help..on the edge of crying, please hurry in replies? thanks.. |
 Mar 20 2006, 09:01 PM
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what should i do? i feel sooo helpless..
my bf got into some shiet ( again for the 2049830298th time ) .. and the chances of him being kicked outta the school ( we go to the same school ) are pretty high.. if not by the school, then by his parents.. he obviously doesn't want to. and i can see that he's willing to change, and not do anything bad again... he's so :( right now .. i just dont know how to help him.. besdies talking.. -- he says he's honestly willing to change his ways if he gets to stay.. but im just worried about ... our relationship? if he really does have to change schools |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 20 2006, 09:05 PM
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Sometimes we are only given one thing to use when it comes to helping others. Talking is the only choice right now. What you need is a good choice of words. I say your bf should find a way to convince his parents that he's willing to change for the better, if that's what he truly wants. Otherwise, be there for him.
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 20 2006, 09:43 PM
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Maybe going to another school would be good for him. It's clear he hasn't gotten the message all of the previous times; maybe he needs a stronger message to set him back onto the right track. You don't want to see him living in a van down by the river, do you?
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Mar 21 2006, 04:13 PM
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there's not much you can do at the moment cept talk to him and support him
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Mar 21 2006, 04:32 PM
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While i am an avid supporter of giving people second third and fourth chances some people are just set in their ways and need a huge event in their lives to make them change how they are living! Honestly him changing schools wouldn't be such a bad thing now would it! Really it might get him to realize he needs to change his life around right now and hopefully he'll see that before he gets into more serious trouble and ends up being the bum under the bridge....
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Mar 22 2006, 09:43 PM
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 oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
maybe you should stop worrying about yourself and how much you are going to be seeing him
start worrying about if he's actually going to stay in school. if he gets kick out all the chinese restaurants will be calling for him. |
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Mar 24 2006, 12:02 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
That's tough cookies, ain't it.
He did something bad, it's good that he got punished. This will be a great lesson for him. If you "love" him so much, move with him. BTW: I've seen people go out from different schools. It's not hard m'dear. |
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Mar 24 2006, 07:23 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
crying won't help you in this matter, though it can make you feel a little better...
sometimes, sitting beside him and listening to him is better than talking to him if you've got nothin' good to say.... he needs you now as his friend so act like one... help him in all the way you can and make sure it's all worth it... okie |
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Mar 24 2006, 09:12 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Just chill girl.
If you love him enough, and he loves you, things will work even if he ends up going to another school. |
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Mar 24 2006, 11:14 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE(hottiebheibi @ Mar 24 2006, 4:23 AM)  crying won't help you in this matter, though it can make you feel a little better... sometimes, sitting beside him and listening to him is better than talking to him if you've got nothin' good to say.... he needs you now as his friend so act like one... help him in all the way you can and make sure it's all worth it... okie ^^agreed. |
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Mar 24 2006, 11:25 PM
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life has it ups and downs and everything happens for a reason. him moving to a school will probably make you guys closer. if he'll truly change, when he switches school, he should show that his behavior is seemly if he wants to become different, which could probably persuade the school counselors or someone that he could be able to go back to the original school? good luck
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Mar 25 2006, 09:27 PM
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Syar Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,958 |
You have to show that you support him, and see that he actually will do what he says. Try to help him out and cheer him up.
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Mar 25 2006, 11:29 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 20 2006, 8:43 PM) Maybe going to another school would be good for him. It's clear he hasn't gotten the message all of the previous times; maybe he needs a stronger message to set him back onto the right track. You don't want to see him living in a van down by the river, do you? I knowww. I agree. It's too late now for him to try and change!! Unless he did a 180, wrote nice letters to the principals and kissed his parents' asses consisently from now on, chances are, he's going to just keep going down this path. One thing though, forget about the girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. He is dealing with a crisis right now, getting kicked out of school. Be a friend to him for the time being and help him out. |
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Mar 26 2006, 01:06 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
he just needa wake up call.
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