what do you expect in a relationship |
 Apr 3 2006, 12:36 AM
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 chocolate luva  Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450  |
what do you expect in a relationship physically, mentally, and emotionally?
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Apr 3 2006, 12:38 AM
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Whatever lies beyond this morning is a little later on Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,260 |
Well to me, relationships are to boost up my feelings towards life.
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Apr 3 2006, 12:40 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
(i haven't been in a relationship yet, sadly. but this is what i'd want... theoretically)
physically... well i want to save sex for marriage, so there isn't that much left. no 'touching' or w.e. but hugging and kissing are fine? mentally- they have to sort of help keep me calm and less stressed, through school and problems... emotionally- they have to be able to cheer me up, or at least be able to emphasize (i think that's the word) with me. |
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Apr 3 2006, 01:24 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I expect a commitment, a connection, fun, intimacy, and a future.
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 3 2006, 09:13 AM
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A chance to improve and grow as a person. Relationships really help one discover a lot about oneself.
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Apr 3 2006, 03:19 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ I totally agree.
I want a companion that will lift my spirits and help me get through my problems and of course I'll return the favor. I want someone that can be my partner in crime unconditionally and we can help support each other. |
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Apr 3 2006, 04:48 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
I basically want what mipadi and Paradox of Life said. I want someone who brings out the best in me.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 3 2006, 05:03 PM
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Someone who opens your eyes and make your into a better person.
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Apr 4 2006, 05:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
I expect in a relationship. . . .
EQUALITY && there's nothing more to say.. a relationship is giving && recieving the same amount of everything on both parts.. If one person wants to give more than what the other has given one dayy then that's romantic.. but the other person shouldn't leave the other person hanging.. The other person should make it up to them some day some how the nexxt time.. 
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Apr 4 2006, 08:36 PM
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 Break My Heart Again. Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 |
well, i've never been in a relationship.
but i would have to say trust, honesty, faithfulness, respect and humor. i reserve the right to add more later lol... |
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Apr 4 2006, 08:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
Trust
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Apr 5 2006, 08:11 AM
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I expect to have a partner who will be with me through everything, happiness and sadness, trust, understanding and undying love. If these a e not there then u can be sure that it will not last long coz there many phases of life which are not always filled with joy.
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Apr 5 2006, 02:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 288,931 |
something that grows with me, motivates me and keeps me feeling alive...
someone I can have serious talks and lots of fun with, who i can trust and connect with... i think might have found him...but I won't know for sure for another 10+ years...  until then, im gonna enjoy whatever/whomever comes my way
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Apr 5 2006, 03:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
love, heartbreak, fights, moments [good & bad] & memories
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Apr 5 2006, 04:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,541 |
Passion, I don't mean passion like sex, but just for someone to love me and care about me, otherwise it wouldn't really be a relationship.
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Apr 7 2006, 06:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,077 |
I want somebody hot first of all :)
(Sorry.. that's just me) Honesty, I want honesty because a relationship doesn't go anywhere without honesty. I also want someone to make me feel secure, feel that I am good enough, feel loved. Someone I can love back easily, & someone i can easily talk to. |
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Apr 7 2006, 01:29 PM
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 You know what that is? It's called love. Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 255,095 |
I expect no sex till marrige, but a fun time. Hugs for sure and some kissing.
They should be able to make you laugh, just be able to hang out as friends as well, and never make you upset or make you cry. They should always be there for you, through thick and thin and never let you go. |
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Apr 7 2006, 03:10 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
love, friendship, trust, commitment, laughter.
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Apr 9 2006, 05:52 PM
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A view on life that I've never seen. I want to feel better about myself, knowing somebody cares about me. And there needs to be a lot of good times, trust and honesty.
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Apr 9 2006, 06:00 PM
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QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Apr 3 2006, 1:36 AM)  what do you expect in a relationship physically, mentally, and emotionally? Hmm Good Question. I guess at the end the main things i WANT in a relationship are: -Fun -Randomness -Gifts! -Affection -Passion -Fights/Debates Finnally... Un-Conditionla Love. ♥ Ive only found this in 1 relationship. The one im in now. I love him. He loves me. <3 |
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 10 2006, 02:12 PM
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QUOTE(swtcherriipie @ Apr 9 2006, 7:00 PM) Hmm Good Question. I guess at the end the main things i WANT in a relationship are: -Fun -Randomness -Gifts! -Affection -Passion -Fights/Debates Finnally... Un-Conditionla Love. ? Ive only found this in 1 relationship. The one im in now. I love him. He loves me. <3 What if you had everything but gifts? |
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Apr 10 2006, 02:17 PM
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Commitment, Honesty, Passion, Funny, Fun to be around... you know, all the typical stuff.
There is alot I expect, but whenever Im asked I always go braindead and cant think of anything. hahaha |
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Apr 11 2006, 06:51 PM
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basically i want a little bit of what everyone else has said.
- someone who can be my partner in crime;; someone who i'm not afraid to act naturally around - someone who will not pressure me sexually - someone who i can argue with one moment and hug the next - simply someone who's willing to treat me the right way and be there for me to love and grow up with;; i'm looking for a sweetheart with a bit of an edge ;] |
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 11 2006, 09:04 PM
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I expect dinner on the table every night at 6 o'clock sharp.
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Apr 11 2006, 09:09 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
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 respect, trust, commitment, and most of all to mature and experience things together. |
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Apr 12 2006, 04:48 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
physically: no sex til marriage....a guy that understands why and my feelings as to why and doesnt pressure me but looks forward to what we might have later on. hugging is perfectly ago...i'm an affectionate person and i love to cuddle and hug. kissing is perfectly ok as long as it doesnt get intense enough to lead to sex.
and emotional- loyalty trust passion and faithfulness are all things that i think must be there. i dont expect my guy to be perfect but he's gotta show that hes at least trying... i want him to love me for who i am and not for how i look. he needs to respect what i want and not bother me about anything that i say a straight no too theres more....but thats basicaclly what i want |
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Apr 12 2006, 04:49 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
When it comes to the word "girlfriend" I think of a girl thats my friend. See I wanna girl thats gonna be cool with me. I really like girls that are smart, thats the most sexiest thing is a woman with brains. With me being with a girlfriend it don`t have to be love or sex. It can be someone that jus come over and I can kick it wit. I`m the type of nigga that really cares about his girlfriend. I go all out for her if I have too. But thats me. I would like someone who loves to be competitive, Loves to have conversations on a more intellectual level but still keeps it Hood, someone to put up with my apathitic mood swings, Not so much into her looks, and someone who loves shoes jus as much as I do! thats a good girl to me.
edit.....Continued... I needs a girl who ain`t gonna lie to me. We can have a clean healthy relationship with one another. I don`t want her to always depend on me for everything, she can hold her own. I want a honest and smart female in my life and when we break up we can still stay the best of friends. Because I`m the type of nigga that care for my female and I`ll give her just as much respect as she give me. I`m very committed and I go all out for my girl but I do get jealous Sorry but I am the jealous type. I don`t like to see my girl huggin on another nigga every time I turn around I gets real mad. But when It comes to girls I really not that picky though. Angelica & Chris jan 5 2006 |
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Apr 12 2006, 05:05 PM
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just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
^like you....i'd definatly like a guy that i can have conversations with...actual convos. i like to argue and discuss what i think about things. cant believe i forgot that..oops
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Apr 12 2006, 06:19 PM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
someone who understands me.
someone who i'm not afraid to act naturally around. someone who can make me cry in a minute yet make me laugh in another. someone who loves and cares. |
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Apr 13 2006, 04:13 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
i expect to be respected.. like.. i don't want to get pushed into anything.
i'd want the guy to try and cheer me up when i'm down. to not leave me last on the priority list. to call ME every now and again. and to be there for me no matter what. |
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Apr 14 2006, 02:04 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
What i expect is something special that no one else has.
Mentally-you can tell him/her anything your feeling with out being embaressed, be honest even about the hardest of things,support,comfort and to make you feel like their the only one you need Physically-Have fun whenever you want no pressure to do anythin and to let it flow as time goes Emotionally-Love, happiness, NO drama, and no jealousy just like your meant to be together. |
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Apr 14 2006, 02:27 PM
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Commitment, the ability to understand, trust, friendship, loyalty, honesty, love.
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Apr 14 2006, 10:03 PM
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 They call me... St.Jimmy Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,546 |
someone to talk to and someone to hold when u need someone to hold and someone to be there fore and someone to care about and someone who cares about u and most of all someone to love and be happy with
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