Boyfriend/Girlfriend calling other, people H0O0O0OT |
| *My Cinderella.* |
 Mar 20 2006, 06:45 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I searched and nothing came up. So what are your opinions? Do you think it's wrong for your boyfriend/girlfriend to say that other people are hot? (Non Celebrity likewise.)
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Mar 20 2006, 06:52 PM
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My boyfriend doesn't call other people hot, and i don't call other guys hot either. sometimes i'll say "oh wow she's really pretty.." to see how he reacts and he'll say "not as beautiful as you." i guess i'd kinda feel uncomfortable/insecure if he commented other girls. he should be happy with me and not want anyone else!
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Mar 20 2006, 07:02 PM
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well my bf dose that but its the people on tv and he only dose it to piss me off.
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Mar 20 2006, 07:23 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
me and my gf will say some ppl are hot and stuff...
it doesnt really mean anything. |
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Mar 20 2006, 08:26 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
I'd rather be called beautiful or pretty than hot.
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| *ranniel* |
Mar 20 2006, 08:29 PM
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QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Mar 20 2006, 7:23 PM)  me and my gf will say some ppl are hot and stuff... it doesnt really mean anything. ^Yep same here. |
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Mar 20 2006, 09:12 PM
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i personally dont like it.. but my bf does it as a joke , on girls who are obviously NOT hot generally speaking.. lol
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Mar 20 2006, 09:36 PM
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QUOTE(tic tac. @ Mar 20 2006, 8:26 PM) I'd rather be called beautiful or pretty than hot. ^ i think you may have misunderstood tina, what if your boyfriend called someone else hot? 
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Mar 20 2006, 09:42 PM
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Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
^ Ohh. *hits self*
Well, I wouldn't mind if he had good taste. I would mind though, if it's someone who I strongly dislike, and he knows it. |
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Mar 20 2006, 11:11 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, we do it as a joke, or rather, I do it as a joke. We don't really do it that often, but I wouldn't like it if he wasn't joking.
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Mar 21 2006, 12:06 AM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
I don't mind. I think it kind of shows that you guys are comfortable with each other. But like Linda said, it wouldn't be funny if he wasn't joking joking. =|
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Mar 21 2006, 10:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,707 |
I honestly wouldn't care...its no big deal!! I know who he is making out with and sleeping next to at the end of the day and that is really all that matters!!
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Mar 22 2006, 04:37 PM
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Mine never did... only whenever he saw Cameron Diaz. But then he'd try to be smooth and throw in something like, "But she's no Melissa Ann." Eh. He usually knew better. But if he ever did, yeah, I'm sure it would bother me a little bit, but I've always been like that.
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Mar 22 2006, 04:48 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I just see them as eye candy. I wouldn't mind. But if my boyfriend kept talking about the same girl everytime, already keeping in mind his track record, then I'd be a little suspicious..
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Mar 22 2006, 09:39 PM
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 oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
nonononononononono
im a jealous person |
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Mar 24 2006, 11:36 PM
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i think its fine. im very jealous, too. i mean verrrry jealous. but honestly, you think people are hot too, right? like more then just your bf/gf. so why wouldnt your gf/bf be allowed to at least think somebody else is hot?
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Mar 25 2006, 12:50 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I used to be an insanely jealous person but I'm easing out of it. I personally don't care as much anymore. Sure we have a relationship but that doesn't mean that we're dead and can't admire other people. He has pictures of half naked chicks all over his apartment that he shares with his roommate. Sometimes, I admire them too, he has good taste
 However if he does more than admire some other girl, I'd be pissed. Looking is fine but touching? Oh hell no. Unless it's just a friendly hug and a kiss on the cheek with a friend. |
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Mar 25 2006, 01:33 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I don't mind, but he does. He doesn't want to call people "hot" in front of me, although I'm fine with it.
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Mar 25 2006, 02:35 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
Hm, personally i dont mind that much. Occasionally I would call guys hot, most of the time even girls. Haha, only to fish out the words," no way, you're howevermany times hotter/prettier."
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Mar 25 2006, 06:40 PM
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i wouldn't mind that much, if i know he's just joking around
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Mar 25 2006, 09:14 PM
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Syar Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,958 |
It depends on how your relationship is going sometimes. They can think it but not say it too. They can be joking, but people would not say it in front of you.
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Mar 26 2006, 01:02 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
no way. i mean cmon.... would u rather have ur bf/gf keep their opinios from u? heck i dont. i rather have them straight forward tell me whatever they want and be honest
this is no big deal, seriously. its a very stpud reason for somebody to be jealous |
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Mar 26 2006, 02:32 AM
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I don't think I mind. As long as he doesn't go all crazy and "wowww."
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Mar 26 2006, 08:15 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i think it's not too big a deal, just as long as you've been dating each other for a while. also, if he's just commenting and not focusing on someone for a particular amount of time. and, it's okay to joke around once in a while.
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Mar 26 2006, 08:24 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(xOpRiNcEsSpReTTy @ Mar 25 2006, 11:36 AM) i think its fine. im very jealous, too. i mean verrrry jealous. but honestly, you think people are hot too, right? like more then just your bf/gf. so why wouldnt your gf/bf be allowed to at least think somebody else is hot? True, true. But jealousy is a peculiar thing. It ignores reason. I'm a very jealous person That answers the question.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Mar 29 2006, 07:29 PM
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^ As well as I. I'm not a big fan of having my boyfriend comment on other girl's appearances.
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Mar 29 2006, 07:43 PM
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my boyfriend, not only does he says, but he tells girls they're hot. man that makes me pissed off.
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Mar 29 2006, 08:55 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
If it's non celebs...well then I'd be offended! I don't tell him other guys are hot in front of his face (although he jumps to the conclusion I think they are...) and I'm sure he doesn't tell me other girls are hot, but I'm sure it's on his mind. It's just really...aggravating when your significant other will all of a sudden say that person's hot when you're right there beside them. Makes you feel...like your not good enough.
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Mar 29 2006, 10:32 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
ARGGHHH. That was the reason why I broke things off with my last boy. Unforunately, I could say that he was a bit "popular" and that there were quite a lot of girls after him, and he flirts quite a lot. But when he was talking to his friend about this girl in another school he fancied (when he was going out with me...) and how he thought she was so hot and how thrilled he was that she felt the same about him, it just pissed me off. Can't he just be happy with what he's got?
So, my answer to the question is, I get upset when my guy says that another girl's hot because it makes me feel like I'm just not good enough to satisfy him. If he thinks they're hot, fine, just don't say it around me. If I feel like I have to compare with other girls, there's something lacking in our relationship. |
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Mar 29 2006, 11:30 PM
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it depends on the situation.
a. what kind of relationship are you guys in? a deep one or like one we're you two arent really getting along quite well? b. How is the way he/she says is? c. >_> |
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Mar 30 2006, 05:09 PM
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oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 29 2006, 10:32 PM) ARGGHHH. That was the reason why I broke things off with my last boy. Unforunately, I could say that he was a bit "popular" and that there were quite a lot of girls after him, and he flirts quite a lot. But when he was talking to his friend about this girl in another school he fancied (when he was going out with me...) and how he thought she was so hot and how thrilled he was that she felt the same about him, it just pissed me off. Can't he just be happy with what he's got? So, my answer to the question is, I get upset when my guy says that another girl's hot because it makes me feel like I'm just not good enough to satisfy him. If he thinks they're hot, fine, just don't say it around me. If I feel like I have to compare with other girls, there's something lacking in our relationship. hes messed up 
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 2 2006, 09:53 AM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 29 2006, 11:32 PM) ARGGHHH. That was the reason why I broke things off with my last boy. Unforunately, I could say that he was a bit "popular" and that there were quite a lot of girls after him, and he flirts quite a lot. But when he was talking to his friend about this girl in another school he fancied (when he was going out with me...) and how he thought she was so hot and how thrilled he was that she felt the same about him, it just pissed me off. Can't he just be happy with what he's got? ^ That guy's messed up So, my answer to the question is, I get upset when my guy says that another girl's hot because it makes me feel like I'm just not good enough to satisfy him. If he thinks they're hot, fine, just don't say it around me. If I feel like I have to compare with other girls, there's something lacking in our relationship.  I would of broke it off as well if Daniel commented on other girl's appearance in front of me, or even went up to them to tell them :mad
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Apr 2 2006, 01:05 PM
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it really doesn't matter if i had a significant other that made it an effect to remark on how hot some girl was just as long as he doesn't touch and tries to flirt with her but if he does, then we have a big problem
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Apr 3 2006, 07:09 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
hmm, i voted depends. i don't know i mean..i don't really care if he says another girl is hot or whatever i guess, just so long as he remains faithful to me then it's all good. i know i'm going to be saying that other guys are hot around him so i can't really get mad at him...
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Apr 4 2006, 10:18 AM
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 Cockadoodledoo Mother Fcuka!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,438 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,088 |
its good to be honest and both me and my gf comment on other pplsl looks....usually her more than me!!!! i dont mind bcuz i know that theres a reason we are together and that shed choose me over any of those guys in a heartbeat and vice-versa.
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Apr 4 2006, 05:53 PM
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I think it's okayy if my boyfriend calls a celebrity hott.. but I wouldn't like it if he called some girl at our school hott.. b/c then I would just strike an attitude with him && be like well why don't you go be with her then. I guess I'm the jealous type && I would jusst be like that.. But yeahh that's kind of like me saying ohhh look that guyy looks so hott.. thats something you would say with your friends not with your boyfriend or girlfriend.. You have to learn to respect your partners feelings.. So I voted for it depends you have to explain yourself a bit better!!..
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