bikkini 's, scared to wear in public |
 Mar 12 2006, 10:15 PM
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 Just deal with it.  Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 204,954  |
Im like worried what people would think of me if i wore a bikinni cuz frankly i dont like my body and so do a lot of girls but my sister thinks im not fat and that i should wear one she wears one and id proberly look better in one but i dont know if i would be comptle be wearing one in public when guys around cuz isnt it like having your underwear and bra on in public but i dunno im just
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Mar 12 2006, 10:29 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
Just wear one. Alot of girls think their bodies aren't so great, but to everyone else, it's just fine. Next, don't worry what people think. Wear what you want to wear.
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 12 2006, 10:49 PM
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If you're too uncomfortable with it, just wear a one-piece (we all understand), but if you want to face your fears, DO SO!
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Mar 12 2006, 10:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
i dont like wearing bikkini.
because i dont wanna to show my baby fat.. 
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Mar 13 2006, 05:02 PM
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you could always go for a tankini
 ...maybe kinda like training? then move up to the more sporty/ more coverage bikinis.. then onto string! the first time i got a bikini i felt kinda weird [my mom bought it for me and i was like  really?!] cuz i take off my shirt to go into the pool and everyones watching. but after a while it wasnt that bad. eh... do w/e u want, take ur time.. its ur choice
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Mar 13 2006, 05:05 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
i dont like wearing bikinis either.
usually i wear a bikini only when i have swimming class. but at the beach, one piece. |
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Mar 13 2006, 08:12 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
bikinis are okay.
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Mar 13 2006, 08:15 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
eh. just wear one. i use to be uncomfortable wearing a two piece cuz im so skinny and you can see my ribs, but i got over it. i mean, i walked on a runway infront hundreds of people in a bikini. its not that bad once you get use to it.
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Mar 13 2006, 08:18 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
just go with it. im sure more than 75%+ of the girls population think their bodies are ugly.
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Mar 13 2006, 09:33 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
Start with a tankini first, if that's fine for you, go ahead and wear bikini. =)
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Mar 15 2006, 09:49 PM
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just go for it! who cares what other people think..
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Mar 15 2006, 09:56 PM
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victim of myspace.com Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,435 |
Hmm...my piece of advice is to just do it.
Seriously, I don't have a perfect body either ((and the models definately don't)), and I just started wearing one - and I am about the most insecure it gets, trust me. If I could do it, then you sure can. Danielle |
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Mar 26 2006, 02:20 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
if you dont wanna wear it dont wear it. wear whatever makes you feel right. doesnt have to be bikini.. a tankini would work? or one piece maybe? hey its all up to you. your body is your temple.. be your own leader.
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Apr 2 2006, 01:40 PM
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If you're nervous wearing a bikinni, start off with a tankinni and then work you're way up! I wear one pieces and tankinnis, because I'm way too self-conscious and I'm worried about my... package falling out, haha.
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Apr 3 2006, 05:50 PM
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Whatever lies beyond this morning is a little later on Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,260 |
Is it a have to wear a bikini? One-pieces aren't so bad.
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Apr 4 2006, 09:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
QUOTE(Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg @ Apr 2 2006, 2:40 PM)  If you're nervous wearing a bikinni, start off with a tankinni and then work you're way up! I wear one pieces and tankinnis, because I'm way too self-conscious and I'm worried about my... package falling out, haha. Or, like Meg said, get into one gradually. You don't have to wear a bikini now if you don't feel comfortable. Just wear what you think is right for you. |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:10 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
I'd say wear one. If you seriously don't want to though, there are other types of swimsuits that look good, not just bikinis. Like other people suggested, tankini's are a good choice, or you could go with a one piece. I just saw this one piece that was strapless and hot pink. It looked awesome, so if you're worried that a one piece will look dorky, just shop around and you'll probably find a pretty good looking one.
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Apr 5 2006, 07:42 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just wear one, it's not that big a deal i suppose. some swimsuits will flatter your body some won't i guess.
if you feel uncomfortable then just wear board shorts along with your bikini so you won't feel overly exposed. that's what i do. |
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Apr 5 2006, 07:55 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Lol, I wear just my bra and underwear around the house. My mom freaks out at me, she's like, "WHAT IF YOUR BROTHER COMES HOME!!" And I tell her that if I can wear a bikini that's basically an underwear and bra with pretty designs on it in public, I should be able to wear something similar at home. =P
But no, I used to be afraid, like last summer, but not anymore. I just love to swim too much. |
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Apr 6 2006, 02:52 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,891 |
I'm cool with my body, but one time my friend had to point out to me that I hadn't trimmed quite enuf! Oops!
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Apr 7 2006, 06:39 AM
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God. That was one long sentence.
I'm a little afraid. But you can always cover up =) |
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Apr 7 2006, 07:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,869 |
if you really really really don't feel comfortable in a bikini just wear what you want to wear, but hey, bikinis are great! I recommend you overcome your fear and buy one! If you don't like how you look in it, no ones gonna force you to wear it again! I'm sure you look great, as your sister says - and she's your sister, she's not gonna lie to you. Best of luck! Kitty  |
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Apr 8 2006, 12:15 AM
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uhmm wearit.
chances are while ur likee thinking crudd i hope no one's likee making fun of mee, everyone else is thinking the same thingg. :] |
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Apr 8 2006, 12:43 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ Agreed, alllll the waaayyyy.
Believe me, no one's going to be staring at you, nitpicking every thing that's wrong with your body. Everyone has flaws in their body! But what looks even more stupid is when you try to cover it up. It just shows that you're insecure. Go all out, enjoy yourself. |
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Apr 8 2006, 04:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
If there's other people there, then go for it.
Or you could avoid swimming altogether. |
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