help. serious boy issues. |
 Apr 2 2006, 11:07 AM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
okay girls i really need your help on this one.and ASAP!
okay so i met this guy at this party and we really hit it off.and i really started to like him. and i know he likes me. now the thing is he is a freshman and im a sophmore ..now im thinking thats not to big of a deal right? maybe i just always pictured my self w/ someone older not younger? but i really started to like him and weve hung out w/ some of our friends together and im starting to notice thats hes inmature and a little perverted. but maybe im over reacting.maybe he isnt that perverted.? but then again what guy isnt? but maybe im just looking at him wrong so he wont like me? im so confused. and this would be my first relationship.maybe im just scared..scared of being hurt.scared of being alone with him.scared in genera?? but all of a sudden i like dont want to talk to him. like if he IM's me i always say i g2g and get off even though i dont. whats happening to me? HELP!!!!! thanks for the help in advance. p.s. maybe im just freaking out( it would be my first relationship,first time for everything) |
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Apr 2 2006, 11:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,869 |
If you feel even a little edgy around him he's obviously not worth your time. Even if he's only a bit perverted, it can get really serious. If you're scared to be alone with him, he must be a bit of a perv! You can do better, he sounds like a creep!
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Apr 2 2006, 01:56 PM
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 i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
like is it just that he says some stupid perverted things or what? if you really don't feel comfortable around him i would break it off
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Apr 2 2006, 02:01 PM
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wow....way to rule out.. your options....i know this is the girls locker room but in all honesty....people put on masks in front of there friends...get to know him while you two are alone in a secure area where you know if he tries anything...you can get away. give the kid a chance.....you never know...he could be what your looking for....
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Apr 2 2006, 07:51 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
it seems like ur getting confused and dont no what u rely want jus let it cool down and decide what u rely want if u want this guy nobody should care bout how old he is its about what YOU want not what anyone else does. And so what if hes a lil immature and perverted u can always dump him its not like ur together forever
 look at it that way and if u dont wanna get hurt dont let ur self fall for him too fast. its the best i can tell u 
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Apr 2 2006, 09:49 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
trust your instincts. if you don't seem comfortable with him, then don't go out with him. hang out with him a little more, get to know him i guess.
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Apr 3 2006, 12:09 AM
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Whatever lies beyond this morning is a little later on Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,260 |
You're obviously confused. it doesn't hurt to go on one date on him to see what he's really like. And don't get scared of getting hurt. It's life.
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Apr 3 2006, 03:21 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
RELAX. Be real. Be yourself. Go with the flow. And don't overanalyze things. You should hang out with him one on one to get to know him better and then make your judgement after you really feel like you know him because it doesn't seem like you know him very well right now. If you 'really hit it off', you shouldn't be having this dilemma.
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Apr 3 2006, 04:12 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
What's wrong with immature and perverted guys? Hah. Anyway, I'd say just give it a chance. I'm dating a freshman now as a sophmore and it's no big deal. Age isn't really important, unless it's an extreme difference. Plus, if you're freaking out so much, maybe you just aren't ready for a relationship. I mean, you could easily just be friends with him before rushing into anything too serious. Just relax, give yourself time, and have fun. You're only a kid once, you shouldn't be freaking out so much.
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Apr 4 2006, 06:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
If your scared then I think you should overcome it.. && you're right my boyfriend says to me all the time that there's a first time for everything.. So I say you should go for it.. && if the maturity && the being perverted thing becomes a issue then jusst don't worry about him anymore.. b/c younger men are always a handful.. && sometimes it's nice to have a guy whose older than you && can take handle of a situation like a real man should do.. Do you want to be in a relationship or do you want to be a unpaid baby-sitter?.. it's your decision really!!. So yeahh, I say go for it if you're just scared b/c I was scared to actually have a relationship with my former boyfriend b/c usually my relationships only lasted for like 2 weeks, but now me && him are going on half a year!!.. =P
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