I like a guy, and I don't want to like him., Help? Options

[Boyfriendless]

I like him, alot. I have likes him for monthes, and I have been too shy to ask him out. Now I am in high school and there is a Sadies Hawkins dance. I don't think he has a date. I am scared to ask him out because I have never gone on a date, and he has been avoiding me a bit lately. I have a friend who likes him too, not as much as I do, but still. He avoides me more when she is around. He is not the brightest guy in the world, and yet I still can't help my feelings. So far he has gone out wih two girls, both of them are really pretty, and now I heard he likes this prep who I hate.


So he is sort of stupid, avoides me, and likes my worst enemy, and I still can't get over him...

Does any of this make sence?

~Sapphire

[sadolakced acid]

hmmm.

i'd say ask him out anyways, and don't care if he says no.

or forget about him whatever way you can.

either way, jump with both feet.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^I second that. If he rejects you, you'll learn to not like him...If he accepts your offer, you can have your man.

[Boyfriendless]

How do I do that? I mean, it sounds like a dumb question but still, asking if he knows about sadies might be a bit obvous, wouldn't it? I am very new at this...>.<;;

[Chii]

do something sweet and original. if he doesn't give you a chance after you ask him to the dance in a really creative way then that proves that he's not worth your time.

maybe you could do a little scavenger hunt thing and have the last thing be a sign that says "sadie hawkins?" and then you pop out from somewhere. that idea it sounded much better in my head...

[sadolakced acid]

you want to go to the dance with me?

would you like to go to the dance with me?

dance me you together?

basically, anything will work. if he likes you, he'll say yes no matter what.

although; he doesn't sound like the sort of guy you'd be friends with. in which case, i'd think about going with the simply ignoring him option.

if you're not friends, you probably won't be good boyfriend/girlfriend.

which, i assume, would be the desired result.

[FoxBandCutie08]

Sometimes we don't have a choice on who we're attracted to. If the feelings don't go away, maybe you should consider pursuing them and going somewhere together.

[mzbbc]

i'm not trying to be judgemental here, but if you don't like him for his brains, he avoids you, likes a girl you hate, do you like him for his looks?

but uhm anyway, if you really do feel something deep, just go for it. then you'll find out how things are between you two.

[EddieV]

My head hurts.

[Bridget_rules_4e...]

ask him to the dance.....if he says no then never admit you liked him....eventually you will stop liking him.

[NoSex]

He sounds like a moron.

You don't sound that bright yourself and even you are pinning him as an idiot.

Avoid. For real.

[*mipadi*]

You don't sound that bright yourself and even you are pinning him as an idiot.

Hey now, that was below the belt, try to keep the gloves up son.

[_sarcastic_]

so what if he isn't the brightest, so what if the other two girls he's gone out with are pretty.
ask him to the dance, no harm trying. if you don't you'll probably spend rest of the time regretting and asking yourself why you didn't do it. cause i know i've been through that, and i'm still regretting it.

[Boyfriendless]

I don't like him for his looks, they are definatly a reason, I like him because he makes me laugh when he does hang out with me.

Anyway, thanks.

[doom_diver]

a small quote from Xman:

"Love cannot be denied."

Just go for it and ask him