How can you tell if a guy's just a friend or acting nice to get ur heart? |
 Apr 6 2006, 12:38 AM
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I'm in the advanced classes in school, so naturally i'm in classes w/ all the unattractive geeks. They're nice and everything, but i would never go out w/ any of them. How do you tell if a geek, or any type of guy for that matter, talks to you and is nice to you just to be your friend or if they just want to get a gf.
i'm really confused. guys make me confused. |
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Apr 8 2006, 10:37 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
I've never thought about this before, LOL.
I think that you should not think too much about that. Just be friends with them, and if you like them, then yay. I think that if a guy talked to you just to hook up, you would notice it. Like if he immediently jumped to the topic of bfs and gfs or like he's always tlaking about perverted things or something. That's only my opinion. |
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 8 2006, 11:08 PM
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Anytime a geek talks to a girl, he's thinking about having sex with her.
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Apr 9 2006, 08:34 AM
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Comparing :
A friend will JUST be there to talk to you when your down. A crush will hear about it and give something to you to make you feel better. A friend wouldn`t be running to you when he look`s at the notice board and see`s the word "PROM" A crush would be running for his life to ask you to the prom. A friend would walk you to the prom. A crush would drive a limo. ( You can alway`s let him down easy ) |
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Apr 9 2006, 11:17 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Shouldn't this be in Relationships..?
Anyway..I don't think it's too hard to notice when someone likes you..usually, when someone likes you, they sorta, ya know, go out of their way to do things for you, or to talk to you. |
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Apr 9 2006, 11:28 PM
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YES GUYS ARE CONFUSiNG :]
Guys these days like to play around, but don't let yourself fall so hard. I mean sure some are really into you and means so, cause they can act odd around you. But then again it's just yeah ..cause they are weird. |
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Apr 10 2006, 04:05 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,883 |
 I know how you feel!!! I think you probably have to trust your instinct and just wait to see what happens, if nothing, there ya go
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Apr 10 2006, 07:41 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Apr 9 2006, 12:08 AM)  Anytime a geek talks to a girl, he's thinking about having sex with her. That made me laugh out loud. It's going to depend for different guys. We can't just make one statement that's going to cover what every guy is thinking. |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Apr 10 2006, 07:53 PM
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I personally think it is almost impossible to tell the different. In my experiences, I guess the guy trying to get a piece of ass is just a little too nice.
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Apr 10 2006, 08:01 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Heh. I'm in the advaanced classes too, and some guys are pretty cute. Hm, I think it kinda depends on a guy. Flirting? Touching? A sudden change of the way he acts towards you.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 14 2006, 07:39 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Apr 9 2006, 12:08 AM) Anytime a geek talks to a girl, he's thinking about having sex with her.  I guess you would notice some kind of shyness.  I can't guarantee it happens to all guys, but around the person I like I'm usually shy.
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| *Programmer* |
Apr 14 2006, 08:33 PM
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^what she said is true.
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Apr 14 2006, 09:16 PM
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 oanh is awesome *nods* Group: Member Posts: 470 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 190,637 |
hm. Its weird, my AP classes are consist of some of the most popular guys in my school, probably the most arrogant guys you'll know. (football captain, basketball players, ect..)
But but...here's how to tell if a guy likes you or not. (some are not always right) -he talks to you more than other girls -looks at you for a long time (and you can tell from the corner of your eyes) -give you more attention than usual -tell you his problems -smiles at you when he don't usually smiles -offer help in something (homework, book carrying) |
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Apr 14 2006, 09:59 PM
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 They call me... St.Jimmy Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,546 |
guys usually act normal and smooth around just friends and when guys like girls they kinda fumble sometimes and act differently and sometimes get nervous and just kinda choke lol or they could just kinda play around with u like by joking with u and making u get close to them and make u laugh
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Apr 14 2006, 10:51 PM
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^ i agree.
when a guy likes you, he will say that you're beautiful or pretty...not hot and/or cute. he'll be nervous around you, or be the complete opposite and try to impress you and get your attention in the stupidest ways. i know that my boyfriend was scared to say the wrong things when we started to like each other; and he would stare at me from across the room and look away when i notice. i think that most, if not all guys, act differently around the girl that they like because they want them to like them back. |
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