She's ruining my life, -ex best friend |
 Mar 6 2006, 09:06 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3  Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474  |
Okay this start pretty long ago well not that long, anyway it started back a couple of months ago. We were friends, great friends in fact. I told her a lot of stuff and we got a long great..Or so I thought... Well turns out this girl...umm vivian isn't what she turns out to be. I thought she was this girl that I could trust and wasnt a complete slut. Turns out, I'm wrong. She's the complete opposite of who I thought she was. You see the reason she pretended me someone she wasn't was because of me and my friend. We were just six graders last year and she didnt know anyone so she pretended she was all nice and innocent and everything. My Friend and I were juss ourselves and everything and everytime she was going to tell us about how she really acted she got scared for some reason. And then, now when 7th grade started she started acting weird like she flirted with all the guys she went out with one guy but she was still going out with another guy( who was one of my guy friends) and then she started like acting like she was all cool or something. Then we got into a fight on how she was acting like she wasnt herself and that she lied to us and everything. But then we made up and everything...But that wasn't the end of it...Then, she going out with one of my guy friends (which I said before) She was going out with him and I thought everything was going fine, but NOOO. She liked someone elsse who HAPPENED to be my EX. Then to top it all of she went out with that guy while she was dating my friend. AND then she broke up with my friend to go with that guy and then the next day they broke up. And then later we sorta made up again I'm not really sure how but we did. After that something Else happened, I don't know why but I can't remember what it was but it was pretty bad and I got so mad at her i hated her as heck. And now she still wants to be my friend but i refuse. And thats not the end of it. You see I like this guy, let's call him "Peter" and we were great friend actually and then she comes along and now he likes her. And i dont know what to do because whenever i'm around him i feel horrible because i have to go through each day pretending i dont like him and support him about this. And I'm not sure if i can handle it.
Well the other day me friends and I were talking about this and we noticed that the only way she knows all these people and the only reason she became a little popular was because of me. Like not to sound conceited or anything but she knew all those people from me like all my friends I introduced them to her. And that's how she knows everyone. And now she thinks she's all cool and evrything. And again NOT to be conceited but like I made her the way she dresses the way she acts it's all because of me i taught her those things andd she got them all from me she didnt do them herself she kinda like copied me. The way I talk she copied me and now she talks like that. I don't know but i'm getting really annoyed by her. AND ONCE AGAIN im really trying not to be conceited but all the guys that liked me now like her just because of how she looks. People say she looks like me and that I look like her and that Gets me So ANNOYED... There really wasn't any point to this story it's just that I had to get that off my chest. Well thanks for listening! =] |
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Mar 6 2006, 09:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
your mission, if you wish to accept: is to not give a F*beep. because then you are invincible. i mean, c'mon, i know you got other things to worry about. more important things right? im sure. if shes annoying, shes annoying. but you are like, psh, that dont faze me, because i got real problems. this drama crap dont faze me. think about it that way.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Mar 6 2006, 09:39 PM
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I agree. Do you know how many times you used the word like, Kristy?
 But anyway, all I have to say it, don't let it bother you. Just be you, and if people aren't happy with that then ch. they don't matter.
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Mar 6 2006, 09:39 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
QUOTE( @ Mar 6 2006, 6:29 PM)  your mission, if you wish to accept: is to not give a F*beep. because then you are invincible. i mean, c'mon, i know you got other things to worry about. more important things right? im sure. if shes annoying, shes annoying. but you are like, psh, that dont faze me, because i got real problems. this drama crap dont faze me. think about it that way. That's excactly what I did when that happened to me. Except of my ex best-friend being a slut, she was a sh*t talker. She still annoys me about it, but hey? I just look the other way. |
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Mar 8 2006, 12:29 AM
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well... this is deffinetly a big problem... and i recomend the first thing you do is tell strangers on the internet about it
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Mar 8 2006, 06:47 PM
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^ But isn't that what she's doing?
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Mar 8 2006, 07:54 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I've had this happen before.
*cough* 2 times. I know you have talked to each other about this, but hey you can try again. If she refuses to stop acting this way, I just say to just forget about her. Make new friends. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Mar 8 2006, 08:06 PM
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^ I second that. If she refuses to compromise, then you don't need someone like her
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