Not sure if I want this answered Options

[Bridget_rules_4e...]

Ok so my boyfriend and me have been goin out for 6 weeks. Lately He's been saying I Love You alot and he gave me a card yesturday that said I Love you and it wasnt a special occasion or anything. Not sure if its tmi but we were kissing and cuddling on friday. I dont know everything seemed fine. Yesturday we argued over who loves each other more? But today he supposively told my friend Madison he doesnt want to go out with me anymore! Shes not a reliable source but still. Then later he calls me saying "Why does everyone think we're going to break up" so i answer "cause you told madison you didnt want to go out with me anymore!!" and he goes "Oh i did? erm oops" Like I just cant believe hed want to break up with me, we have plans for stuff like in october, july,Friday, and spring fling! I'm just confused and i think maybe he was afraid that i was going to break up with him so he said that to maddie. Or madison is making it up because i was kinda using her friend (long story) but ergh i dunt know what to do or say. Is the question obvious?

[alphanumeric]

These topics :] Ha.

The question is positively clear.
& Everyone who asks for help here already knows what they should do.
Even I.

[*xcaitlinx*]

You've been going out for 6 weeks and he's already saying "i love you"? it says you're 13...it seems to me that your relationship is just puppy love and if he's thinking about breaking up with you then there's nothing you can do about that.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Puppy love. Don't stress it out so much; there'll be a LOT more guys you'll date.

Taylor``

[sillakilla220]

if he wants break with you maybe you should just have sex with him to keep him involved. if u have sex and he doesn't break up with you it will prove that he still cares.

[Bridget_rules_4e...]

^^^Nice lol

[_sarcastic_]

don't stress over it, talk it over with him.

[xforgottenlove]

hmm.. well i think you should really take into consideration if you truly love him first. and then maybe you can think about whether or not you still wanna be w/ him.

[aznxdreamer]

i dont think hes in love with you...more like in-like if anything. break up with him before he breaks up with you.

[*Zatanna*]

Well, it doesn't seem like he gave you a straight answer when you confronted him about this. ("Oh i did? erm oops") Have you made it clear that you're serious in that you want a clear answer? If it were me, I would just like to know one way or another so that I could move on.

[misoshiru]

^ i love your sig.



anyhow,
talk it out with him, ask him what he really thinks. and you've only been going out for 6 weeks and he's saying "i love you" already? sorry, but i hardly believe it.

we have plans for stuff like in october, july,Friday, and spring fling!

it doesn't matter if you've made plans for the future. because no one knows what will happen tomorrow or even the next hour. i have a friend who was going to college, move in with her boyfriend (since he's at college already), and they'd basically planned out the rest of their lives. they've been dating for only 9 months. and he just broke up with her. yeah, so what if they had the rest of their lives planned out for each other, it doesn't mean that it will definitely last.

i'd get things straight and move on from this guy. he sounds kinda sleazy. to say one thing to someone, and tell you something else.

[anniepiee]

it doesn't matter if you've made plans for the future. because no one knows what will happen tomorrow or even the next hour. i have a friend who was going to college, move in with her boyfriend (since he's at college already), and they'd basically planned out the rest of their lives. they've been dating for only 9 months. and he just broke up with her. yeah, so what if they had the rest of their lives planned out for each other, it doesn't mean that it will definitely last.

i'd get things straight and move on from this guy. he sounds kinda sleazy. to say one thing to someone, and tell you something else.

spoke my mind.

Mostly every couple plan things for the future, but it's just fantasizing, it's always good to imagine, right?

If the guy would say something like that without even thinking of the concequences, forget him. there will be tons of guys out there for you to date.

[*nightmare4taki*]

if he wants break with you maybe you should just have sex with him to keep him involved. if u have sex and he doesn't break up with you it will prove that he still cares.

ROFL

[Syar]

Either he wants to break up but remain friends, or he is scared to tell you.

[*ranniel*]

You said maddison isnt reliable. Don't trust her yet, you have questions which need to be answers. I would just recommend talking to your BF, and ask for the truth. Your relationships need to be true and not hidden from each other -most of the times that leads to some people to break up.