im gonna cry., please help |
 Jan 29 2006, 03:48 PM
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 shake it  Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171  |
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.
everythings great, and we both love each other alot. he doesnt treat me bad or anything (so dont be thinking that when you read the rest) his ex girlfriend has been leaving him comments on myspace being like "ohh i love you so much! we have to hang out soon! remember the good ol days.. when we went out? love your one and only nicole!" i dont think hes cheating on me since she goes to a differnet school. but do you think maybe shes just.. being friendly? i mean i think she knows im going out with him. i dont know what to do. |
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Jan 29 2006, 03:53 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
i have the same sorta thing going on
except he keeps talking to his ex but she already has a boyfriend well i think it's normal to feel jealous just tell your boyfriend how you feel but don't try to go on too straight-forward i tried that and he just told me i was just being paranoid =/ |
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Jan 29 2006, 03:59 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
yeah. this girl had a boyfriend.
but i think they broke up it really sucks because my boyfriend gets along with EVERYBODY and a lot of girls are friends with him. ive already met like his "bestfriend" who is a girl. .. and shes nice. it just bothers me that all girls are always like "i love you!" to him.  |
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Jan 29 2006, 04:23 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
To be quite honest, this is nothing to cry about. So the boy has friends. Get over it. I don't mean that to sound harsh, but just being honest. If it bothers you so much then tell him about it. Communication is important in every relationship. Let him know that it bothers you that his ex girlfriend leaves comments like that on his myspace and I bet he'll reassure you there is nothing to worry about. If anything, she probably is just being friendly and even if she does want more, you still shouldn't worry. If you even do worry about it, either a)you don't trust him or b)you're insecure. Also, ask him if he could perhaps let his ex girlfriend know that he is dating someone (you) and that he would appreciate it if she stopped with the comments that said 'i love you' because he thinks they are inappropriate since they are no longer dating. You could even try to talk to the ex girlfriend yourself. Express how you don't like when she leaves comments like that and I'm sure she'll back off as well.
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| *mipadi* |
Jan 29 2006, 04:49 PM
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Just because his ex-girlfriend still likes him, does not mean the interest is reciprocal.
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 29 2006, 04:57 PM
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wow your insecure...you obviously don't trust him..if your asking us...do us all a favor and dump him...no trust = no relationship
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Jan 29 2006, 04:58 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 29 2006, 2:49 PM) Just because his ex-girlfriend still likes him, does not mean the interest is reciprocal.  Yeah. Just simply ask him if there is anything going on. Dont get too carried awaywith feeling bad, and dont let your imagination run wild, scheming what could be going on. |
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Jan 29 2006, 05:56 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell him bout it. if it dont worry, then b!tch tht girl out. damn, id like to see my bf's ex do tht...
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Jan 29 2006, 07:22 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Sounds like she's overstepping her boundaries, I would let her know that you don't like the way she's talking to your bf, and talk to him about it and see how he feels, and if he will tell her to stop as well.
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Jan 29 2006, 08:21 PM
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i went through that before, and realized i was right, my ex was getting close with his best friend and now they're together after like one week of me breaking it off with him
tell him you're not comfortable with him and his ex so close together. |
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Jan 29 2006, 08:33 PM
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i'm sure you have guy friends too. i don't really see the big deal.
have trust&faith. don't let your jealousy get the best of you because then your relationship will end |
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Jan 30 2006, 04:14 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ agreed
Trust him and let it go for a while. If you STILL can't stand it then find a way to tell him. |
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Jan 30 2006, 05:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,833 |
look... her ex-gf is sick... she's definetly behind the back of a men that does not love her.. only you... u should feel special that he chose u unstead of her
 
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Jan 30 2006, 06:06 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
You're definately not being hollywood enough. Try harder.
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Jan 31 2006, 04:29 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 30 2006, 4:06 PM) You're definately not being hollywood enough. Try harder. dude. its a song. get over it. and to everyone else, thanks. i took the advice and things are good now. |
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Jan 31 2006, 04:33 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(love_angie @ Jan 29 2006, 8:33 PM) i'm sure you have guy friends too. i don't really see the big deal. have trust&faith. don't let your jealousy get the best of you because then your relationship will end lols that is so true...i was going to say the same thing  but yeahh..glad everythings going swell with you
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Jan 31 2006, 05:26 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(xo_rock @ Jan 31 2006, 4:29 PM) dude. its a song. get over it. and to everyone else, thanks. i took the advice and things are good now. Everyone else?! Everyone else?! I gave advice. Way to thank me. Jeeesh.
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Jan 31 2006, 05:27 PM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 31 2006, 6:26 PM) Everyone else?! Everyone else?! I gave advice. Way to thank me. Jeeesh. The advice you gave wasn't exactly the best or the nicest. |
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Jan 31 2006, 05:31 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
but it was funny
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Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
QUOTE(mocassinsx29 @ Jan 31 2006, 3:31 PM) but it was funny not really. because my signature is just a song how would you like it if i made fun of yours? uh yeah. |
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Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 5:27 PM) The advice you gave wasn't exactly the best or the nicest. Please refer to mocassinsx29's post. 
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Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
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^Not to me, it wasn't. I think the person who started this topic didn't think of it as humorous either.
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Jan 31 2006, 06:24 PM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
This isn't anything to cry over. Just ask tell him that the comments his ex-girlfriend leaves on his myspace are bothering you. Maybe she's just being friendly.
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Jan 31 2006, 07:24 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 5:33 PM) ^Not to me, it wasn't. I think the person who started this topic didn't think of it as humorous either.  Well, we all have a different sense of humor. Don't take it too seriously. Sorry to harsh your mellow. |
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Jan 31 2006, 07:41 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
This should be closed now. The topic starter has solved the problem and it is just filling up with arguments.
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