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 Mar 22 2006, 05:43 PM
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alrights so this is how it goes ><
So one of my best friends that i've known since i was like 5, lets call her "Wilma." She's going out with one of my other close friends. Lets call him "Big Will." They've been going out for almost a month. Their one month anniversary is this coming monday. Now, Big Will, he doesn't feel the same way about her anymore and wants to break up with her. We we're talking about it today in lunch. But Wilma, she's not in my lunch period, and it was a surprise when she came to our lunch. While she was sitting with us, her and Big Will didn't say a word to each other. Things went on normally. And when the end of the day came and we were walking home, Wilma comes up to me, and my other 2 best friends. Lets call them "Penny" and "Winnie" She askes us what was going on and what Big Will said cause she saw him talking about something to us. Big Will had told all 3 of us to not say a word or else he'll never talk to us ever again and he'll be upset with us. So us three, not knowing what to say, just made up an excuse and said that he told us that he was gay >_>. Unfortuntley Wilma didn't believe us. As the day went on, she would keep asking and the more she asked the more guiltier we started feeling. Soon she gave up asking and just stayed silent. While walking and everything she would just stay to the back and not say anything. We figure out that she was a bit upset for us not telling her. So the problem is, I dont know what to do. Should i tell her, so she wouldn't be upset. Cause when Big Will does break up with her, I don't want to be just standing there and have her look at me. Nor do i want her to be hurt. But the thing is, if we told her of what Big Will is thinking, I feel like Big Will would loose his trust in us cause he told us not to tell her. So, what would you guys do? Any Suggestions? Please&thankyou. |
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Mar 22 2006, 05:56 PM
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First of all; "He's gay." is a really sad excuse :] honestly, who WOULD believe that? Eh, and think also, what if "Wilma" talks to him about it and says what you guys said. He'd be pretty angry don't you think? Unless of course he's not the anti-gay sort of person.
Next time, just tell her to ask him herself. |
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Mar 22 2006, 07:31 PM
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Wow, where was I when this happened. I was surprised when I found a topic posted by you. Well, Jue my advice to you would have to be to..not exactly tell "Wilma" that "Big Will"s gonna break up with her. I think you should tell "Big Will" to talk it over with "Wilma" first. Is there a reason why he doesn't feel the same anymore? This problem can be easily resolved if both of them are willing to work it out together. Tell Big Will to take to her.
 I think you should let them work it out themselves. Merely help them communicate, it will work out one way or another.
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Mar 22 2006, 08:54 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
mmmkays.. 0NE easy solution to this:
TELL HER!!! CHICKS BEFORE DICKS (: |
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Mar 22 2006, 09:34 PM
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 oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
heh heh big will.
i have a big will to except he's purple. anyway i think you should mr big will to just be honest to her about his feelings. and if ms wilma cant take it... i dont know.. figure it out. but i really think the guy should be honest. the worst thing is dragging on a relationship when you dont like the girl. edit.. jue? you are jue? hello im jennifer ro :) |
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Mar 22 2006, 09:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
heyy jennifer(=
long time to talk. |
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Mar 23 2006, 11:58 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Get out of the triangle, duh.
Don't do anything. Do you really want to get in this mess? If you do, you are stupid. |
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Mar 24 2006, 07:15 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
QUOTE(tooeffingcrazy @ Mar 24 2006, 12:58 PM)  Get out of the triangle, duh. Don't do anything. Do you really want to get in this mess? If you do, you are stupid. i protest! they are her friends and they are already involve, so why just stand and wait.... enewiez, if i was in your situation, don't tell anything to "Wilma" what "Big Will" told you. the only thing that i'll do is to talk to "Big Will" and tell him to sort things out with "Wilma" 'coz she's suspecting that something's wrong. And if he let this get a little longer the more messier it will be... is there such a thing as 'messier' ??? *LoL* |
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Mar 24 2006, 09:23 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Tell Big Will that he better tell her soon or else you will, because Wilma is your close friend too and it's not easy for you to keep things from her.
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Mar 24 2006, 05:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
thanks for all the suggestions (=
they already broke up so a mod can close this |
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