How Fast Do You Get Bored Of Relationships?, Just Wondering.. |
| *swtcherriipie* |
 Feb 20 2006, 08:11 PM
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Before i hooked up with my current boyfriend, I couldnt have a boyfriend for more than 1 month because i'd get bored out of my mind well thank god i found him becoz weve been
together for 6 months and i love him.. So my question to you is.. How fast do you get bored in a relationship? 
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Feb 20 2006, 10:12 PM
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 To love or not to love  Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 182,782 |
I GET BORED VERY FAST I THINK IT'S BECAUSE I LIKE A LOT OF PEOPLE
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Feb 20 2006, 10:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
i dont get bored... its 'exciting' in a way lol
 ; for me i go through different *experiences 
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Feb 20 2006, 10:23 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i'm a simple girlfriend. i generally have no preferences of where we go on dates or hang out. i'm fine with just snuggling on the couch or dawdling around outside so if i'm bored with things like that, then i must be tired of you. it probably takes a few months though and lots of repetitiveness.
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Feb 20 2006, 11:23 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, I don't get bored really. If I really like the guy and just enjoy being with him, I wouldn't mind anything really.
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Feb 21 2006, 12:45 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I dont get bored. I always have something exciting to do or say that makes our time worthwhile.
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Feb 21 2006, 12:46 AM
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 FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
Lol, this actually happened once. Just ran outta things to talk about I guess.. and we called it quits. Just once though. The others were endless.
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Feb 21 2006, 06:01 AM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
I get bored real easy. Girls aren't funny, smart, or interesting. The hell is with that? It's funny how confused they get when I break up with them.
Aren't I awful? But, in reality, I'm really sweet about it and gentle. Lame. |
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Feb 21 2006, 09:03 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ maybe you just don't swing that way. haha. i keed.
mm..i'm okay. right now, i don't feel like i want to be tied down, so i'm not getting into any relationships because i feel that if i do, i'll get bored in a bit. |
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Feb 21 2006, 12:05 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
.....depends on your personal preferences I think, a lush and lavish girl would get bored with a simple guy like me ^_____^. My party days are over and I don't drink or smoke or have sex. So there ya go =) I'm a boring guy. Luckily my current girlfriend shares my same views and life philosophies, so we're never bored with each other. We've been dating for 1.5 years now, and it still seems like yesterday we had our first date...
...all depends what guy you really "need" in your life. (That's based on my experience.) I was what she needed and not wanted...so if you can find someone that fulfills your needs as well as some wants, perhaps you have a long term relationship? LHHRS Kevyn @-)-------- |
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Feb 21 2006, 12:15 PM
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i think it all depends on the person that you're with. if they lack character then of course you'll get bored easily!
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Feb 21 2006, 01:08 PM
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This is QUITE intresting lol i should write a thesis on it. Wot do you think?
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Feb 22 2006, 09:35 AM
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I get bored with all my boyfriends. if they are not keeping me on my toes then im dumpen them thats just me.
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Feb 22 2006, 10:20 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
I used to get bored and only last a month or so. Then, I found my current hubby. We have been dating for 14ish months and I have yet to feel bored. Whee.
Ps, you say you have been dating him for 6 months? QUOTE(swtcherriipie @ Feb 14 2006, 5:49 PM)  4years & getting married im 18 :] ? |
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 22 2006, 10:26 AM
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No...I've never actually been in that situation really because I only got into relationships with guys I liked, and if we broke up it was for some other reason than simply being 'bored'.
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 22 2006, 10:46 AM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Feb 21 2006, 6:01 AM) I get bored real easy. Girls aren't funny, smart, or interesting. I'm not saying I'm smart or anything but jesus  ----- I never really get bored. It's mostly the guys. |
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Feb 22 2006, 04:14 PM
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 Cockadoodledoo Mother Fcuka!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,438 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,088 |
ive never gotten bored....girls get knida attached to me and i like tha feeling...usually its some stoopid drama...
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Feb 22 2006, 06:55 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(yanners @ Feb 21 2006, 8:03 AM) ^ maybe you just don't swing that way. haha. i keed. Jokes aren't funny.
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Feb 22 2006, 08:43 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
hmm..i've never been in a serious relationship or anything like that...but i have talked to guys...and one guy i got tired of him and his crap because he would say that he loved me and everything but we've only been talking for like a month...and yeahh..i didn't really like that...most of the guys that i've talked to have ended up like that actually...they show too much interest in me too soon....
 but, the guy i'm talking to right now isn't like that...it's been like 2-3 months since we've started talking and i haven't gotten tired of him yet 
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Feb 22 2006, 10:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
i get bored easily i think. well i dont get bored like my last relationship he just wanted to do so much and be the "romantic boyfriend" but all i wanted to do was lay in grass at the park and just talk but he's one of those people that ain't good with silences. but then i liked the silence so meh
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Feb 22 2006, 10:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
it depends on the person, sometimes in a week, sometimes never.
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Feb 22 2006, 11:52 PM
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Well, I only really have one to judge from, and from that, not easily.
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Feb 22 2006, 11:56 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
used to happen alot.
itd last a month, and then we'd break up for some reason and id find someone else. now im with a guy for 11 months. wtf? |
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Feb 23 2006, 06:21 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i don't think i do
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Feb 23 2006, 06:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 278,575 |
ive never been out with the same guy more than once.
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Feb 23 2006, 08:48 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Thirty minutes. No, this really happened once.
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Feb 23 2006, 08:54 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
my last relationship wasnt even a week. not cause he was boring but because i liked someone else. eh :|
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Feb 23 2006, 09:00 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
i get bored in like a month thats because im a real curious hyper person i cant stick with or too one thing for too long but i really wish i could find someone right for me :[
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Feb 23 2006, 09:05 PM
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ADNI[quote name=K'Krunk_Muzik' date='Feb 21 2006, 12:46 AM' post='1915058']
Lol, this actually happened once. Just ran outta things to talk about I guess.. and we called it quits. Just once though. The others were endless. [ /quote] Yea well thats kinda like what happened with my last relationship but..... i dunno it was really diff because he like stalked me >_< |
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Feb 24 2006, 05:54 PM
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i get bored of relationships easily and i hate it.-_-
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Feb 24 2006, 06:56 PM
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For me, if I see my boyfriend everyday for the like a week straight. I'll start to get tired of seeing them. Not that I get sick of them, but if he don't go away for a day or two. How am I gonna miss him.
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Feb 26 2006, 08:05 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I get bored extremely fast. I don't mean to sound conceited but I really like having intelligent conversations about extreme topics, and what's going on in the world and stuff. Most guys can't handle that. My boyfriend now has been pretty good about it, but I have to say he could do a little more talking.
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Mar 1 2006, 01:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,707 |
My longest relationship was 7 months but I got bored of the relationship within the first month so I'd say three or four weeks
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Mar 4 2006, 09:57 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
hmm..can't really say..he's my first bf and we've been dating for 5 months..I'm not at all bored
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Mar 5 2006, 05:13 PM
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well i thought i would giit tired of my current bf realy fast but i guess i waz wrong i luv him so much. we hav almost 6 months.
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Mar 26 2006, 01:41 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
never.. and prolly never will
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Apr 5 2006, 03:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
i never do...if i really like the guy, i'm thinking bout him all the time. It didn't make a difference whether we'd been dating for 1 month or 6, he'd always be on my mind.
but some things happen that is out of your control. Just because you dont get bored doesn't mean they wont. |
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Apr 5 2006, 06:36 PM
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Honestly I get bored in relationships by like week 3 so i try to avoid relationships and just stay friends with people that i really care about
Is that weird? |
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Apr 6 2006, 04:42 PM
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 speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
I get bored easily. I'd give it like... 3 weeks. But I've changed and my current relationship has been gonig on for almost 4 months now.
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Apr 10 2006, 05:55 PM
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 L1EK 0MGZZZZ! Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,803 |
well, if he doesn't call or anything or we dont hang out..
or he doesn't do anything. then its over ha. |
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Apr 10 2006, 08:54 PM
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When we do nothing.
Like not talk and just stand/sit there. o-o |
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Apr 11 2006, 02:23 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
umm dont really get bored .. my boyfriend and i are gettin married .. so im not bored .. yea
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