*gasp., CHEATER?! |
 Feb 6 2006, 11:39 PM
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if a guy likes another girl, while he's still in a relationship, but does not have any feelings for his current "girlfriend" (they just haven't broken up yet) .. do u still consider that cheating?
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Feb 6 2006, 11:50 PM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
If he doesn't act on his feelings then no, he's not cheating. But if he does then yes. If you're able to handle a relationship, you should be able to handle being honest.
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Feb 6 2006, 11:51 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
That isn't cheating. That's just anti-expressionalist, and dishonest. But, it isn't cheating.
Break up with the current if you don't have any feelings for them. Move on, and it's all good. 
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Feb 6 2006, 11:52 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
does it really matter? They're gonna break up anyways right?
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Feb 7 2006, 12:04 AM
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Cheating generally entails an actual action or behavior, not just a thought; so no, until he actually messes around with someone else, I wouldn't say he's cheating. However, it's dishonest and hurtful to be in a relationship in which one is not emotionally attached, and he really should get out of it as soon as possible.
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Feb 7 2006, 01:38 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Feb 6 2006, 10:04 PM) Cheating generally entails an actual action or behavior, not just a thought; so no, until he actually messes around with someone else, I wouldn't say he's cheating. However, it's dishonest and hurtful to be in a relationship in which one is not emotionally attached, and he really should get out of it as soon as possible.  Yes. Just because he likes someone else doesnt mean hes cheating. He simply is attracted to someone else. |
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Feb 7 2006, 02:31 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Cheating would be taking her to the movies, or kissing her or something. Not just thoughts. He would have to actually do somethign to be considered cheating. He should speak up though, I agree, you should be able to handle honesty if you can handle a relationship.
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Feb 7 2006, 05:43 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ agreed. it depends, if he doesn't act on how he feels about her, then no it's not considered cheating...
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Feb 8 2006, 03:35 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
no unless he has done sumthin with that other girl but its happened to me bfre and it rely hurts after u rely get hit bout it but its not cheating its just loosing the feelings for the person.
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