what confuses you most, when it comes to guys |
 Mar 4 2006, 09:18 PM
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 portami via  Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187  |
Just curious.
Personally, I'd like to know why girls seem to mature faster than they do. Seriously, I only know a handful of guys who are actually mature. |
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Mar 4 2006, 09:54 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i just hate how guys are always trying to act so cool... i mean what's the point of impressing a girl if she doesn't like you for who you are?
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Mar 4 2006, 10:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 279,631 |
It's kind of strange, but girls confuse me more than guys (I am a girl.) >_> Just in general. There's not much that actually confuses me about guys, but there are some things that make me roll my eyes.
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Mar 4 2006, 10:33 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
well..boys my age ( 13-14 ) play video games...I mean, I play them too I just don't understand why they play it all day..
I asked my boyfriend why he likes video games once..he replied with : " what is it with girls and clothes & make-up? " ...hmm..stereotype..not all girls are interested in only that..I personally hate wearing make-up..lip-gloss doesn't last a second on my lips..I lick it off...= ) |
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Mar 4 2006, 10:50 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
Well if you think about it, guys are pretty simple to figure out. Girls are the complicated ones.
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Mar 4 2006, 11:10 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
the thing that confuses me most about men is why some of them are so damn messy. how can they live with crap all over the place? or how some don't care that they have solid color/just striped boxers.
but really, the thing that confuses me most is figuring out what they really mean or how much they feel for you...but this is something that probably something that confuses everyone about well, everyone... |
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Mar 4 2006, 11:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 373,491 |
I get so confused with mixed signals.
Guys will flirt with me and mean nothing by it and that frustrates me. It's hard for me to tell if he's just being himself, or if he's actually flirting. Then again it's my fault because us girls tend to overreact about those sorts of things. |
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Mar 5 2006, 03:19 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,584 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,748 |
they have weird ways of expressing their feelings ..and some just beat around the bush ..=\
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Mar 5 2006, 07:46 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
feelings most definately. it's always mixed signals, nothing's ever straight.
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Mar 6 2006, 03:12 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I don't understand boys AT ALL! If anyone would like to help a girl out--please do =[
From my experiance..it's always ended up that all the good looking guy's I've known are the "players" and the..worser looking..guys tend to be nicer, and easier to talk to. Which is really weird that I came to this conclusion..because it probably sounds lame. But it's ended up like that for almost every guy I've known. ALSO. Is there a reason most guys never call when they say they're going to? Hopefully they aren't trying to seem all cool and laid back like they were casually late or something..but it bothers me so much when they call 10+ min. late. I don't like waiting by the phone. 
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Mar 6 2006, 05:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
b/c some guys are jerks....
 ... well some can change; like the few i know
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Mar 6 2006, 05:59 PM
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 To love or not to love Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 182,782 |
what is it with girls and clothes & make-up? " ...hmm..stereotype..not all girls are interested in only that..I personally hate wearing make-up..lip-gloss doesn't last a second on my lips..I lick it off...=
ya most guys just think all girls care about is nails hair make-up and other stuff that is so not true! i love sports i even sometimes during the winter play ice hockey with the boys! |
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Mar 6 2006, 07:13 PM
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girls and guys are both just as confusing.
we'll never know why we do the things that we do! i blame the media.  
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Mar 6 2006, 07:43 PM
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I'm confused on whether I'm like giving the guy enough space or not. Like if the guy I like is signed on, I don't know if I should IM him and say or maybe he'll think it's annoying
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Mar 6 2006, 08:02 PM
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 Behind every great man is a great woman rolling her eyes Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,483 |
One day you'll be talking and having a good conversation and really getting along whether you're friends or classmates and then the next day they'll be talking smack about you and being cocky and arrogant. I hate boys. I need MEN!
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Mar 6 2006, 08:14 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE Personally, I'd like to know why girls seem to mature faster than they do. Seriously, I only know a handful of guys who are actually mature. i dont get it. girls seem to mature faster then they acutally do? |
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Mar 6 2006, 08:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
HOW THEY GREET.
why do they always nod up to greet people? are they too lazy to wave? it's a mystery. 
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Mar 7 2006, 07:49 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
They dont know what they want.
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Mar 7 2006, 07:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,602 |
 they are clueless.
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Mar 7 2006, 08:00 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
sometimes I can't help wondering if they're just using me;
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Mar 9 2006, 10:24 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I never know when they're being sincere.
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Mar 12 2006, 03:40 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 385,581 |
Why do guys seem so complicated? i mean they just seem so...up tight at times and it confuses me.
There is only one guy i know ((and i like him)) thats NOT like that. All the other guys seem so...i donno how to describe it but ive always wanted to know why they are like that
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Mar 12 2006, 03:48 AM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
you never know if what they say is what they're actually thinking in their heads.
it's hard to tell if they're sincere or not, as x_Ragzza has mentioned. and ofcourse, mixed signals. |
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Mar 12 2006, 01:05 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
hmm..probably why boys dont fall as hard for girls.
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May 7 2006, 03:24 PM
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 ((starSAVER))* Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 402,128 |
their. damn. pride.
i mean, you dont have to take a challenge to know that your strong or whatever. they protect their ego as if it was the last peice of cholocate cake left on the table. come on. |
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May 7 2006, 06:16 PM
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concieted ones.
thats about it really. |
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Nov 8 2006, 06:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
How one day they act like they like you and the next day they don't.
Over and over again. But I don't worry about that anymore since I don't like him. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 8 2006, 06:35 PM
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they never know what they want
they sometimes dont notice they have offened you. they can be heartless and they never say how they feel.they bottle it up and then try to break it off with you and u will never know why |
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Nov 12 2006, 10:53 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,709 |
guys who think they can just play you. i once liked this guy, he was with this girl he didn't actually like that much, so he was trying to break up with her. Then finally he told her that he liked me ( we kind of had a thing ) and hes like im going to ask you out later, and im like uhm ok. but apparently he was telling her he was just going to go out with me for a week or something because i 'really liked' him or something. And then i told him that i didnt really even know how much i did like him. So since the girl he doesnt like was all whiny and shit, there back together. He still doesnt like her, and hangs out with me all the time. I dont get him, like does he think the only way to get out of it is by like, cheating on her or something ?
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Nov 12 2006, 11:58 AM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
-guys who don't call you after they promised to. wth is up with that?
-guys trying to act cool. they just seem pathetic. -guys who constantly claim guys are better than girls. |
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Nov 12 2006, 03:14 PM
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 Break My Heart Again. Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 4 2006, 11:10 PM)  but really, the thing that confuses me most is figuring out what they really mean or how much they feel for you...but this is something that probably something that confuses everyone about well, everyone... I agree... it also really confuses me (well, it makes me angry as well, to be honest) is when guys can't make up their minds. as in, one day they hate you, the next they're flirting with you and want to be all over you. arg. considering my level of oblivion when it comes to that kind of stuff, it goes back to what you said...I can't tell whether they actually care, or are just a tease. --edit-- QUOTE(Wo0yaPo0ya @ Nov 8 2006, 6:09 PM) How one day they act like they like you and the next day they don't. Over and over again. But I don't worry about that anymore since I don't like him. hah, didn't see yours until afterwards, sorry... |
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Nov 15 2006, 08:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,917 |
I have a lot more questions about girls then I do guys but..
I do wonder.. Why racing and shooting? There's only so many ways to get to the finish line in a video game, and only so many times you can watch people die over and over again by some sort of weapon.. They seem to have the hugest thing over something 10-25% would have the balls to do in real life. No matter how good the graphics get for the video games, the chances of doing something like that in real life is not very high unless you plan to have a career with it. Besides the games, I wonder why can't they just try to get to know a girl because they just want to know her. To me it's always the case of "I like you, so that's why I'm talking to you so much." Which makes me feel like I'm some barbie doll that comes into their life, and a doll they can throw away when they're bored of. I like girls as friends better because at least they don't have any other intentions other then just getting to know you just because they want to minus the "I have a crush on you" factor..  |
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Nov 15 2006, 08:16 PM
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You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i always can't help but look for subliminal messages too... like, if a guy talks to me (that isn't my friend) i'm always wondering WHY he's talking to me. stuff like that. i guess it's my fault
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Nov 16 2006, 06:34 PM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
their "signals" to some girl they like
damn..knocks me overr and there so STUBBORN! ALWAYS trying to prove their point when there really WRONG well, some guys are like that |
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Nov 16 2006, 10:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 474,443 |
QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Nov 9 2006, 9:35 AM) they never know what they want they sometimes dont notice they have offened you. they can be heartless I agree with all of that. Especially when they don't notice they have offended you, they make these stupid jokes and never know when enough is enough. |
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Nov 17 2006, 03:30 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Once you get a little older, the roles are reversed.
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Nov 17 2006, 03:40 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Nov 9 2006, 7:35 AM) and they never say how they feel.they bottle it up and then try to break it off with you and u will never know why i totally agree, i've had this experience where this guy i really, REALLY liked broke it off with me and never quite explained why. he was crying about it a lot so i was so fricking confused about it. |
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Nov 17 2006, 10:57 AM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
the way the always think they know everything, even wen they're sooo wrong. but wat confuses me most is wen they act like they like you, and then they act all shady about it wen they're confronted.
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Nov 18 2006, 04:00 AM
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 mrs. paul dano. Group: Member Posts: 907 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,992 |
guys that change when they're around their friends and they act there self around you.
its stupid really. |
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Nov 18 2006, 11:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
grrrr. why do they send mixed signals? it's either they like you, or they don't.
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Nov 19 2006, 05:53 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,709 |
yeh i agree with show stopper. They do that infront of some of their friends. But girls do that sometimes, too.
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Nov 19 2006, 10:26 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
What confuses me is that no matter how old they are they are so stupid & immature..I'm in college with 22yr olds who act like they're 12 or something
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