sexual harrassment, don't you hate it? Options

[sprezzatura]

Have you experienced that before? I hated that so much, but it might be that I am quite sensitive to these stuff...

Several guys at my class always picked on everybody (both guys and girls) during days of substitute teacher and did stuff like "[insert name here], go suck my d**k/I wanna see your boobies." Obviously people hated that and guess what these guys can't stop laughing. I was like furious although luckily I wasn't the victim.

I searched and couldn't find a similar topic and hopefully it's in the right forum.

Edit: These guys are HS juniors, so immature.

[pinayprincess]

thats wayyyyyyyyyy 7th grade or w/e... thats real child-ish... i'm in HS [freshman - to be exact] & i know people at this grade have already MATURED from that kind of stuff....

but try living in NYC when theres guys trying to call out to you.. EVERYDAY

[Chii]

well the guys in your age group are immature like that. that's why girls enjoy dating older guys. they'll grow out of it eventually but don't let it show that it bothers you so much. your anger will only egg them on.

{edit}
the post below me reminded me to add something. if any guy ever lays a hand on your boobs or ass or anywhere you feel is inapporpriate, do something about it. tell a teacher or your parents or anyone who can do something about it.

[Gigi]

That's never really happened to me before, but if it did happen to me I'd tell them to f**k off.

This one guy did poke my boob once but I totally bitched out on him and he got scared.

[NoSex]

Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

[*Zatanna*]

^ Girls grab your nuts??? That's crazy.

Sexual harassment is a big topic in the corporate world. We just had to attend sexual harassment training recently. It's amazing in that - you can get busted if you're joking around with someone, and someone else hears and gets "offended." Now granted, I am glad that some of the sexual harassment rules are in place, because it does protect victims and potential victims, but when does the hysteria end?

(Um.. sorry, I might be getting a little argumentative about the subject, I apologize).

And I echo what Chii mentioned regarding if someone does something to you, speak out.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Im sorry but who really likes sexual harrassment. Of corce you hate it every one hates it. -_- I know I do.

[iheartsimba]

Yeah..some guys are really immature. These guys in my p.e. class say..really awkward things to me I try to just ignore it..but it really bothers me. I don't get why people do it 0_o

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

Maybe it was becausr you were dancing and the girls thought it'd be alright


Anyways

Sexual harrassment like that should be reported


and those guys in your grade are immature. The sub should know the rules in a classroom...

[d00kie]

the girls at my school like strip for money its crazy as fas as sexual harrasment goes i noe what u mean when girls try to touch u like at parties and at school its crazy

[Nicolatofu]

Some guys out there are total pigs and have no respect for women. I hate it as well. But by showing those guys that we girls won't take that type of talk from them by taking action will hopefully lessen the amount of sickos out there.

[pinacoolada]

One time, this guy told me to jiggle my boobs in his face..so I slapped him really hard on the face..

[NoSex]

^ Girls grab your nuts??? That's crazy.

Yeah, I have seriously had girls violently grab at my nuts. Or, just walk by and take a hold.
Seriously not cool. And, it's so hard being a guy and trying to neutralize that situation. I try to tell them no, but some don't listen. So, I may have to try to force them off. In which case, now, even if I'm as gentle as a kitten, I'm the bad guy because I'm becoming forceful with a girl. It's definately uncool.

Maybe it was becausr you were dancing and the girls thought it'd be alright

Heh. Not exactly.

One time, this guy told me to jiggle my boobs in his face..so I slapped him really hard on the face..

Two wrongs don't make a right. Imagine if gender roles were switched in that situation. The guy would be getting so much shit, but I bet you expect to get praised for your "brave" and passionate response?

Be the bigger person. Fight nasty words with sophisticated words, not with fists. Not cool.

[alphanumeric]

I get approached by waaay older guys in the mall. & Im always uncomofrtable around male teachers

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

I get approached by waaay older guys in the mall. & Im always uncomofrtable around male teachers

haha same here. And about the male teachers, even if they're not hinting to any sexual harrassment, I still get paranoid

[alphanumeric]

haha same here. And about the male teachers, even if they're not hinting to any sexual harrassment, I still get paranoid

Yeah, I know. It's like, the things I heard about teachers seducing their students. I never knew how much it affected me :0

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^What's even worse is we have a 24-year old teacher and he fools around a lot, but when the girls find a chance to converse with him, they would all flirt with him...that's wrong

[alphanumeric]

Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

God, that must be uncomfortable HAHAHA, well duh

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^it's cuz he dances too much XD

[alphanumeric]

Haha, woah. So do we! It's really wrong..ugh.

[priyas]

those asses....

[Mikael]

omg you have freedom, you can fight back... secretly! write stuff on the board, draw funny pics and stuff of them, do the little 5 year old stupid stuff. even though its lame, its hilarous because the whole class sees and is like wtf and everyone giggles and laughs. its fun. do it. do it now. we do this at work.

[d00kie]

i have a 62 year old teacher and she hits on alla the guys its CRAZY and this is at a private school too! and shes married and like we have a 24 year old teacher too but shes cool but this once she was like so benji, hows class going and she like was touching my hair and getting close and finally some guy came in so i could leave... SCARY

[ecargnmyst]

well..in my H.S. .. i think everyones really mature enough not to do that -______- but here in NY....sexual harrassment comes from those darn pedophiles on the train! arghh i hate them soo much..theyre always groping me..and one even followed me off the train to my bus stop..pretended he was the good guy trying to protect me..and ask for a THANK YOU! ANNDDD my name, #, address and he asked me out to dinner!!!

scary thing was..he was a very well dressed Wall Street professional business looking middle aged man ...u wouldnt normally expect such behavior from such well dressed business ppl

[kayaachisuto]

i remember when i was in highschool there were the two guys that would always say really off the wall stuff to me. at the time it pissed me off. but now i look back on it and they were like the two hottest football players in the school and they were hitting on me O_O i feel pretty now. haha. but that still doesnt make it right. it made myself esteem low cuz i thought they were making fun of me cuz they were popular and i so wasnt. i was the quiet one in the corner drawing lol.

and a few years later there was this other guy in my science class that would grab my ass all the time. back then i didnt look at it as sexual harrassment cuz it made me feel hot. but now i realize it was and wonder how many other girls he did that way.

ppl really should think about the long term affect it can have. some people will be so ashamed they will carry it to the grave especially if they take it to far and the victim is scared no one will believe them.

[Looow]

I get that at school. Everyone does, really.

It has gone from little comments to the point where some guy has dropped me on the ground, went on top of me and started humping me.

[angelrevelation]

i'm glad it hasn't happened to me... i think but then again we're only in Junior high... i'm in 9th grade. the guys have matured more, thankfully.
but i think once an old guy like tapped my butt when i was like 7 x___x *goes ninja on him*

[sprezzatura]

Sexual harrassment like that should be reported
and those guys in your grade are immature. The sub should know the rules in a classroom...

Most subs at my school just write the assignments on the board and sit at the corner reading newspaper or something like that.
They don't even care what's going on.

Some subs teach good lectures, usually the former teachers of the school would do that, and I am greatly appreciative of it, unlike the ignorant ones.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^All my subs except for last year were terrific substitutes...So I just assumed that they would know their responsibility

[iDecay]

I get that at school. Everyone does, really.

It has gone from little comments to the point where some guy has dropped me on the ground, went on top of me and started humping me.

Wow, Lo.

Eh, there's not much at my school. There's some ass slapping, but just uh.. friendly ones? This 8th grade teacher gives sexual comments, though. He's been out for a while, heh.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

I get that at school. Everyone does, really.

It has gone from little comments to the point where some guy has dropped me on the ground, went on top of me and started humping me.

Is that true? if you were joking around please confirm it because I tend to believe everything . If that's true then..wow that sucks

[elaboratedream]

A lot of guys say pervy stuff...
some of them go way too far on it though

I actually reported one guy for sexual harrassment earlier this year... he was doing it to everyone and it was really bugging me... he would say shit like (while putting on a latex glove for disections) "look, its a finger condom. I can finger u like this and u wont get AIDS" or he'd rub up my leg or shit like that. He went behind my friend and started grinding on her ass.
so we reported him to the guidance counselor and now he's going to a differnet school.... unfortunatly, now he's harassing my friend at his new school... some guys just never learn.

[flc]

Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

Poor Nate.

This sorta thing doesn't really bother me all that much..but whoever said that even HIGH SCHOOL was the point where people became immature? I'm sure people are still immature in college..

If someone would have said that to me, I'd laugh it off. You just gotta ignore it, yanno?

But yeah..I could understand it if a guy is getting to the point where's he touching you. Something should be done about that.

[BOLIN_Vee]

omg i hate it so much. expecially like around the neighborhood when theres boys and they know who i am but they dont know me and there all.....being jerks it makes me so mad.

[voguelove]

i was sexually harassed 2 years ago as an 8th grader. i had this guy who was my neighbor..and he basically only wanted to be my friend to get into my pants. but, i always said no. i hate him.


and thats him.

[DenialofReality]

i've experienced being harrassed but not in that immature way. I've always had a adult or some one five years older come near me and try getting at me. pedofiles, they need a life other than hitting on a minor.

@applejuice: the picture is hilarious.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

i was sexually harassed 2 years ago as an 8th grader. i had this guy who was my neighbor..and he basically only wanted to be my friend to get into my pants. but, i always said no. i hate him.


and thats him.

he's attractive...but jesus he looks like an a-hole

[voguelove]

he's attractive...

are you serious? hes ugly.