.

It will just put a strain in your relationship if you feel that you don't have anything to talk about. Your relationship seems fine, don't let something like this make you feel like something is wrong.

You can always watch tv together on the phone, that way you don't exactly have to talk as much but you can talk about the show during commercial breaks. That's what my ex and I did unless he started b*tching at me fo talking to much when he was the one who would talk during the show first.

[_sarcastic_]

i agree with spedmonkey. don't call each other everyday, it happened to me too, my ex and i would call each other everday and run out of things to talk about eventually.
nothing seems really wrong about the relationship, at least you guys are still communicating alot in person

[SpedMonkee]

i agree with spedmonkey.

someone cant spell monkee