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 Feb 20 2006, 07:08 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit.  Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884  |
Okay so I like this guy and this guy likes me. We don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend however because we both change when in a relationship (we've gone out before) and he doesn't want to hurt me. We both want to kiss eachother but we keep chickening out. Well last night me and a bunch of friends (and him) were hanging out in my basement in the dark and I'd lay down and he'd be right there and he'd almost kiss me but I'd turn my head or make up some lame excuse. I want to kiss him but I just keep chickening out. Anyone have any advice for me?
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Feb 20 2006, 08:32 PM
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When he leans in to kiss you, don't think up a lame excuse. Just let it happen romantically, and make sure your friends aren't there. When your friends are there, that usually messes up stuff.
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Feb 20 2006, 10:14 PM
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well you know your afraid; but i guess you have to take some risks, chances on how its gonna work out. yeah; you've tried being a couple, but trying being 'friends with benefits' to grow-in-being one... you know? take baby steps
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Feb 20 2006, 10:36 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think you need to sort out your feelings and figure out what you really want. you're probably turning away because you don't want to let the relationship get any deeper because you're afraid that it will mess up again.
it sounds like you kind of do want more but you're just afraid to take the risk again. or maybe you just want the friends with benefits thing because that's the only "problem free" solution where you can have him but not "change" because it's not a real relationship. |
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Feb 21 2006, 12:47 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Feb 20 2006, 7:36 PM)  i think you need to sort out your feelings and figure out what you really want. you're probably turning away because you don't want to let the relationship get any deeper because you're afraid that it will mess up again. it sounds like you kind of do want more but you're just afraid to take the risk again. or maybe you just want the friends with benefits thing because that's the only "problem free" solution where you can have him but not "change" because it's not a real relationship. Agreed. If you 'change' when you're in the relationship, then its something you should work out with him. If you want a friend with benefits, I suggest you dont, but then just swallow your fears and kiss him, |
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Feb 21 2006, 12:56 PM
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Don't think, just KISS!
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Feb 21 2006, 04:02 PM
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Why won't you guys just be friends with benefits?
I mean, if you guys don't want a serious relationship, you can just be friends...with benefits. And don't deny your feelings for each other just because you guys don't want to get hurt. Make the best of everything despite the pain. |
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Feb 21 2006, 04:27 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if you like each other, you like each other...don't deny it thinking that it'll hurt the both of you if you guys are in a relationship. cause right now, you're technically hurting yourselves too. (if you get what i mean)
if you want to kiss him so bad, go for it, don't stop yourself. |
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Feb 23 2006, 08:52 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
just go and tell ur self to DO IT! say what happens happens and no regrets and besides think bout how u wont regret it afterwords always works for me cus i HATE regretting stuff
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Feb 23 2006, 10:47 PM
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don't think of negative stuff...when he does..just think of how much you just want to grab him and kiss him...having you lips touch...and it may be the best feeeling in the world for you...just think how MUCH you WANT it
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