do you ever feel left out when guys flirt with your friends?, just read |
 Mar 8 2006, 07:19 PM
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 Emo Fruitcake  Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761  |
do you have friends that the guys always flirt with and you just kinda sit there and feel really
awkward??? i even try to join in and like talk with them too, but i also feel really weird and ignored cus they put all their attention to her... |
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Mar 9 2006, 09:54 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Well yeah. I'd feel pretty left out. Any girl would, really. Unless she already had a boyfriend/girlfriend.
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Mar 10 2006, 01:10 AM
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yeah same here.
it feels akward because they go on and on about random things...and im just sitting there. them>>(   )  <<me
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Mar 10 2006, 01:14 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Ugh, yes. Well, actually, it's a uh.. group flirt? *shrug* I don't know how to explain it.. I'm always left out of it though. It gets so annoying.
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Mar 10 2006, 06:15 AM
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yess same feeling here..
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Mar 10 2006, 12:03 PM
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yeah i do
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Mar 10 2006, 12:06 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
That hasn't happened to me but I'd feel awkward as hell if it did...
 I don't even know what to tell you because I wouldn't know what to do except feel very uncomfortable...But if you can tell that she likes him, try to help her out and be like "come on, give him your screenname/number." |
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Mar 10 2006, 04:52 PM
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Emo Fruitcake Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 10 2006, 12:06 PM)  That hasn't happened to me but I'd feel awkward as hell if it did... I don't even know what to tell you because I wouldn't know what to do except feel very uncomfortable...But if you can tell that she likes him, try to help her out and be like "come on, give him your screenname/number." no its more like he thinks shes hott and she just likes the attention. it happens around most guys. i dont know... i just dont want to feel left out cus shes the only person i talk to in that class  but thanks for trying to help
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Mar 10 2006, 05:49 PM
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 ...who created this mess...? Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 |
Yeah... it has happened to me. It still does sometimes, actually. Just join in the conversation if you're with her and he comes up. Sure, it's still awkward, but it only feels that way. Think of it this way: what's so awkward about talking to a boy who's also talking with your friend? The guys won't think it's weird because you and your friend are friends already, and naturally you're just talking. I think it's just something to get used to. You shouldn't feel weird about it later.
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Mar 10 2006, 05:56 PM
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Emo Fruitcake Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761 |
QUOTE(xblueradiance @ Mar 10 2006, 5:49 PM) Yeah... it has happened to me. It still does sometimes, actually. Just join in the conversation if you're with her and he comes up. Sure, it's still awkward, but it only feels that way. Think of it this way: what's so awkward about talking to a boy who's also talking with your friend? The guys won't think it's weird because you and your friend are friends already, and naturally you're just talking. I think it's just something to get used to. You shouldn't feel weird about it later. yea i guess it sounds better that way, maybe i was just overreacting. but thanks for the help 
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Mar 10 2006, 07:42 PM
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I think it's awkward when they flirt and you're pretty much just left standing there, because you don't have anyone else to talk to. But I think I'd feel left out if it was someone that I liked, because at first it feels odd to be around that someone you like but them flirting with your friend just makes it that much weirder.
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Mar 10 2006, 08:51 PM
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I would feel left out, but I would just be like aww...
 I should be happy for my friends.
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Mar 11 2006, 11:13 AM
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 Just deal with it. Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 204,954 |
That never happened to my friends and me and plus guys dont ussually flirt with me cuz im shy and the last time a guy flirted with me i didnt even know it which was only once and didnt realize it until a year later on a dream i had.
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Mar 11 2006, 09:44 PM
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All the time... Of course my friends that I usually hang out with ignore me all the time anyways.
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Mar 11 2006, 11:51 PM
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yes I do TT___TT it's sad
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Mar 12 2006, 06:15 PM
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No, I don't think I've ever had that happen. I don't hang out with those type of people, so the guys never do so. Actually, most of my friends are guys.
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Mar 13 2006, 12:30 AM
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Yes, i do feel left out. And also i hang out with my friends that have bf && gfs and its kinda embarassing cause they ask me wheres your boyfriend or who was ur last boyfriend and i always reply
"ive never had one " so yea |
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Mar 13 2006, 05:15 PM
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yeh sometimes....
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Mar 14 2006, 11:35 AM
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Yeah, actually I do. It sucks pretty bad. Because I have guys that come up to me and talk about how hot my friends are and it's kind of like "...go tell them that not me." Plus they're all "grope" with their loves and I'm just T__T alone in a corner. But I can deal I guess.
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Mar 14 2006, 11:42 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
mm, not really. i usually just join in with them.
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Mar 14 2006, 04:48 PM
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yeah. I feel left out and feel that I don't exist around them. xD;;
But, sometimes I jump on in. Sometimes, I don't. |
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Mar 15 2006, 07:45 PM
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That's actually what's going on with me right now.. =/
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Mar 18 2006, 06:15 AM
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hmm. try all the time. lol.
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Mar 18 2006, 08:16 AM
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yeah i have that same thing! my best friend shes really pretty and all these guys flaunt all over her...but later on i just joined in! and some of the guys i didnt even know, until one day one of them was a pretty good friend of mine. and she told me she got jealous =o
haha so i say...just look for the right time to jump in so you can show them how great you are and that you wished to be talked to, too. or talk to it about it with your friend saying you feel sorta left out, if shes your friend she would help you join in with thier conversations. |
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Mar 18 2006, 01:06 PM
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 Loser Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,558 |
It always happens. One of my friends (The guy I like) always flirts with my best friends, even if they treat him like shit, and I end up sitting there with an
expression, or
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Mar 21 2006, 03:59 PM
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 certified catastrophe Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,210 |
it makes me feel fat. and insecure. and then i get to the point where i just want to go home. =[
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Mar 23 2006, 06:29 PM
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victim of myspace.com Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,435 |
Yes, I feel that way like all the time. Especially during history, where we all sit next to the guys and the teacher doesn't care if we're talking, she calls it "Very good that we are gaining social skills. Maybe we'll become a peace maker or senator!" Haha, none of them like me, and Carlos was in a different class today so I felt kinda..."OMG I NEED CARLOS! AHHH!", so they were all talking to my friends while I was just sitting in the corner doing my work..ugh.
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Mar 23 2006, 07:06 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
i do!! when my best friend flirts with my BF. ERGGGGGGGGGG
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Mar 23 2006, 09:30 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,437 |
Remember what I said about that situation going on with me right now?
Well, he just broke up with his girlfriend today. Funny thing is, I like him.. But he's going after my best friend. I guess I'm just his last-resort-girl. That makes me incredibly sad. |
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Mar 26 2006, 02:09 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
i dont care... i dont really feel left out, even if i do, i will just start messin with them (my friend and the guy) hehhehe.. well, as long as the dudes dont hurt my friends i will be coo with it. me, i got my friends back
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May 7 2006, 12:17 PM
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of course id feel left out.
while they go on and on about stuff, and you just sit there...? well, thats pretty akward.
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May 9 2006, 08:46 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
Only if the guy was actually someone I'd like to flirt with me. If I saw them flirting with someone else, I'd immediately get all jealous and over-analytical...
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May 9 2006, 11:08 PM
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i use to have that happen all the time..
i use to just ignore it and do my own thing.. but im sure eventually it will turn around and it will be you. |
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May 10 2006, 08:03 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Umm yes.But sometimes they flirt with me too.And so it sort of balances it out.And sometimes they flirt with me and not my friend so yep.
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May 11 2006, 01:32 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
Oh, I have had that feeling before. But I've learned that you just have to incorporate yourself to the conversation/flirting and eventually, things start to happen :)
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May 12 2006, 11:58 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,972 |
a had a friend who was quite aloof with guys so she never flirted with anyone. she confided that she was scared about a lot of things (like rejection). so i told her to experiment flirting on the net. she thanked for my idea. turns out she did meet someone (i think it was a site for rich guys, wealthymen.com) after flirting for about a month. and the guy was really a catch.
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May 13 2006, 12:40 AM
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QUOTE(x Ragazza @ Mar 9 2006, 7:54 PM) Well yeah. I'd feel pretty left out. Any girl would, really. Unless she already had a boyfriend/girlfriend. Ditto, it has never happened to me before but if it did I would feel hella weird  .
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May 13 2006, 12:44 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I don't think I've ever been put in that kind of situation, or at least I can't remember.
But in any case, I would probably feel so intimidated and awkward. I'd probably just walk away.
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May 15 2006, 08:41 PM
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 Kellie needs a boyfriend.. Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 402,167 |
yes I absolutely hate it!! every guy always flirts with my ex girlfriend even though she's gotta boyfriend.. & I just sit there.
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May 16 2006, 11:24 PM
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One of my best friends is so pretty I'm jealous. But whenever we go anywhere, guys are always honking at her and hitting on her while I have to be "the ugly friend". I'm not ugly, but when I'm w/ her, sometimes I feel as if I am. It's not fair. Why do guys have to be so shallow?
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May 17 2006, 01:14 AM
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It happened to me but i feel more bad when the guys talk to me and not my friends. But i suck at introduction too. You just gotta be you and talk more. I mean guys don't turn you down unless you are really annoying. And trust me I know because a lot of the guys i've dated hate girls who are annoying cause i've got some friends who were OO;
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May 18 2006, 06:58 PM
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Emo Fruitcake Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761 |
QUOTE(Spazzzmatic @ May 17 2006, 12:24 AM) One of my best friends is so pretty I'm jealous. But whenever we go anywhere, guys are always honking at her and hitting on her while I have to be "the ugly friend". I'm not ugly, but when I'm w/ her, sometimes I feel as if I am. It's not fair. Why do guys have to be so shallow? thats exactly how i feel. my friend is so pretty, shes a model and so popular. and im not ugly either and im kind of socail but they direct all their attention to her and i feel invisible
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May 18 2006, 07:42 PM
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 delicious. Group: Member Posts: 163 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 349,989 |
Yeah. Something like she's the outgoing crazy spazzy girl that everyone likes, and they all crowd around her and want to talk to her and she just soaks up all the attention. And the guy I like is in that crowd, and she knows it.
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Aug 14 2006, 03:14 AM
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**new member so bare with me
 ** i always feel left out every time guys flirt with mai friends. at parties especially. i went to mai friend`s quince and didnt no most of the ppl untill a couple of mai friends came but then ditched 5 mins later to go dance with guys that randomly came up to them. messed up huh? |
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Aug 15 2006, 03:18 PM
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id hate to admit it,but,yes.
because its really hard for me to talk to guys. |
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Aug 16 2006, 08:32 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
No:wink: cuz i'm always the girl that the guys are flirting with.
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Aug 16 2006, 09:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
QUOTE(x Ragazza @ Mar 9 2006, 10:54 PM) Well yeah. I'd feel pretty left out. Any girl would, really. Unless she already had a boyfriend/girlfriend.  I was just thinking that. I feel left out but I just have to rememeber that I have a boy-friend. 
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Jan 7 2007, 01:30 AM
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 long time no CB. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502 |
yeah im jealous :p i feel like im not loved at all.
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Jan 7 2007, 07:32 AM
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yeah but as i have a bf i get over it
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Jan 7 2007, 10:02 AM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
It happens to me a lot. It's not necessarily me feeling left out; it's just feeling more awkward.
... well, actually, you can feel left out. If the girl keeps on flirting back.  That just get's annoying at times.
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Jan 7 2007, 11:52 AM
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 MorCANcan Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,937 |
Nuu.
I just feel left out when my friends start flirting with my brother. Now that's whack.
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Jan 7 2007, 01:49 PM
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^ LOL that does sound whack.
 i would only feel left out if my friend was flirting with my crush. -_- if it's someone that i dont like & she's flirting, i wouldn't feel left out because i would be happy for her.
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Jan 7 2007, 01:57 PM
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Well, I don't really have a lot of guy friends, but when this one I have is saying all my friends are cute and nice and pretty and awesome, I feel like *dies* and then he feels bad and calls me nice or something and I feel awkward.
Just not a good or fun situation to be in. |
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Jan 7 2007, 01:57 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
used to happen a lot to me with my best girl-friend a year or so ago.
But I got used to the fact some guys find her more attractive or what they call "hot". Also, the reason why I was fine with it because I know although a lot of guys found her attractive there were some guys out there that would perfer me over her because they see who I am and like me for it. Rather then the guys that simply like my best friend mainly for looks and flirt with her for that reason. Don't feel bad about it if it happens to you though. Guys just don't know what they're missing out on sometimes. 
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Jan 7 2007, 04:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 569 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 490,667 |
Yea, I always end up in these situations. Of course if your in a long distance relationship or something then it really feels akward.
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Jan 7 2007, 05:20 PM
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yeah.. used to happen to me a lot. cause a lot of my friends are really pretty.. and then there's just oogly me. so they get all the attention from guys and I just stand there feeling awkward.
I dont really feel that way anymore though cause I have an amazing boyfriend and I could care less about any other guy. |
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 7 2007, 08:10 PM
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I rarely hang out with a group of girls, and I can usually never tell when guys are flirting unless it's mad obvious... so no!
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Jan 7 2007, 08:24 PM
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 *hugs and kisses* Group: Member Posts: 809 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,443 |
oh, i always feel left out, cuz the guys see me as shy. even when i try to talk, they always seem to talk to my one friend. it gets pretty annoying and can make me feel really left out. i feel like im just a friend to all the guys and nothing more. what hurts even more is when a crush flirts with one of my friends who knows i like him, but she does nothing to stop it. =(
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 7 2007, 09:09 PM
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Suzzette, you're so nice.
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Jan 14 2007, 08:27 PM
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 Photoshop Mii Life(;* Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,110 |
yes. it makes yooh feel like your a loser or your not that kind of girl people are looking for. NOT a good feeling.
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Jan 14 2007, 08:42 PM
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yess
 it kinda sad cause they be flirting,hugging&touchy and my friend just leave me there hanging while im waiting for her
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Jan 14 2007, 10:13 PM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
yah but then again i try to flirt with the guy too and if they turn their attention to my friends i'll start like teasing them and stuff or just move away and do something else
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Jan 14 2007, 11:05 PM
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I can't really say because I've been in a relationship for the past year and two months, but it never really bothered me. I never got attention from guys when I was younger, but none of my friends did either. If anything, I think I was the first one to start dating.
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Jan 14 2007, 11:10 PM
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young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
ALWAYS ! XD
i really suck at flirting or even talking to guys normally. And i totally hate it. but chyeah,i'm workin' on it,haha :D |
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Jan 15 2007, 01:11 AM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
actually, not really. well, unless i think that guy is hot too. but if it's like a friend, well then that doesn't really matter.
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