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teeners4
post Mar 3 2006, 01:04 AM
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okay so here's that awkward stage we go through.

when we're crushing on someone! sometimes it gets the better of us and we want to spill our guts out!!!...but what if they don't feel the same? even worst... if they didn't like us at all to being with?!?!?!

so for all of us who took the risk, who took a dive....how did it go?

any stories to share or experiences?

=] i'm sure we've all been rejected before
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 02:33 AM
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Ahh, well I've never really had the courage to go up to someone and ask them out or anything, so I've never been rejected.
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 04:18 AM
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Uh, no. I haven't been rejected. I'm still with my first boyfriend.. & it's our 5 month anniversary today =D

Well, I voted once or twice (there hasn't been anyone else) or something like that.
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 06:49 AM
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i always chicken out in the end so i've never been rejected
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 07:00 AM
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actually.. i never sorta been rejected...

or they said no the first time but i got them anyways... lol

so i sorta did. lol.
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 07:06 AM
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Many times for me, but doesn't matter.
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 08:55 AM
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once. i told this guy, and he turned out to be this incredible bastard.

he started telling all his friends that i was stalking him. so, i bitched him out.
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 10:10 AM
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I've never been rejected, usually I wait for a person to ask me. There have been times when I have considered going up to someone but I usually fall for people I'm good friends with, (or I become good friends with the people I'm falling for) and I find out in some way shape or form that the answer would have been a no. Either that they have a girlfriend, or that they are crushing on someone else, stuff like that. Any other time, and this is most of the time, if I have feelings for someone they happen to have feelings for me too. I guess I'm good at communicating my attraction to someone non verbally. But like I said I fall for people who are my friends, its a natural progression for me. So they are probably the same and way and it just works. Thats why I'm usually never enemies with my exes. :)
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 12:50 PM
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Once i let my friend talk me into letting her tell my crush she "thinks" i like him, & it totally blew! :O he said "Sorry, tell her i don't like her." I guess it was for the best, he's one of my closest friends now, & i know there's always a possibilty he could form feelings for me ;P
 
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only once in my life have i put myself out there and told a guy i liked him...i planned it out but then i chickened out, i blurted it out the next week. it turned out he did like me a little back. little by little it has gotten more serious, so hooray happy.gif

don't worry about getting rejected. at least you're brave enough to put yourself out there while the rest of us wait and let oppurtunities pass.

i chose the last option, instead of being rejected, i have to reject people ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 07:25 PM
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hmm a couple of times i've liked a certain guy and when i told him, he didn't react in any way at all. he wuold say something like "oh, kool" and never bring it up again. our friendship would be somewhat awkward from that point on...it sucks being rejected. =\
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 07:52 PM
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i've gotten rejected a few times. i think that if you don't ever get rejected, you can't understand love. so i just end up crying about it and then getting over it in like a couple of days. but you have to take a chance, and you could find your someone special. i know i did
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 11:28 PM
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I got rejected once. I asked to the Sadie hawkins dance and he didn't answer me directly. I find it incredibly funny that I worked up enough courage to tell him that I wanted to go with him because I liked him, but he didn't have enough to tell me no, according to him, he doesn't go to dances. . So he told my friends. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 11:41 PM
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yea. i got rejected before it hurts sad.gif
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 04:18 PM
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i took that dive before BUT i already knew that it couldn't go wrong so that doesn't count happy.gif
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 04:57 PM
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I never asked a person out in my life hahah. I'm such a loser.

But, I just wait for someone special...that happened last week. =] I'm happy.

So, I never have been rejected.
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 09:34 PM
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i`ve never been rejected =]...but i cant feel too happy bout that cuz there is a first time for eveything.lol
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 09:37 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Mar 3 2006, 4:25 PM) *
I never date. I'm nobody. I'm fugly. Who cares?

Nooo! I am. _unsure.gif I never asked, never been asked. mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 10:00 PM
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I've never actually told a guy how I felt...until recently..but usually, I just try to let it pass
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 12:54 AM
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I have been rejected everytime in life. Never has it gone the way I wanted it to be cry.gif

Even with my crush now, it's so awkward and I hate the fact that we hardly see each another since we don't have classes. & even though he said we should just be best friends for now and see where our already close friendship leads us, I don't even feel like we're even friendly strangers. Sigh* I'm going to stop or I'm going to cry again.

It sucks when we have had so many memories together when he knew that I liked him all along and because of this stupid semester, it has gotten worse. He's never there and never calls. What the hell ><
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 03:59 PM
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Once, and from then on. I learned my lesson and let the guys do the asking.
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 04:33 PM
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lols well, i don't count asking someone out when i was like 10...so i've never been rejected...lols i don't do the asking anymore..it's just not me anymore wink.gif
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 09:23 AM
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a few times.. but that was a long time ago. Now i just keep my feelings to myself.
 
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post Mar 7 2006, 10:09 PM
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never been rejected before b/c i never asked anyone out
 
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post Mar 8 2006, 12:23 AM
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post Mar 9 2006, 10:12 PM
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yyesss i got rejected because he was kinda scared of me i guess.. lmao..
then like a week later he asked me out.. it was very.. awkward
 
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post Mar 12 2006, 10:01 PM
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Yeahh, I've been rejected a couple of times, but that was when I was fat in elementary.. && I when I use to send notes to a boys on pieces of paper.. Saying will you go out with me?.. Circle yes or no.. Now when I want something I get it.. b/c first; I lost 20 pounds && second;... I don't play mind games anymore.. I'm done with that.. But yeah I wouldn't know what it feels like to get rejected anymore b/c I'm done with the asking.. I'm the one who gets asked.. cool.gif
 
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post Sep 7 2006, 08:58 PM
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i pathetically picked the second choice laugh.gif
 
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Never. I`ve always been the one asked mellow.gif
 
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post Sep 8 2006, 06:37 PM
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I've told guys I liked them and they've told me they haven't liked me, which I consider rejection, don't you? I dunno, this kinda thing always seemed relatively easy to me, even if I loved the guy and was really scared, I'd still want to know what he thought.

Anyway, I've only ever really asked a guy out once....and I'm still with him today biggrin.gif
 
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Oddly enough I've never been rejected. I've rejected people though, I always feel kind of bad for it though.
 
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post Sep 8 2006, 08:00 PM
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oops i voted once or twice but i meant to vote for never cause i thought rejected meant dumped laugh.gif and no i never got rejected cause i never make the move to tell or ask
 
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post Sep 18 2006, 12:15 PM
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I've been rejected once, I really liked this guy who was in my gym class, he didn't know I liked him but he stared at me ALOT and so I thought he did. I asked him out but he said no. I crushed on him fer about 5 months before I asked him out. I cried when he said no. I stilll like him to this day. He still stares at me whenever he gets a chance (to this day.) It's been 2 years and some days ago. I have a boyfriend now and I love him very much and I could not ask for more. _smile.gif
 
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post Sep 18 2006, 06:56 PM
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The first time I ever made the first move and I got rejected. I was in 7th grade. Lol, man.
 
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Hurts like being punched in the chest. No more for me.
 
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post Sep 22 2006, 06:40 AM
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I know. It's embarrasing too, especially when the whole school finds out. mellow.gif
 
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post Oct 15 2006, 07:43 PM
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I'm going to sound like a total ass saying this, but I've never not gotten a guy I liked.
 
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post Oct 15 2006, 08:12 PM
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I've been rejected a couple of times, but never to my face.
I'd either have a friend ask them out for me, or send them a message.
I know, I'm a loser.
 
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post Oct 15 2006, 09:16 PM
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Ehh Not really...I don't try getting with someone if I know I'll get rejected. Lately, I've been more on the edge A.K.A. I am becoming more risky/take chances.
I do know that it would suck though mellow.gif
 
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post Oct 15 2006, 10:24 PM
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Nope. Well seeing as how I've only asked one guy out and he's now my bf...=]
 
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post Oct 19 2006, 01:46 PM
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You know what's interesting? Every time I've made the first move, I've always gotten rejected. It's when the other person makes the first move that it works out! shrug.gif
 
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post Oct 21 2006, 01:19 AM
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I been rejected so much I can't even remember the number of times I was. mellow.gif
 
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post Oct 23 2006, 01:45 PM
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I think twice....

but one of them I went out with eventually...just wasn't the right time
and the other one I never dated, but now that i look back on it, it totally would not of worked.
 
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post Nov 6 2006, 09:21 AM
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If your good at reading body language and intiating relationships...there should never be reason to be shut down. I got shutdown in Year 9...Never again.
 
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a few times.
no biggie
i got what i want now lol
 
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post Mar 23 2007, 04:25 PM
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I've never been rejected, but it's not because I "always get my man/woman."
 
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post Mar 23 2007, 11:53 PM
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I can't really say I've been rejected, because I've never put myself in a situation, where I can be.
I mean, I never just walk up to a guy, &say that I like him.

There was one time, where I thought I liked a guy, &he said we'd be better off as friends, then I realized I really didn't like him.

I'm not sure if that counts as rejection or not, becaue my friend talked to him before I got a chance, lol.
 
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post Mar 24 2007, 06:33 AM
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I've always been rejected but with my current boyfriend he asked me out. happy.gif
 
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post Apr 26 2007, 12:10 PM
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I never get rejected because i always wait for him to ask me out
 
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post Apr 26 2007, 12:12 PM
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Lol, twice (sort of). I didn't know that this guy had a girlfriend already, so I just asked him out. It turns out that his girlfriend goes to some private school in another place. shrug.gif

And for the second one.. I wasn't really rejected I guess? Well my friend dared me to ask this kid out (as a joke) so I did. Well, he told me, "Well Jinny, I would go out with you but my dad probably wouldn't let me." LOL, that was in seventh grade.

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post Apr 26 2007, 01:41 PM
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Never been rejected, I usually play it cool cool.gif
 
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post Apr 26 2007, 11:32 PM
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does anyone remember "the rejection hotline"? that was hilarious. happy.gif
 
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post Apr 28 2007, 12:14 PM
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I've never gotten rejected before.
That's because I'm usually very, very careful before heading into a relationship- I usually know the person very well and hang out with them quite regularily before even considering a more-than-friends relationship. I very rarely confess I like somebody because usually it's just a crush. I just don't put myself in a situation where rejection is an option very often.
 
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post Apr 29 2007, 09:47 PM
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post Apr 30 2007, 10:19 AM
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Man, one of my friends in my health class tried hooking me up with his sister and I tried talking to her with the support. We went to her locker after class and I said something hey hows it going or something and she went threw her books in the locker and said GET AWAY FROM ME. lol

Its all good though cuz bacc then hoes didnt want me now Im hot they all on me. Who? Mike Jones.
 
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QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ Apr 30 2007, 11:19 PM) *
Man, one of my friends in my health class tried hooking me up with his sister and I tried talking to her with the support. We went to her locker after class and I said something hey hows it going or something and she went threw her books in the locker and said GET AWAY FROM ME. lol

Its all good though cuz bacc then hoes didnt want me now Im hot they all on me. Who? Mike Jones.
^Wow, that's harsh. pinch.gif

Good you've had more luck lately though. (:
 
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post Apr 30 2007, 11:41 AM
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i personally havent been rejected before. i rejected guys before.
 
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post May 1 2007, 05:15 PM
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No, I was going to tell this guy that I liked him.. but then I found his myspace and saw that he already had a girlfriend.. the girl that he never ever talks to.. sigh ah well still waiting..
 
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QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Mar 3 2006, 7:00 AM) *
actually.. i never sorta been rejected...

or they said no the first time but i got them anyways... lol

so i sorta did. lol.

hahaha, that's good man! laugh.gif biggrin.gif awesome biggrin.gif yeah, ive been rejected before pinch.gif who hasn't though when trying. 'O, heres a time...I never figured out why i was rejected, but she liked me. I never got it. It was in 8th grade, trying to go ice skating....yeah, i got rejected haha.
 
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QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Mar 3 2006, 7:50 PM) *
hmm a couple of times i've liked a certain guy and when i told him, he didn't react in any way at all. he wuold say something like "oh, kool" and never bring it up again. our friendship would be somewhat awkward from that point on...it sucks being rejected. =\


same here. I told this guy I liked him and he just stood there; blank face, no reaction, I was embarrassed so I left and ended up crying the whole night. It was my first time telling someone I liked them too. -_- and he never brought it up.
 
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