lost & confused? =/, guy problems = HELP ME |
 Jan 23 2006, 07:37 AM
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 Heykidd. <3  Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701  |
 i just moved to maui and i had a relationship with this guy back at honolulu. when i moved this guy and i were still together until my ex-"friend" sort of you can say "seduce" him so he breaks up with me. this guy and i broke up about a week and a half ago and i dont think im over it yet. i really dont know why i still like him but its that feeling.. he's nice, hes always there for me.. blah blah blah. though i know he has bad qualities, i still love him for who he is. i want to move on but its hard. now im in maui, starting a new life, new school, everything new. i meet guys here and there and they want to go out with me and i sort of said yes to this guy, completely not knowing what i was doing.. it just happened. he just held my hand. sure i thought i liked him but, im still not over my ex. i want to get that straight before anything and just have fun. i dont want any relationship but how do i tell this guy im with now? i dont want to break his heart. and, i'm going with him to this luau on feb. 24 because its for the school. i dont know what to do or say. my feelings are weird right now. even if i went to the luau alone, i'll be fine, as long as i get this stuff out of my system. it might seem like im selfish but i dont want to hurt anyone right now either. all i want is to get over "him" and move on. what do i do? any suggestions? =/ please reply. thanks. 
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Jan 23 2006, 08:25 AM
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Tell him that you still have feelings for another guy and your confused right now. Tell him you need time to think and if hes the guy who cares about you which i dont know then he'll respect your decesion.
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Jan 23 2006, 09:07 AM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(aznplayaz @ Jan 23 2006, 8:25 AM) Tell him that you still have feelings for another guy and your confused right now. Tell him you need time to think and if hes the guy who cares about you which i dont know then he'll respect your decesion.  Yeah. It seems pretty obvious to all of us. Don't be so arrogant to assume that you would break his heart. You won't. You don't seem selfish, you seem young. Very very young. Don't worry, share your school pudding for a few more years. It's all bullshit anyways. I always give such great advice! 
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Jan 23 2006, 09:32 AM
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Don't take the relationship stuff so seriously. First of all, don't hold yourself back because of this other guy—now is the perfect time to get out there and get to know people, to take your mind off of your previous relationship, and make some good friends in the process. But don't feel that you need to jump into a serious relationship really quickly—take some time to meet people and get to know them. If you think this new guy is kind of cool, but don't want the overhead of being an exclusive couple, tell him you'd love to hang out with him sometimes, but you're not ready for a "serious relationship" so soon.
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Jan 23 2006, 07:51 PM
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Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
how do i talk to him? just straight up or what? i have school with him tomorrow and i sort of dont want people to know.
 should i just call him tonight or something?
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| *mipadi* |
Jan 23 2006, 09:26 PM
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Give him a call, if you feel comfortable with that. It's probably the best way.
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