i just met him |
 Feb 24 2006, 07:07 PM
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ok so there's this cute guy i just met less then a week ago through a friend. we just hung out for a few hours but i got a big crush on him. we go to different schools so i havent seen him since i met him.
my friend said we were both flirting with each other. i told the mutual friend i have a crush on him and she set up a group thing so we could hang out again. the thing is im not sure if he was just flirting with me last time just to flirt or if he actually liked me. i guess ill find out when we hang out in another week but i mean we have only hung out for a few hours! am i going too fast? should i hold back and wait till i find out more about him? im too impatient though! lol we'll he think im coming on too strong if i keep flirting with him? any advice on this situation?? |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Feb 24 2006, 07:31 PM
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I don't think you're going too fast. As long as you don't THROW yourself on the guy.
 Just be friendly but don't do anymore than flirt until you know for sure. OH. Make sure he's not taken too. Or you'd be a dead girl walking.
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Feb 24 2006, 07:57 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
i guess it's okay to flirt as long as you don't come off desperate. but you should try and find out more about this guy. it never hurts, y'know? and as for the impatient thing, if it's suppose to work out, then it will. speeding things up might just end up ruining it.
good luck! |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 24 2006, 08:05 PM
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QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Feb 24 2006, 7:31 PM)  I don't think you're going too fast. As long as you don't THROW yourself on the guy. Just be friendly but don't do anymore than flirt until you know for sure. OH. Make sure he's not taken too. Or you'd be a dead girl walking.agreed. I'm glad you didn't back out or anything. Take chances...just don't make sure they're not extreme... |
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Feb 26 2006, 08:02 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Don't question yourself so much. Do whatever feels right at the time, and don't worry about coming on too strong or anything. Go with the flow.
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Feb 26 2006, 08:40 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
It's just flirting with him. It's not like you are already asking the boy out after knowing him for a few hours. That's not being fast at all.
I dont see how he would be intimidated by you flirting. Just get to know him a little better. |
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Feb 26 2006, 10:16 PM
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Get to know him better...so once you two know each other well
you can start hanging out...just the two of you |
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| *mipadi* |
Feb 26 2006, 11:17 PM
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You're not moving too fast. You've got to get to know people somehow, right?
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