Do guys like girls to make the first move?, like for dates, kissing... |
 Feb 9 2006, 07:19 PM
Post
#1
|
|
 the one lol  Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183  |
yes its another poll
 lol
|
|
|
|
 |
Replies
(1 - 24)
| *Programmer* |
Feb 9 2006, 07:25 PM
Post
#2
|
|
Guest |
yeah..once in awhile that would be great...
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 9 2006, 10:32 PM
Post
#3
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 280,479 |
i voted easier on us guys b/c, well it is, i dont want to overstep my boundaries so i let my g/f make the moves at first when we first started going out that way i knew i was being safe, not stupid.
im never in a rush anyway, i dont focus just on sexual things, i see it as, i actually care about the person and respect her, and if she is game for a little "playing" then hey, i am too, just hint me, lol, get it? but im gonna respect her and her body until she was ready. |
|
|
|
|
Feb 9 2006, 10:41 PM
Post
#4
|
|
 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
i rather her atleast "imply" something.... it just makes it easier.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 10 2006, 12:09 PM
Post
#5
|
|
 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
QUOTE(upf147 @ Feb 9 2006, 11:32 PM) i voted easier on us guys b/c, well it is, i dont want to overstep my boundaries so i let my g/f make the moves at first when we first started going out that way i knew i was being safe, not stupid. im never in a rush anyway, i dont focus just on sexual things, i see it as, i actually care about the person and respect her, and if she is game for a little "playing" then hey, i am too, just hint me, lol, get it? but im gonna respect her and her body until she was ready.  ...awww, thts exactly how it should be for both the guy and the girl 
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 11 2006, 02:02 AM
Post
#6
|
|
 »»»»»»»»»»» Group: Member Posts: 557 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,261 |
Yes! girls should make the move more often. We have to worry about the chance that girl might not wanna do what we wanna do... and risk getting bitch slapped or something. But if a girl does something first, guys usually won't mind at all, SO JUST DO IT!
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 11 2006, 04:02 AM
Post
#7
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
Both should agree in a mature manner. Both should use proper grammar. Both should bring up the subject at the same time.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 11 2006, 04:11 AM
Post
#8
|
|
 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ haha. that would be a really big coincidence, to bring it up at the same time.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 14 2006, 07:42 PM
Post
#9
|
|
 Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,468 |
QUOTE Both should agree in a mature manner. Both should use proper grammar. Both should bring up the subject at the same time. Holy jesus. You are too cool. The whole grammar thing.. That is just awesome.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 15 2006, 06:31 AM
Post
#10
|
|
 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
Grammar?
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2006, 02:00 AM
Post
#11
|
|
 Ako si Emmanuel Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,936 |
no coz most of the time when girls make the move, the guys don't even know them...well I don't even know them...And its weird to have someone writing you a note who you have no idea who and it seemed like she is stalking the crap out of you. And most of tthe damn time the notes are corny and so shallow. "Oh I see you around and I think your cute" It always has cute in there. What the fluck! do they even know who the guy they like is??? I mean if its a friend I guess its ok, or atleast someone you know.
|
|
|
|
|
Jun 26 2006, 08:01 PM
Post
#12
|
|
 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
^ well how would YOU approach somebody you don't know? the girl is taking a big risk by putting herself out there to some stranger. btw, if they don't know who you are, then how can they say anything about you except how you look...?
if its weird for you, then imagine how weird it is for the girl. ---------- i'd like for the girl to make the first move. takes a lot off of me. but start small. don't tackle me and stick your tongue down my throat. :D |
|
|
|
|
Jun 26 2006, 09:24 PM
Post
#13
|
|
 Break My Heart Again. Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 |
I dislike making the first move. Maybe it's because I'm shy, but still. (or, ahem, once burned, twice shy) I'm ok with guys suggesting stuff (though I'd rather it not be sexual), it's not like all girls would be rude about it.
|
|
|
|
|
Jul 14 2006, 03:34 PM
Post
#14
|
|
 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
i would like it if the girl made the first move but inside i would feel like a pussy
|
|
|
|
|
Jul 14 2006, 03:45 PM
Post
#15
|
|
 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I think guys and girls should both share the opportunities of making the first move.
|
|
|
|
|
Jul 14 2006, 11:52 PM
Post
#16
|
|
 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Jul 14 2006, 4:45 PM) I think guys and girls should both share the opportunities of making the first move. perfectaly said 
|
|
|
|
|
Jul 26 2006, 06:05 PM
Post
#17
|
|
 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
boyz should make the 1st move it's easier 4 the gurls lol
|
|
|
|
|
Jul 26 2006, 06:06 PM
Post
#18
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Human Posts: 2,817 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 381,065 |
i love making the first move.
it amazes some boys and they get all excited. |
|
|
|
|
Jul 26 2006, 06:10 PM
Post
#19
|
|
 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i wish we were still in the 1800s where girls could ignore the guy and hes still come running. that would make life easier for the girls. haha
|
|
|
|
| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 7 2006, 06:27 AM
Post
#20
|
|
Guest |
i think it should be balanced out a bit.
some times girls have to do a little work. and sometimes guys. its all about equality. |
|
|
|
|
Nov 11 2006, 10:54 PM
Post
#21
|
|
 this girl <3 those kdramas Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 450,198 |
haha i'd like it if a guy could make the first move
cuz i'm hella shy and id be afraid of rejection if a guy asked me, i kno he'd think the same thing, but i know I wouldn't do anything traumatic to him i just like guys asking first =] |
|
|
|
| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Nov 12 2006, 12:16 AM
Post
#22
|
|
Guest |
QUOTE(one_and_only @ Jul 26 2006, 5:10 PM) i wish we were still in the 1800s where girls could ignore the guy and hes still come running. that would make life easier for the girls. haha  But then what if you get some suitor who you dislike... highly?I also agree that they both should. It's not like the guy should do all the work. I'm not saying that you should just "go for it" but if he's dropping the hints but is unsure you should let him know it's ok 
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 21 2006, 01:08 AM
Post
#23
|
|
 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Doesn't matter really.
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 22 2006, 11:59 PM
Post
#24
|
|
|
tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Nov 11 2006, 9:16 PM) But then what if you get some suitor who you dislike... highly?yeah thats true. like in the movie nicholas nickleby [those whove seen it know what i mean] |
|
|
|
|
Nov 23 2006, 06:26 PM
Post
#25
|
|
 Member Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,413 |
i say its the guys jobs..
|
|
|
|
 |
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: