don't you hate it when..., just look :] |
 Mar 12 2006, 03:45 AM
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When they figure out that you like them?? Guys seem to find it out so easily. Expecially if you are natually flirtatious like me ;]
Even if i dont like the person i flirt x] But anyways... Dont u just hate it when guys find out that u like them ?? |
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Mar 12 2006, 03:47 AM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
Nooo.. it's a huge relief. Like, yay they finally know! Then you just wait and see what they do about it. Or you can talk to them about to see what their feelings are. That's part of the reason i tell, because i can't stand not knowing how they feel.
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Mar 12 2006, 03:50 AM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
noo.. i agree with teenprincess. it's a relief.
maybe in grade 5 and 6 it was embarassing for the person to find out, coz there is less chances of you guys actually dating? i dont know, but i'd want the person to know. get it out, talk to them. if it doesnt work, it doesnt work. |
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Mar 12 2006, 03:54 AM
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hmm. well i can understand what you mean. But then for me its a bad thing because people find out then i get teased cause im a big girl who likes someone she cant have. Thats why i hate it when they find out
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Mar 12 2006, 06:03 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
it sometimes depends. at times it's a "well they finally know" but of course, it sucks when they don't feel the same way.
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Mar 12 2006, 06:31 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
if that guys who didnt love me found out dat,
i would rather feel sad. |
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Mar 12 2006, 11:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
not really...?
 ... to me its not a crime if a guy finds out i like him.. its just embarrasing if the guy doesnt like you back
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 12 2006, 11:13 AM
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Yeah I hate it. I like secrets, that's the whole fun of having a crush.
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Mar 12 2006, 01:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'm actually pretty glad they find out, so i don't have to pluck up the courage (if i have any to begin with) and tell them i like them.
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Mar 12 2006, 06:26 PM
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Um... I've only had that happen once, with the one guy I've ever trully liked... So, I shouldn't have much of a say in this one...
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Mar 12 2006, 08:01 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
It was pretty blush-worthy when I was in like in 4th grade or so. But, I'm older now and that guy knows now. It's a relief!
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Mar 12 2006, 09:13 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 385,581 |
well recently someone i like found out i like them and it takes pressure off a little bit but it still makes me upset... and thats why i hate it
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Mar 23 2006, 07:13 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
kinda..XD... itold a boy and then almost all the boys in my 5th period class have a crush on me!!
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Mar 23 2006, 08:02 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Na, I don't hate it either. It IS a huge relief. But then again, you have to put up with the guy looking at you in a different light. You have to act cool like nothing happened. =P
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| *Zatanna* |
Mar 23 2006, 08:18 PM
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Sujectively, no. Like others mentioned, it's a bit of a relief. There's one major exception to that though - the "friends" factor. I've seen (and been a part of) friendships that have ended because either person found out the other "liked" them.
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Mar 23 2006, 08:33 PM
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 (::()::) Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,150 |
i think its fine. i like everybody knowing who i like, cause then if the guy i like likes me back too, BAM. match. :)
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Mar 23 2006, 09:04 PM
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victim of myspace.com Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,435 |
I absolutely hate it. My friend just went right up to him and told him, so now I'm all pissed at her. Dude, I was like crying. Seriously. I went over to the other side of the class with my non-bitchy friends. Her name is Jennifer Trejo, who lives in San Diego. Details on how to kill her in my interests part of my profile =D
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Mar 25 2006, 10:28 AM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
lol i hate it when they found out! but after they do, then again, you feel a burden off your shoulders...it`s also a relief.
it sucks sometimes though, cuz sometimes when you are with that guy, you feel uncomfortable knowing that he knows you like him. it also sucks when he knows you like him but he only likes you as a freaking friend. 
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Mar 25 2006, 01:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 643 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,564 |
i like this one guy and my friend and her boyfrined knew him.
so my friend went on my sn without telling me and put his name on my buddy list. i asked him who he was and he told me..then... him: hey aren't you the girl that likes me? me::no him: don't deny it me:no  i liked him..and i denied it
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Mar 25 2006, 02:50 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
yes.
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Mar 25 2006, 03:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,584 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,748 |
no actually. i remember when i used to freak out when my friend told the guy i liked him and i woould be embarrassed..blahblah..and it was b/c i had low self confidence
like..oh..i like him but he will never like me back..so i was afraid of ppl finding out b/c theyd be like..eww..youre never gonna get him ..or like..the guy would be like..ew..that ugly girl likes me..haha..and laugh at me but that was way back..when ppl were immature now i just dont care...but it depends on the guy too..like freshman year of H.S. i had a HUGE crush on this really hot guy that a bunch of other girls were swooning over too. but he was a huge a-hole..and i was pathetically stalking/asking about him..(heh yeah) one of my "friends" was his friend and told him..and she told him how pathetic and obsessed i was over him.. and he was such an a-hole about it he would tease me and be mean to me and such...and like..if he had garbage he didnt want he would just shove it at me =\ so yeahhe was mean..but its now senior year of H.S. alot has changed and i no longer care if guys find out |
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Mar 25 2006, 04:35 PM
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 la baile de noche Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,018 |
it depends i guess... i usually dont like it...its more fun as a secret
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Mar 25 2006, 04:42 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
sometimes i hate it,sometimes i dont.it just makes me real nervous knowing they know.lol. but i get used to it after a while. (=
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Mar 25 2006, 07:28 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
For me sometimes it's good & sometimes it's bad. I guess it kinda depends on the guy for me.
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Mar 26 2006, 02:01 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
no, i dont. its good that he know i like him. i mean.. whats even the point of keepin it a secret?
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Mar 26 2006, 02:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,266 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,600 |
sometimes. if the guy likes me back then it's all good. but if he doesn't like me back at all, then it's downright embarassing.
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Mar 29 2006, 08:48 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
OMG! Before my bf and I dated...he gave me such a hard time to tell him I like him! @_@;; EVERYDAY he would ask me if there was something he needed to know! So yes, I don't like it when they find out from someone else! I'd rather tell them myself...although that would never happen unless I'm confident they like me back! :P
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Mar 30 2006, 01:59 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
YESSS!!! haha im the exact same....natural flirt and flirt wit guys i dont like which ends up leading ot baaadd situations!!! and i hate it when they find out u like them!!
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Mar 30 2006, 08:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 239,555 |
yeah its not really gonna get u anywere keeping it a secret, but i do get nervouse the day they find out and stuff, but then i get over in in about...30 minuts. haha. it could end up good.
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Mar 30 2006, 08:24 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
well, guys never know i like them because im not obvious.
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Mar 30 2006, 09:31 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Yeah..I`m so obvious or I always HAVE to tell someone.
I get embarrssed. |
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