Touble With a Crush, fallin' for someone |
 Mar 14 2006, 04:30 PM
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 xxtaintedlips  Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998  |
 Do you ever notice that you can get a crush on just about anyone? Even people You dont want to to have a crush on. At school yesterday my two best friends started to pressure me into having a relationship with this guy they thought i would look good with. Now, I knew from experience that when ever someone does that to me I start to like the person they pressure me twarrds. Dont ask me why, but I now have a crush on him. Well, one of my friends who knows him and happens to be a guy (who likes me) is good friends with my crush. My bffs tried to get him to ask my crush out for me, but he would not obviously... Well, it is common knowlege that my friend likes me, but i dont like him back. I dont know what to do because i heard from my good male friend that my crush would not say yes anyways...and somthing about him not looking for a gf. I dont know...Im so confused, because I like him now. To throw into the whole mess, i cant eat or sleep.  I know it is pethetic! And haahaa my crush has a twin, and im not exagerating or anthing, but they look alot alike! IDK if i want to build a friendship with him or not...or somthing more....grrr..... I just dont know what to do im so confused! Please help me! 
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| *digital.fragrance* |
Mar 14 2006, 04:38 PM
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I once had a crush on a twin... interesting times.
My one word of advice: If anything, don't let someone else ask him out for you - that's not gonna solve anything. Well, my ... two words of advice: If he isn't looking for a girlfriend, you're right - he probably wouldn't accept. Anyway, I wouldn't ask him out in the first place... I kind of like the guy to be the 'agressor.' This isn't anything to lose sleep over - just rest in this: You probably don't "truly" like him. You wouldn't have anyway if your friends hadn't said anything. So, with that in mind, just wait for a short while, and you won't have a real crush on him anymore... trust me, I know. Hey, and your friend likes you? That's cool - and it also helps you keep something in mind: do you really even know this guy that you have a "crush" on as well as you know your friend? If not, why not start thinking about that friend of yours? ... just a suggestion. |
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Mar 14 2006, 04:51 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
ok thanks for the advise! I will try really hard to not like him. Maybe I will get up the spunk to say hey. I dont know I just dont have any self confidence. *Shrugs* And as for my good friend...well I like things the way they are.
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| *digital.fragrance* |
Mar 14 2006, 05:00 PM
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^ Yeah being friends with your semi-crush would always be good - making friends never hurts.
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Mar 14 2006, 05:03 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
I think you should go for it with the guy you like. I mean there's not THAT much to lose, is there? Unless I totally missed something.
Feel bad for your friend who likes you though. |
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Mar 14 2006, 05:25 PM
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xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
yeah, i feel bad for him too, but I cant be with him if the feelings aren't there
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| *digital.fragrance* |
Mar 14 2006, 08:28 PM
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QUOTE(xxtaintedlips @ Mar 14 2006, 5:25 PM)  yeah, i feel bad for him too, but I cant be with him if the feelings aren't there Exactly, which is why you need to make sure you really like that other guy. Hope we're helping... |
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