sadies...boys...problem!, not the usual shy thing |
 Mar 11 2006, 01:38 AM
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I kinda told my guy friend that we should go to saides together, as friends. But i like another guy who is somewhat expecting me to ask him. But i can't really say to the other guy "o i cant ask you now.." And i don't want to hurt the other guy or ruin whatever it is that we have going cuz our relationship is kinda shaky rite now as it is. Problem: What do i do? |
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| *ranniel* |
Mar 11 2006, 10:55 AM
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umm so you can't ask them out on seperate days?
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Mar 11 2006, 11:39 AM
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I don't think your friend will be upset or anything if you guys were planning on going as JUST friends.
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Mar 11 2006, 01:31 PM
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Go with the guy who likes you. Best idea.
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Mar 11 2006, 08:12 PM
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talk to your guy friend about it. he should be cool with you going with your crush.
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Mar 12 2006, 12:47 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, talk to your guy friend, since you were just going as friends anyways. And hopefully, he'll be OK with you going with the guy you like.
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 12 2006, 12:49 AM
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QUOTE(silver rain @ Mar 12 2006, 12:47 AM)  Yeah, talk to your guy friend, since you were just going as friends anyways. And hopefully, he'll be OK with you going with the guy you like. yeah I agree. It would be horrible if he starts something because you want to go out with the other guy. Just talk to him 
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Mar 12 2006, 01:39 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
if i were you, i'd keep my word and go with my guy friend. ditching a friend for a guy is a really sucky thing to do.
it's just a damn dance, it's not like if you don't ask him it means you won't ever have a chance with him. just tell the guy you like about the situation. if he's going to be selfish and not understand then he's not worth it. |
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Mar 12 2006, 10:10 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
well..since guy #1 is only a guy friend, explain the situation. tell him youll take him to homecoming. or the formal/prom.
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