impatient with your boyfriend Options

[imadorkabledxd]

do you ever get impatient with your boyfriend because he asks way too many questions when you hang out with a guy friend? is it wrong to be impatient? and would you find it insulting if he asks you all these questions about when you hang out with guys...when you have never cheated on him or anything?

[*krnxswat*]

You want him to be proctective. That's a good sign.
But, you also don't want him to be over protective. That's not a good sign.

[*Azarel*]

I've never gotten impatient and such with any of the guys that I've gone out with for asking those sort of questions. Mainly because they trusted me enough to know better. With the exception of one, who was actually cheating on me. Talk it out.

[starlette]

well...everyonce in a while my boyfriend gets protective. like we will be on the phone and I will be typing and you can hear the little yahoo ding in the background. Its no big secret but its like "whatcha doin?" I'm chatting. "with who?" a friend of mine online "Who is it?" this guy I met the other day "howd you meet him?" I don't know on myspace or something!! "whats his name?" I don't know I'm just talking to him! "what does he want?" NOTHING HES JUST BORED AND WANTS SOMEONE TO TALK TO!!!!


yeah. Thats a little annoying.

[_sarcastic_]

if he asks too many questions yeah it can get annoying, but at least i know he cares. i don't think it's wrong to be impatient, but just look at his side of things, he's probably worried that you make want to spend more time with the other guy.

[mzbbc]

well he's being protective and yea that can be annoying, but it just shows that he cares. as long as he isn't telling you that you can't be hangin out with your guy friends, just deal with it.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Be a little more patient. He just wants to know what your doing and things.

But, just watch out, because the reason he may be so questiony about what your doing, is to cover up for what he might be doing.

[anniepiee]

He's protective, sometimes too protective.
I was going to chill with this guy one day while my boyfriend was on a trip in asia, so i told him over msn. He starts asking a lot of questions as usual attemping to stop me from going. I got annoyed, and he then starts saying," okay, go. I shouldnt be stopping you." but you KNOW that after the guy says that it makes you feel guilty about going. Moreover, while he was on his trip he went to see a movie with a girl alone. he told me about it after, I didn't do anything but ask how the movie went, coz i trusted him enough.
I'm sure he trusts me too, I guess he just wants me to be safe. still, it gets annoying.

[x3Unreachable3x]

Be a little more patient. He just wants to know what your doing and things.

But, just watch out, because the reason he may be so questiony about what your doing, is to cover up for what he might be doing.

She's right. It can be a sense of plain insecurity, but it could be that he's doing something.

[charanjust4yu]

i think he might just be curious or may i say jealous

[lit0chinagirl]

i probably would but deep down inside i would be glad because that shows that he really cares since he's so insecure about it. sure, it's insulting but if he loves and trusts you enough, he'll be able to tell that you didnt intend any harm by going with a guy friend.

nothing's wrong with a little jealousy.

[silver-rain]

Hmm, my boyfriend doesn't ask too many questions. Usually, it's me.
But yeah, just be patient and talk to him. Tell him that the only important guy in your life is him and that's all that he should care about. The other guys are just friends.