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 Feb 12 2006, 12:00 AM
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So the guy I like...i ended up making out with him and he was rly nice to me that night and he was all cuddly with me but then the next day he was such a bitch to me....hes always this childish annoying kinda way towards me but like he'll usually stop after a while...but the day after we hooked up he wouldnt stop being really really annoying to me...n i dont know whyy!!! my friend pointed out that hes usually bitchy in front of other ppl bczu the second we go away from other ppl hes nice!....so i figured maybe he doesnt want ppl to know he likes me...but then a lil while later he told ppl!! do u think he doesnt want other ppl to know? if so y would he tell them? do u think maybe he wont be annoiyng now? lol
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Feb 12 2006, 12:02 AM
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 It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
How exactly is he being annoying?
And is this the same guy from all of your other topics, or a different guy? |
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Feb 12 2006, 12:17 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
^^ Ditto. 2 different guys or what? At the same time!?
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Feb 12 2006, 12:38 AM
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same guy...so i was excited when all this happened...but now...i dunnoo...i spoke to s1 who he told n she said he thinks its fun to tease me but he doesnt know theres a point when he hasta stop n i shud just tell him...
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Feb 12 2006, 12:45 AM
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It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
Well, if he's doing it to tease you then confront him...
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Feb 12 2006, 12:50 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
He was probably feeling awkward and uncomfortable and restorted to his usual teasing to ease the tension he was feeling from the previous night.
If its bothers you a lot, just tell him to stop. |
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Feb 12 2006, 12:32 PM
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 there's nothing, the end, it's begun Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 370,838 |
Well, there's usually two reasons that guys are "playfully" annoying to girls. The first is that it's just his way of flirting, his way of letting you know that he likes you a lot. The second is that he doesn't know how to act around you anymore. It may be new to him, and he's only doing what feels right. Of course, it probably isn't right, but give him time, or even try to help him. He doesn't know how to handle being with you yet. |
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Feb 12 2006, 05:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
i guess maybe he's trying to get some alone time with you? or he doesn't want people to know the real him..like he wants to keep his reputation of being an annoying prick. well just talk to him about his behavior if it's bothering you so much. if he doesn't listen and respond, he isn't worth your time
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Feb 12 2006, 05:09 PM
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I agree with Bittersweetness; maybe he just wants to keep his rep. in front of people and still be known as the guy who likes annoying girls.
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| *mipadi* |
Feb 12 2006, 05:58 PM
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Maybe he's not good at expressing his feelings. Younger guys often have that problem. Guys just aren't good at expressing themselves as girls, and sometimes do so in odd ways.
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Feb 13 2006, 02:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
hes older...4 years older than me. he acts very childish at times though.
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Feb 13 2006, 05:13 PM
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 Kiwi kisses are the best kind. Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 377,802 |
♥ ♥ ♥
I think, if you really like him and you think he does too, you should talk to him and just tell him how you feel. Maybe he'll realize that you're misunderstanding him or something if he's not doing it on purpose and he'll explain. Otherwise, if he keeps doing it after you talk to him, I'd just warn him that you're going to like break up with him or something if he doesn't stop. That's the best advice I can give. Sorry. x.x + + + ♥ ♥ ♥ |
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Feb 13 2006, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(blurrr @ Feb 13 2006, 11:59 AM) hes older...4 years older than me. he acts very childish at times though.  How old are you? |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 13 2006, 06:01 PM
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^yeah same question.
Just confront him if you're uncomfortable with his immaturity. |
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Feb 13 2006, 06:42 PM
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Feb 13 2006, 06:47 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Maybe he's trying to be funny, or keep your attention, or maybe he thinks you like it. I don't know. Try talking to him about it and see what the deal is, ask him why he's behaving like that.
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Feb 13 2006, 08:08 PM
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 ladybugs are hot <3 Group: Member Posts: 1,169 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,802 |
you need to talk to him about this. and be like why are you so annoyng to be wen we're around frinds and nice to me when we're alone. hes 17 and he should be mature.
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Feb 13 2006, 08:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
im 17 hes 21 lol
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Feb 13 2006, 09:49 PM
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yummy.
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Feb 13 2006, 10:39 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
I'm sorry but if he's 21 and he still acts like that, he needs to mature O_o.
Guys like that aren't worth it to like, and I've had that experience. If they don't take you seriously (treat you right anytime, anywhere) then don't start with him or you'll end up falling for him. He's not the right guy for you. |
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Feb 14 2006, 03:58 PM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
hes too shy to show his expression to you??
i hope this helps.. 
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Feb 18 2006, 05:03 PM
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You know guys seem to do that alot now a days.. Like befor i hooked up with my b.f my sister was dating this venezuelan dude and he was so nice to her... for like 1 week then he just stasrted being a real class act.
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