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 Jan 29 2006, 10:14 AM
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This place is just to chat. No... 'Polly' stuffs. Just discuss stuff.
I wonder, if a guy and you gets along really well, but sort of you know, play around like poke each other, make fun, etc, etc, but you think you kinda like him... What do you do? You see, I have this problem. The moment my friends knew, they wanted me to tell him and nearly told him themselves. But I didn't want to. I have never confessed. So, I avoided him, scared of stupid rumours. But recently, we attended this course and his class was next to mine, he would come in and say a 'hi' to me. WHAT DO I DO?! |
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Jan 29 2006, 10:18 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
move to relationships maybe?
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Jan 29 2006, 10:20 AM
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Yeah, a new move to Relationships sounds good.
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Jan 29 2006, 10:29 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
lmao.. it's gonna get moved.
um.. i think you like the guy btw, moonlit. you should get somethign going on. |
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Jan 29 2006, 11:36 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
tell him you like him, why not?
he's not going to be waiting forever, better now then never |
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Jan 29 2006, 12:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 288,931 |
Just talk to him a lot, try to see if he's intrested in getting to know you more. See if he's willing to hang out in his free time, (with or without other friends). See if he gets a little jealous if you flirt with other guys. Don't let your friends tell him, that never works well (ive been the mddle person countless times-usually not happy ending) Basically give it some time. Rumours come and go...if you like the guy, don't be afraid to see if something might work out!
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Jan 29 2006, 01:10 PM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
youre flirting with him. You could either a) be a flirt, or b) you like the guy and that is you rway of getting his attention. Its also possible that you only think you like him because he flirts with you. Thats happened to me before and then I realise it was the attention I liked, not really the guy. So yeah. No one should tell him but you also. so if worse comes to worse, just ask him what he thinks about you. He he blushed and gets all nervous, it doesnt matter what he says. If he flat out says "youre the coolest chick friend I have' or something to that effect, with no hesitation, then he probably doesnt see you that way. Just talk to him. Just dont profess you love to him in a love letter. that will scare him off lol.
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Jan 29 2006, 03:00 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
You say think you kinda like him. You say youre too scared to talk to him. Get over being scared and talk to him. It doesnt even have to be anything major. Talk to him about anything. Movies,music,classes,funny stories. Anything.
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Jan 29 2006, 07:28 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Take a chance, tell him. Either way, it's better than bottling it up.
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Jan 29 2006, 08:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 950 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,808 |
Go with the flow, and behave normally, as if he was just a really good friend.
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Jan 30 2006, 04:26 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Jan 30 2006, 12:57 AM) See if he gets a little jealous if you flirt with other guys.  Haha the #1 way to tell if a guy likes you or not, unless he's the type to bottle it up and take it out on his pillow at night. |
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