secret admirer or stalker?, confused. |
 Feb 11 2006, 10:00 PM
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 sandra <3 chris  Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 338,520  |
Theres this guy that i dont know
his friends been telling me that he's a nice guy and he wants the know me. I don't know where he's seen me. but it couldn't possibly love at first sight right? or is he stalking me? Cus he he told me that his mom told him im pretty. that really creeped me out...lol. After a week or so of asking me questions and sending me instant messages, he told me that he was only playing but my friends and his friends say he's lying and he talks about me in front of them a lot. I don't even know who he is but he's so nice to me, talking to me when im sad and cheering me up but i dont like him. I wanna tell him to stop wasting time talking to me but he might just be playing and i dont want to say anything that ruined our "friendship" either. what should i do? |
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Feb 11 2006, 10:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,048 |
Sounds lilke it's just a crush to me. Get to know him more and see if he's actually scary-ness I guess.
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| *mipadi* |
Feb 12 2006, 06:15 PM
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He likes you. He's not good at showing it and does so in unorthodox ways, but he just likes you. Don't worry so much about it.
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Feb 12 2006, 06:23 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
.... So, exactly how do you think hes stalking you? Because he talks to you on aim and likes you a lot, so he talks about you to his friends.
He just likes you a lot. If you dont like him, just tell him straight out you do not have any feelings for him any in any romantic way. If he keeps on persisting being nice to you, and being your friend, then theres not much you can do if he wants to keep on talking to you. But hes not stalking you in any way. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Feb 12 2006, 06:57 PM
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Sounds like he likes you. Stalking would be when he follows you everywhere with every step you take
 now that's creepy.
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Feb 12 2006, 07:01 PM
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 I really love her when she < Smiles > Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,228 |
QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Feb 12 2006, 4:23 PM) .... So, exactly how do you think hes stalking you? Because he talks to you on aim and likes you a lot, so he talks about you to his friends. He just likes you a lot. If you dont like him, just tell him straight out you do not have any feelings for him any in any romantic way. If he keeps on persisting being nice to you, and being your friend, then theres not much you can do if he wants to keep on talking to you. But hes not stalking you in any way.  I agree with that. he's not stalking you...he just likes you. If you don't like him tell him, but be nice about it. hope it works out 
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Feb 12 2006, 08:55 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
He could be a secret admirer (or crush), but definitely not a stalker.
Tell him how you don't like him, tell him before he crushes on you even more. |
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Feb 12 2006, 09:04 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it doesn't really count as stalking. stalking is unwanted, excessive, obsessive attention from someone. he sounds very sweet.
however if you want to just be friends...you should be upfront about it. tell him that you've heard things about him liking you but you just want to be friends and that it's better to have a long lasting friendship than a complicated relationship. |
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Feb 12 2006, 09:50 PM
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I'm sure he just has a crush on you. If you see him everywhere you go, then that is stalker
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Feb 13 2006, 05:09 PM
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 Kiwi kisses are the best kind. Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 377,802 |
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Thats definitely not a stalker. ^_^;; He sounds like he's really just trying to get to know you better, but he might be a little shy if he says he's just playing. Guys do that when they really like you but they're just being shy. A similar thing happened to me a while ago when I was in elementary school. xD There was this guy who lived across the street from us, and he was like always looking at me through his window. x_x; My Mom and his Mom were friends, and my Mom told his Mom that I'm pretty, and then she told him, and so then he started to talk to me at school trying to get to know me. Its pretty freaky when the Moms get involved. x_x + + + ♥ ♥ ♥ |
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Feb 13 2006, 07:04 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Maybe he likes you but is too shy to say it. Just keep him as a friend, but if he ever tries to go any further than friendship then tell him you don't share the same feelings for him.
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