case of the ex, still have feelings for the ex... Options

[illushun_eyez]

aloha everyone!
wellz, i love giving advicez and stuff. so, i decided to make a topic of my own and meet new peoplez also to get opinionz and stuff. wellz, anyone ever had ex gf.bf problemz? such as you "you still have feelingz for them and just knowing that they moved on with someone else and it hurtz you so much?" well, if you have. i just want to know how you would "deal" with it. please be free and comfortable expressing your feelingz.
mahaloz.

[InfamousOwen]

I flipped out when it happened.....I dont deal very well with rejection/failure. SO yea eventually when I calmed down a lot :) I ended up going into a sort of "darker" version of my old self. Girls............<sigh>

[Winter]

My ex and I broke up last month. We still love each other but it's probably for the best that we broke up. This is what happens when two people who always think logically fall in love. It's the logical thing to do. I think about it again and find it freaking stupid.

I still love him a lot, but I've learnt to just move on. We're still good friends and I talk with him a lot. I think that after a break up, it's better to be friends. Coz it helps you to move on. Coz if you ignore or avoid that person, it'll just make you feel more lonely and long for that person.

[xquizit]

That's happenned to me back with my high school sweetheart or whatever. I was a senior and he was a junior and we broke up right before I was on my way to college so I was heartbroken. He stopped talking to me for almost a year, and the whole time I was pining for him. Finally when he decides to start talking to me again, he keeps telling me about some girl he met and I just tried to act like I didn't care. It hurt so much, but then eventually I fell for one of my closest friends in college, who I'm currently with now. Now it's my ex who's pining for me. Looks like the tables have turned. Hehehee.

[conster]

ha.. ironically im dealing wit it now, its only been a week and he has another grl ... great...

[LiNHy POO]

i always think... was it better if i stayed with my ex? if i brake up with sum1... i want to regret it.. so i guess i still like them..

[sweetlyz]

yeh that`s happened to me .. i try so hard to just get over it but yOo never really can. well, overtime maybe ..

[tinababy143]

to be honest i still have feelings for my ex..we broke up 4 years ago but he was my first love..and its not so much that i still want to be with him..but those feelings i have for him are always going to be there in my heart

[illushun_eyez]

to xquizit
yeah, i hope that happend to me i want the tablez turn im tired of my ex. i dont know. i happy with my bf now but, i dont the memoriez just keep on getting to me. even though i dont want them too. *sigh*

[barbie]

exes suck!

[177emories]

try to like someone else... if usually makes you forget about the ex cause your thinking of someone else..

[*jimmyjackiechan*]

Ha, i still got some feelings for my ex, and yea it does hurt to see them with another person. Especially when u see them with a rebound guy after like a month of breaking up, u would think ur ex would be so much more mature than that. Lol.

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

aww.... well.. i "dated" this guy.. but it didnt last very long.. i think he gave up on me bc i didnt like him as much as he liked me back then... the next thing u know it.. im sprung over him for about 4 months.. he acted like he didnt care.. so i stopped liking him.. and its been going off and on for a while... but .. i dont think theres a 2nd chance

[silver-rain]

well, my boyfriend and i broke up about a month ago, and i still miss him- even though its obvious that he's over me cause he keeps avoiding me, i usually can't wait to just get a glimpse of him. but that makes it so much harder to move on.

[islandkiss]

I think you should talk it out with him.

[conster]

after i seen my ex with another girl, who happens to be a friend ive known for 5years... i was pretty angry lol and then later i jus got over it and now i think.. if they're happy together... i guess our break up was a good thing.. at least i helped 2 lovers get together that was probably meant to be.. lol and now im jus havin fun with all my friends and im over it lol

[punchbuggy]

i hate when i still have feelings.. i dont think anything can help except for time. you'll eventually forget about him =P goodluck.

[simplysweet259]

well most people start missing their ex after they break up, especially if they've shared a lot of good times together. I think maybe it's the memories that people miss after they break up, and that's what makes them regret breaking up.

[ldyDEVi0US]

i still have feelings for my most recent ex .. iono .. we had like almost EVERYTHiNG in common but he broke up with me coz apparently i liked him more than he liked me .. i`m slowly moving on but it`s still a little hard coz he is my BEST friend still & he still flirts with me so yeah .. i think imma be okay .. i js let it run it`s course ..

[angel-roh]

i dumped justin, my bebe once cus i missed my ex...and i thot i still loved him, but no...it was jus missing him. it was justin...who i loved. not my ex...so i got back with justin anyways when my ex dumped me... i didnt wanted to date any other guys... i reallie missed him so much, but i realized i was being dumb... and stupid... so i moved on. cus i knew there will be no chances with him, so i just ignored it...and moved on...thats how i moved on and madly in love with my bebe boo, justin^^